It's High Time for Chedi

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Posted: 13 years ago
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It's high time for Chedi to treat Pashu the way he treats his brothers. Pashu thinks that he did nothing wrong by slaping Ved that too infront of his wife. I think when Chedi comes back and finds Ved gone he should give a tight slap to Pashu infront of everyone and that is the only way to teach him that even your younger need respect and must be treated accordingly. I know some may feel it would be wrong but I think that is the only way to get through to Pashu once and for All... taking and explaining to him will do nothing.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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YES YES YES!!! Finally. you said what has been on my mind since i started watching the show (exactly 6 days ago 😆)

The slap that chedi should give to pashu is not wrong at all. Sometimes even the oldest kids need to be given a lesson. And words never worked on Pashu, He Acts first and then thinks later. Chedi should give Pashu a gyan that he saves for the other family members. Pashu should know how to behave with others and that being the oldest doesnt give the right to misbehave. I also think that Pashu has a listening disorder. He demands that everyone should listen and obey him because he is older and "samajdar" (sorry couldnt remember the english word lol) but he refuses to listen to Chedi and Dadaji (evidence: The recent episodes/the emergence of Meena Bai)


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Couldn't agree with you more. Pashu should be taught a lesson once and for all.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: deadly-kiss

YES YES YES!!! Finally. you said what has been on my mind since i started watching the show (exactly 6 days ago 😆)

The slap that chedi should give to pashu is not wrong at all. Sometimes even the oldest kids need to be given a lesson. And words never worked on Pashu, He Acts first and then thinks later. Chedi should give Pashu a gyan that he saves for the other family members. Pashu should know how to behave with others and that being the oldest doesnt give the right to misbehave. I also think that Pashu has a listening disorder. He demands that everyone should listen and obey him because he is older and "samajdar" (sorry couldnt remember the english word lol) but he refuses to listen to Chedi and Dadaji (evidence: The recent episodes/the emergence of Meena Bai)



well the problem is that he doesnt think that he can be wrong... Yes you are elder and you should be respected... but you have to earn your respect and Ved was right he his actions and out burst were causing him to lose the respect that he holds in his brother's heart...

I am raised in a similar situation with a single parent and helped my mom raise my siblings... and after all these years they hold a lot of love and respect for me but I have to maintain that love and respect and treat them like humans... they too have feelings that I respect and love them back...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maan-and-geet



well the problem is that he doesnt think that he can be wrong... Yes you are elder and you should be respected... but you have to earn your respect and Ved was right he his actions and out burst were causing him to lose the respect that he holds in his brother's heart...

I am raised in a similar situation with a single parent and helped my mom raise my siblings... and after all these years they hold a lot of love and respect for me but I have to maintain that love andrespectand treat them like humans... they too have feelings that I respect and love them back...






Good for you, even though you are like another parent to them, you still treat them with dignity and respect. I am also in a similar situation. I'm 19 now but I've been helPing my momma raise my brothers since I was 10. If only pashu could come to the understanding that he is not a god, then everything would be a lot easier.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why blame Pashu? SBS means Pashu creating issue and Toasty solving it..
Track 1) Pashu objects to Tej's marriage
Track 2) Pashu suspects Toasty and drives her out of the home
Track 3 ) Pashu's problem with Malti
Track 4) Pashu and Tej competition
Track 5 ) Pashu slaps Prachin and Prachin out of house
Track 6) Pashu and Ved issue
So, in summary SBS means Pashu the villain creating problem and Toasty the great solving it. That is SBS is. If Pashu changes.. SBS will die a death..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maan-and-geet

It's high time for Chedi to treat Pashu the way he treats his brothers. Pashu thinks that he did nothing wrong by slaping Ved that too infront of his wife. I think when Chedi comes back and finds Ved gone he should give a tight slap to Pashu infront of everyone and that is the only way to teach him that even your younger need respect and must be treated accordingly. I know some may feel it would be wrong but I think that is the only way to get through to Pashu once and for All... taking and explaining to him will do nothing.



I agree with you 100%. It's not right for a person to slap another person - that too when they are a grown adult. What I don't understand is why Dadaji doesn't say anything. In Chedi's absence he is the oldest of the house and not Pashu.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Daada Ji cannot do much

Pashu is uncontrollable ..not even Chedi can control him...i mean he didnt speak to Chedi for years and years

A part of me gets Pashus frustrations cause he is the oldest and gave his life to his brothers and brought them up like a second father

however Pashu cannot have double standards...he is constantly griping about so and sos wife saying something...it was Toasty and now its Nuts

Buddy did you forgot what YOUR wife did...seriously Pashu does need a fatherly smack from someone so he can wake up
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In all this Ved leaving the house and pashu's ego they have forgotten why they had the fight in the first place. Over a trivial issue of having a maid do some chores int he house to help out the ladies and now it has turned out into egos between brothers . Pashu remembers all the things from his childhood and cries but he doesn't rewind to 2-3 days back when he cud have just been more supportive till toasty gets better then of course toasty the superwoman wud have managed all the work by herself .

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