Did Ahem wait for Anita?

Looking at the way Ahem reacted today,It seemed to me that he moved on only after he saw Anita moved on!!I will explain what I'm trying to say!
Ahem was forgetting or trying to accept Gopi as his wife recently. He has feelings for her,what is unknown is whether he knows these feelings or not.What ever happened at holi he doesn't know,so obviously he doesn't know he consumated a marriage he wasn't happy with at the very beginning!!
Another thing is that,during these times that were very hard for him(choosing love or mother),he hurt two women that is his wife and his ex-girlfriend.The question is did he forget Anita after living with Gopi,after having a wife?
And today when his past flashbacked in front of him,he suddenly remembers!!
The tearing of the photo is very deep. This doesn't just state frustration,anger,hurt...but this symbolises that Ahem has taken a move,a move away from the girl he thought or maybe he did love. He tore her picture. He was removing her away from his life permanantly now. He has opened up a diary which he did not open for long!!
Today Ahem had the courage to open the diary of his past,leaving all the hurt away. He open it and threw it away.
What I observed is that Anita touched Ahem face in the photo BUT Ahem did not. Which means that Ahem has moved on or thinks its unnecesary now. He no longer has interest in Anita. Its a shock for anyone to see you flashback especially wjen the person was someone who was close to you and who you wanted to avoid.
Another question was he hurt??Does he still has feelings??Or
Is he thinking that Anita has moved on WITHOUT marriage,so why I'm I still stuck at point A??
Please give your comments
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naksh nice post well ahem had forget his past that why he never open the diary of his past . but when it comes i front of him all his past memory has come , he move on but there was a distance in his move n yes may be he will think that how can anita is so happy . when she is not married yet n im still on the same place i have move but not totally with full heart , when he tore the photo he his destroying his past for good now as he will also move to give him a chance in his life n the love which he is not yet declear it now . he will think about the moment he spend with gopi n may be with anita n compare it . then he will know with whom his destiny was written he will think about all bad thing he did with gopi but still she is waiting for her with out any expectation she never force her on him she is always here for him may because of that he will be afraid to say to gopi that he met anita she can get hurt . i think it is the most difficult thing for him how he will say gopi that anita is in rajkut how not hurt her . right now he still dont know about the love he has for gopi but now he wil going to think how he felt when she was in coma , how it hurt him when he saw her in pain , he miss her when she is not around him , his eyes just search her then he will know it love he felt for her he is in love with her .

First of all love your post... it never occured to me .. when he rip up the photo of him and anita , he was saying good bye to his past ... that really made me think so much when I was at work ... and my friend at work was not there , so I could not talk to her about what is happening in today epi. i was very upset but after coming to the forum and reading so many excellent post , i am feel so much better about ahem , I am not anger anymore.

the way he hided only his personal dairy and stuffs related to anita in a locker...made me to think...that he loved anita very much and he was waitaing for her...

i think he still loves her ...because he was getting disturbed on seeing anitas name on the wedding card, he was not behaving normally...

well said a confuse ep we cant say any thing what is going to happen

There were traits about ahem that I really didn't like in yesterday's episode and I too found the episode confusing and unsettling. I think it was more the flashbacks - him driving away from a crestfallen anita with not even a backward look. Or again referring to the flashbacks, was it the way he was so genuinely happy, loving, embracing and SMILING with anita! Ive never seen him smile or show so much emotion with gopi. Im not really explaining my point well, but ahem really annoyed me! Typical bloke, walking away unscathed! But the fact that he tore up the pictures and the way he did it - he looked angry, yet he had no right to be.. It didnt look like proper closure as its seems apparent theres still some feeling there for anita. ANd perhaps thats what annoyed me. Especially after coming so close to gopi.

Yes Ahem is in a confused state when he saw Anita he completely fogot about Gopi.It is quite natural when your past come in front of you with out any notice.But why was he angry while he was tearing the photo and in the precap thye showed shocked Ahem when he see's Anitas name on the wedding invitation.Cannot say anything till we watch the episode on Monday.