Letting go is the hardest thing to do...

Hello , I am guessing that most have forgotten me by now since I had disappeared in the middle lolll... but not to worry cuz Aaliya is back ... well at least for today and shall disappear again cuz her stupid god damn finals are on grrr lolll... Anyways, I was just randomly browsing through the forum and I saw some very interesting topics, along with our brilliant OS, FF, SS that we usually find in the forum.. ... haha finally I say that we have something worthwhile to discuss, hence people have started discussion posts again... in the middle with the drag and what not roflll no one had any thing else to talk about... hence only our brilliant os/ff/ss writers and news sharers saved this forum and actually saved it pretty well... I mean 2nd... two weeks in a row.. *a standing ovation* on my behalf! You guys are truly the gems of this forum... can't tell you guys how much we appreciate your works!!!

Anyways, enough of my blabber back to that amazing quote that touched me personally in so many levels... reading some of the posts I felt that some people were frustrated by the behna lack of convo right now... loll if you still remember yours truly you might remember me as a behna lover whose love slowly dissipated cuz of the brilliant way the cvs handled their track over time but in retrospect let's just say that the way they have started handling their show again in the last 2 weeks or so, I am starting to fall back in love with EHMMBH. This post is aiming to justify the actions taken by both the sisters in this current situation and also hopefully the intention of the cvs (though I am doubtful about their intentions half the time myself loll)... This is NOT, let me repeat NOT, me trying to tell other fans that they should not be frustrated about the behnas not having convos cuz I want them to have some too... but it is just a means to look positively at what now seems to be quite hopeless... roflll as a VirMan fan banging my head on the cvs fb wall for the past 6 MONTHS... trust me when I tell you I think we sympathize with you the most... I mean we have had 2 weeks and 4 days (the maximum.. if I remember correctly) pass by without any interaction or even mention of each other for VirMan... behnas haven't talked in like a week almost I believe, so I understand the frustration! Okieee back to my post... lolll I write a LOTTT... so warning

From my initial interpretation of the JeeMan bond, it is like the saying for Kkusum, ek aam ladki ki khaas kahani... instead here it is ek aam BOND ki special kahani... Jeevika and Manvi are different from others because to them their worlds start and end on each other. When they are together, they don't need anyone else and when they are with others, they don't need to show that they need each other because they are pretty much the same person.. do jism ek jaan type things. That's why even in the Hua Kya Hua sequence (which I must say the cvs bruttaly murdered... ughhh) Manvi was only thinking about Jeevika and Jeevika looking for Manvi.

I personally felt that the last hug between Manvi and Jeevika was one of the most symbolic moments of the show and foreshadowed what is happening currently. It is the concept of the whole letting go of your love to let the one you love live in happiness, and this act of letting go is happening from the side of both sisters and thus there is a lack of convo right now. The hug spoke volumes to me because it was the last moment the sisters will have before facing the bitter truth of Manvi's cancer... Manvi not wanting to let go and then Jeevika being confused and then Manvi running back and leaving in a matter of seconds showed the difficulty through which the sisters are having to let go of each other... not only in that one farewell scene but in general. Manvi not calling Jeevika right now is justified to me only and only for that reason. That was in her mind her final good bye! This girl's world revolves around her di and she cannot face her right now. Cuz if we recall the wedding and medicine incidents whenever Manvi got sick she would avoid that topic and sometimes even run away from the situation. Manvi is positive about beating cancer, but deep down inside she is scared, as seen by many of her crying scenes. In her washroom scene she said that she can live dying with cancer but she can't see her sister devastated cuz of it... her sister means more to her than her OWN LIFE! Manvi is ignoring Jeevika for the most part because she doesn't want her to be dependent on Manvi cuz she will be devastated with the news of cancer and if god forbid anything were to happen to her she would literally die as well... but sadly Manvi herself finds that she can't do anything without Jeevika... hence called her to distract herself... But then through the hair convo she realized that even now for Jeevika... Manvi is involved for every small thing... thus now Manvi is trying to distance herself... Manvi BELIEVES IN THE FUTURE BUT SHE IS HESITANT TO INVOLVE JEEVIKA IN HER BELIEF BECAUSE SHE KNOWS THAT IF JEEVIKA IS INVOLVED AND SOMETHING DOES HAPPEN TO MANVI IN THE FUTURE... SHE WILL BE DEVASTATED... THUS MANVI IS DISTANCING HERSELF TO CUSHION JEEVIKA FROM PERHAPS LOSING HER IN THE FUTURE! That is what is so special about the sisters for me... every small little thing they do is linked to one another... many times subconsciously rather than consciously... which is what makes is special and divine for me! Now in the process of trying to distance herself Manvi is becoming more reliant on Virat, hence a plus for VirMan lovers... FINALLY... roflll... anyways back to the sisters... Jeevika's action is also justified. In the honeymoon fiasco I initially was sad about the lack of JeeMan convo but then I was perfectly fine with it the moment I realized that Jeevika is doing this not to only live happily with Viren but also because she wants Manvi to be independent. She was beyond happy when she found out that Manvi learnt house chores and cooking... she wants her little baby sister to grow up! And that is what she is doing now as well... JEEVIKA IS ENGAGING IN THE PRESENT (I wrote presence and no one corrected me... roflll sab so rahe ho kya?? lolll) AND LETTING MANVI GET USED TO LIVING WITHOUT HER SO THAT SHE CAN HERSELF DO SOMETHING WITH HER OWN LIFE INDEPENDENTLY!

Thus, to me both sisters' actions right now in not engaging with one another is justified... if this is the intention of the cvs that is! That being said, I completely sympathize with the want for more JeeMan on-screen scenes... but I guess the only thing we can do is hope... and I am sure that there will be TONS of scenes where they will both recall the past and build new memories (SETTLE IN THE PAST... roflll this quote actually had no purpose in this sentence but I am one who likes to use all my arguments... =P)... Anyways, let me clarify again this is not a post to tell others to stop complaining... please do so to your heart's content... this is just to aid them in the time of bust so that we can be all excited for the boom period which is to come very soon. As a VirMan fan I know this feeling of despair a bit too wel... damn I am bringing VirMan in again loll =P

PS: LOLL everyone who knows or remembers me... better give me a round of applause for mentioning VirMan like twice in this post... you know that it is a HUGE accomplishment for me not to go on a tangent about them =P... see my behna love is actually returning!!! Haha... ohh and another thing I keep reading comments an posts that people are calling VirMan fans spammers... with all due respect (1) don't generalize... cuz that makes ALL virman fans angry... I for one hate spamming BUT if I am dragged into something unnecessarily I start taking things personally =P, (2) these so called spammers are the ones who increased our rank in IF to the position of 2 and has kept it there for the past two weeks... so instead of making sarcastic remarks about them or their work, we should be thankful to them.. no?... (3)... Don't assume that just because I am a hardcore VirMan fan, I am justifying the lack of behnas for the sake of VirMan... I am known to speak my mind whether it is in favour or against VirMan ;)... so instead of being judgmental... if you decide to read my jumbo post be open minded =D ohhh and finally (4) If you are INCAPABLE of having a discussion and are just interested in bashing please do yourself a favour and click the back button and ignore this post from hence forward... To the rest... all discussions are most welcome... I am amidst exams so will try to reply as soon as I get some time!!!

Cheers,

Aaliya

Originally posted by Eyes-Wide-Shut

I guess partly it's the fault of members like me who choose to remain silent and rarely create a topic or comment on it. I think every fan has a right to voice their opinion, so if they want more romantic scenes I don't think we can blame them. I think what we can change is to make the silent members more active and then we can get a variety of topics like the ones you have mentioned in your topic.

And here was my reply -

Its not abt voicing their opinion...its the way they voice...it...i am not saying they shouldn't...But it shouldn't be limited to just tht….there should be variety…with serious discussion topics…there should be…fun topics….nd lame topics too….!!!!

And my post only says tht this forum misses gud discussion topics!!