I like Gauri but HATE JAGYA.

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disha123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

G's fans should know ... there have been many cases where a husband has married second wife or who has relationship other than wife...

When the 1st wife has reacted in calm and cool manner, it has shows her respect towards her relation and her family (Her and His parents). Such women have alway gone ahead and done something fruitfull with life...they have a High Character...

the other women alway knows that she has shoes to fill ... she has outcasted some one and trying to take a seat ..on which someone was already sitting.

Other Women who have respected the 1st wife understood her suffering and pain. And who also respects the family. They have been accepted. And the 1st wivies are also able to handle the seperation better and moved on life.

Other women life G ... fail to do things ...and they end up remainnng Other Women forever.

Dont say that A never had any pain ... there has being uncountable episodes where A has cried and felt alone and suffered ... only difference is that G makes tamaasha of it and A suffers alone...

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supriya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

if negative characters like gauri looks real, it doesnt mean that they are justified.

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Manasi

@Manasi_16

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: ankit111

why we choose unreal aspect of a positive character to dislike her and real aspect of a negative character to love her😆😆 yes we cant understand this logic😉😉 for us over positiveness (u can say over mahanta😉) irritate us, but it cant make us hate the character, becoz over mahanta of Anandi dosnt harm any other person but herself. on the other hand over negativeness (we call it evilness) make us hate tht character, becoz it effect others life too.

Exactly!!! Excellently put Ankit👏

I just cannot understand the craze for 'real' characters...I mean...how can you like someone pure bcoz you find her REAL? does it mean, you will like even villians just bcoz they are real? Its just what ankit said...for me, Jagya is the most real chqaracter of the trio...so then why doesn't he have any supporters?

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dolly

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: ankit111
I m big fan of Osama Bin Laden, becoz he is real😉

gud one!!👏👏👏even i've bcum a big fan of Osama bin laden alongwid Hitler!!😉😆

he killed jews bcoz he'd reason behind it & he behaved like any "normal & sane" prsn wud've behaved or felt.bcoz jews due 2 their talent & hardwork bcame more prosperous than oder Germans so any1 can feel insecurity in such condns. G is also feeling insecure bcoz she knew that all like A bcoz of her gudness!!😉

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Panchi_Joon

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Just one thing to say the serial are shown for entertainment not to decide who is real or fake. I donnot think Anandi's character is fake . Those were the nature which is expected from a person for peaceful living otherwise if everybody are so real like gauri i just imagine how a joint family use to survive.

I think anandi and gauri are making people question their ownself i.e are they normal, abnormal or real, fake. It is said that the world is ful of such so called real characters like gauri so why again one wants to see in serial . See it in real only. By observing both the characters i just think that both of them have flaws and goodness, but atleast people can learn not frm gauri but from anandi's character the importance and defects of being good, what actually a true human being is and the skill of keeping a family together. Gauri is an individual but her characterisation leads to lose respect towards her .

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runes

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Exactly!!! Excellently put Ankit👏

I just cannot understand the craze for 'real' characters...I mean...how can you like someone pure bcoz you find her REAL? does it mean, you will like even villians just bcoz they are real? Its just what ankit said...for me, Jagya is the most real chqaracter of the trio...so then why doesn't he have any supporters?

I totally agree with u. Jagya is the most realistic character of all. So everyone should like him and defend him just because he is more realistic than any character in BV.

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Panchi_Joon

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: hima_123

hmm...I understand what you're saying, I know all would not understand your point.

Even I'd like to watch a leading lady on an Indian TV show...who is not mahaan. I am tired of watching mahaan women as the leading characters. I have never seen a girl like Anandi in my life. I have seen some women in my village who passively give in to the other's wishes...not because they are mahaan, but because they believe they don't have a choice, and they have passively resigned to their fate. But they are not leading a good life like Anandi. People take them for granted. And ultimately they are angry at their fate...and turn into bitter people somewhere inside them.

I have seen women who fight, get angry, feel victimized, who stand for sometimes right, sometimes wrong things, who are possessive about their man...who fall for men who don't deserve it. But I have never, never, never,never seen anyone like Anandi.

I believe all the women who calls themselves real/unreal/imaginary here or anywhere, would argue, cry, scream---atleast react..., when they believe they are wronged. I disagree that anyone is like Anandi here.

I think the argument that everyone is presenting here has a flawed premise. It sounds like "We are not like Gauri...so are we un-real???".
The original poster is NOT saying that anyone who is like Gauri is not real. She said Anandi is not real. Its because probably she has never seen anyone like Anandi. Even I have never seen anyone like Anandi. I have seen a lot of women behaving like Gauri in different circumstances...but no-one like Anandi.

Also people saying that people like Anandi exist...because there have been freedom-fighters who perhaps behave like Anandi. Please do not compare them to Anandi's character. Do you have an example of a person around you... who acts. lives behaves like Anandi??...

.The topic starter just wants to hear the story of someone of the character she has EVER seen or can relate to. What's wrong with that??

But why you need to feel whether anandi is real or not just watch the serial and acknowledge that this are certain good qualities which a human being must have thats it. And regarding Gauri just acknowlegd that always sreaming and protesting doesnot help sometimes one must keep quiet. And moreover the no one has met each and every human being in this world so to say this type of character doesnot exist is baseless. And one more thing why people appreciate the wrong doers in the name of real .

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ankit111

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

u know I hv never met any people who defend negative characters. can I say this forum is full of fictional characters 😉 😉 😉 before reporting my statement let me clarify tht I m not saying it becoz I don't believe tht if I hv not met or seen anything or anything which is happening not according to my thinking is unreal 😆 😆 so if I wd hv followed tht logic thn of course I wd hv assume tht this forum is full of fictional characters, becoz sometime I hear such logic which even I cd not hv imagine, if I wd hv not joined this forum. 😆 😆 but as I m not follower of such logic school, I believe tht all r real people, having different thought which, I cd not even imagine 😆 😆 😆