set an example??????

I really don't understand if cv's want to set an example by choosing remarriage topic. then why they r showing people's typical orthodox & selfish mentality. if anyone want to set example then they should not be selfish. otherwise what is difference between them & other typical sick mentality people.
i mean to say agar inka maksad hi PUNERVIVAH se ek misaal kayam karana hai. to inhe har cheez alag hi dikhani chahiye jis tarah shobhaji ka kirdar banaya gaya hai waisehi ye new in lows bhi dikhane chahiye na warana agar ye Sindhiya family ko selfish dikhayenge to kya fark reh jayega aam purane khayalat wale log aur inme. kyunki iss tarah se apane swarth ke liye isse pehele bhi bohot sare logone PUNERVIVAH karwaye hai. to isme kaunsi misaal kayam ki inn logone. sirf achhe maksad se aur achhe logonsehi misaale kayam ho sakati hai. aur ye dekho to sirf apani zoothi shaan ke liye aur apane bete aur potiyonke liye indirectly apne swarth ke liye ye PUNERVIVAH karawa rahe hai.this is very wrong. matlab inka motive aur ye asal me jo dikha rahe hai wo match hi nahi ho raha i am very disappointed.😒ek tarah se ye to apane bete Yash ke bhi sage nahi hai agar ye apani zoothi shaan dikhane ke liye ye shadi karwa rahe hai to.iska matlab inhe Yash ki bhi uske bhawishya ki chinta ya uske bhawnaaonki kadar kuch nahi hai😡😡...aaj to Gayatri mata ne hadd hi kar di Ansh ko na le jane ki baat karke.😡 🤢i really don't understand what they really want to show?????😕
let's see...😔