Payment time for Dev?

Originally posted by: sia_lovely

So today's episode made us all 😡 and we couldn't help it because everything seemed too forced. Especially Kanha's sudden intervention for separating the lovers. Yesterday I was hoping for something good since Kanha's here, but oh I forgot this is CB's Kanha, who comes out to twist the already tangled situation! So Kanha comes and easily says that Rads you have to separate from ur hubby and gave the most wierdest explanation in this world, which I am sure none of us could digest! 😳 (And by the end of Kanha-Rads convo, I was wondering why did Kanha come down! ) And then...the strong, never bending Radhika goes up and irks her husband by talking everything that Kanha said to her...but not giving him a clear picture as to why she is choosing to stay here. Probably that would have made him understand her...and he wouldn't have been miffed!

Well, nonetheless, while watching the episode I did find something interesting and that's the treatment metted out to Dev. Though Dev is being treated like trash since the past few days by the Bharadwaj's...but today it was like his own deeds returning back to haunt him.

I couldn't help but relate today's incidents to the past days when Barkha was the ruling queen.

Back then, when everyone was still oblivious to Barkha's truth...Radhika had expected that if she tells out Barkha's truth directly to Dev, he would trust her come no matter what. And poor girl, she blabbered out everything to him. But what she got in return was...Scolds from Dev for doubting the "supposedly sacrificial queen" Barkha. He glared, shouted and warned Radhika that she dare not say a word against Barkha...and Radhika was left crying. She tried making him understand...but he kept behaving badly and even went on to raise his hand at her! And by the end of Barkha's track, he just had a two sec- apology session!

Now, Dev had immense trust that Radhika would come with him. He was repeatedly saying this yesterday that he had immense faith in his wife, who would surely support him and HIM only. But what happened? His trust got broken today when Rads decided to stay back with Mr. Bharadwaj! He felt insulted in front of Mr. Bharadwaj, because Rads decided to not go back with him! Didn't he deserve it in a way? Is this the punishment for him? (The only thing pinching me here is that again Rads will have to suffer Dev's punishment as well...being away from him is a punishment for her too!) Bharadwaj's remarks about how Dev hadn't given Rads her rights for a long time and that he had been a servant in the house...rubbed salt in his wound too!

So is this payment time for Dev?

Well, although this separation barely makes any sense...but I think that whatever Rubi was planning (to own the mutt and to make Dev a "Chaprasi") won't be coming to fruition since Rads is there. She won't let any harm come to her husband and Mutt. So I guess Kanha asking Rads to stay back was in a way for the betterment of Purohits, since being away from Bharadwaj's would have left them clueless as to what was going to fall upon them. Well, this is my guess... as i am trying to find some logic in today's episode.

Your cents? 😊

Sia i also go with your last lines as its logical ..I liked your post and comments about Dev ..May be this is realization period for Dev when he will alone and think of his past mistakes , how he took Radhika for granted ...Lets see if her trust is intact now and will realize with time that Radhika stayed there with some motive and will never ant harm come to RP family ...I felt sad for dev when RB reminded him of being a servant ...

I come back on the forum after some time and what do i see, radev getting separated by kanha 😲 😲 Really?! Wasnt he the one to come on Earth for Radh coz she is a true devotee and now she's beeing tested, Again!?Sincerely i didnt want for radh to be the one to reform them...wanted smth fresher...but anyway lets give it a chance,but y separate them?! As a punishment for dev?! Pls no,she will suffer thousand times more ...I like mr. Rb character so far coz he has said sm truths to dev and sincerely i knt see him reformed,that would b dull to watch!!I will watch the next episode,although it pains coz radev are the heart of this story and i dnt want them separated...lets c how they get out of this mess, hows radh gonna try to change her new familly and what is kanha Really up to..

Sia! thank you for this post , very similar to my thoughts . I actually liked the emotional separation because I think something positive will come out of it . Everyone is upset that Radev are separated but why this separation ?? Well I think its for Dev to have his realization about his previous actions with Barka .Its interesting to indeed see the contrast of the pass with the present . I agree , Dev's pass is coming to hunt him and this is a great opportunity to show Dev's realization . Its good that Radhika wont be there with him because he has to have his acknowledgment of his actions alone . If RAdhika is there then the realization will probably not be as intense . I didn't feel that sorry for Dev because theres something in his character that missing and hopefully with the current track it will come back .I'm glad that the situation is reverse on him now , he should know how it feels to be mistrusted. I didn't have any problems with today's episode what so ever... . Dev needs his space to have his realization without RAdhika consoling him ..I wont ever forget what he did to RAdhika. HE told Ruby that he doesn't raise his hands on woman ...But he did on RAdhika ...Everything that's happening to Dev is deserving because where was he when Radhika needed him the most ? Where was he when she was being murdered? Where was he when she needed his support the most ??? Anyways , for me this track is making sense because Bardwaj mentions the facts o Dev in yesterdays episode and maybe once Dev goes home he will reflect on the words and his actions towards RAdhika ... hopefully the Cvs are heading towards a realization track for Dev parallel with RAdhika in the Bhardwaj family ...Im sure something positive will come out from this. Thank you once again Sia for your post ...😊

Sia agree with your thoughts, I did feel a bit weird at the reason for the separation but like billo has written hopefully this is the track for Dev, Padma and Dai to realise about their behaviour with Radhika.

Awesome post , Sia .. very nicely written

You echoed a lot of my own thoughts

Except for the kanha reasons part, i loved the rest of the episode ... dev has to realize what rads went through for him. For the first time, she is not supporting him and he should go through the same fear that she may leave him.

Dev has not confronted his own demons still ... by reversing the wrong decision that he made, he believes that he has corrected everything. I do want to see him repenting and realizing that while he loved dadaji, that man also did a lot of things that were adharm.. also, rads should realize that just bcos he is her husband, she does not need to feel that everything he does is the right thing. She also does not need to feel compelled to do things just based on RP dharam

Let's see what direction next week takes ... but i did take this to be payment time for dev - just like you did ...

Originally posted by: rajsri

Awesome post , Sia .. very nicely written

You echoed a lot of my own thoughts

Except for the kanha reasons part, i loved the rest of the episode ... dev has to realize what rads went through for him. For the first time, she is not supporting him and he should go through the same fear that she did that she may leave him.

Dev has not confronted his own demons still ... by reversing the wrong decision that he made, he believes that he has corrected everything. I do want to see him repenting and realizing that while he loved dadaji, that man also did a lot of things that were adharm.. also, rads should realize that just bcos he is her husband, she does not need to feel that everything he does is the right thing. She also does not need to feel compelled to do things just based on RP dharam

Let's see what direction next week takes ... but i did take this to be payment time for dev - just like you did ...

Rajsri , I remember reading few of your post in Choti bahu1 , Very glad to see that your still around😃 I agree , Dev was bought up by Dadaji who isn't the best example to follow . I really hope that this track will lead to Dev repentance track .This is a great oppurtunity for Dev to acknowledge his mistakes ..After watching RB bringing up Dev's pass in yesterdays episode.. I was cheering because someone had to point out the facts to him! HE still seemed in his shell but now I think it will haunt him ...Like Sia said ... ..It felt like hints are given to us that Dev will finally get and emotional closure ! His actions should be reflected on deeply and he showed feel guilty for taking RAdhika for granted sometimes ..I dont think theres was anything wrong in the separation, it felt good to finally get some emotions from both RAdhika and Dev ...I'm willing to wait and see what happens ...

Sia, I don't have problems if they show a separation track between Dev and Radhika. In fact I had written about it in my thread several times. It is the way they did where they trashed the entire theme. So separation occurred during Barkha track because Dev felt that Radhika was insecure and jealous. Dev acted all righteous and his family abused Radhika daily even when Radhika/Kanha returned.

Angie .. you bring up very good points ... and i personally do not like kanha's reasons for making her stay ... kanha could have told her that she needed to stay back bcos her father's family needs her. That what her father said was within his rights as a father to do ...

however, kanha has made rads do other things in the past without specifically telling her why ... and he now forced her, for the first time in her life to do something that went against her patni dharm or RP dharm ... i liked that

he also did give her a hint that sonia was like sakuni ... and has been manipulating the people in the house. So maybe there is more to her mother's death that she needs to know ...

dev is for the first time, going through the similar torture that rads went through when he became rp ... he is also suddenly unsure of what rads will choose ... as much as i like bholu's character, he looked lost today when he realized that rads was doing things totally contrary to his expectation

Rads was very understanding of dev when he chose RP ... we have to see how dev reacts when everyone in the mutt and everywhere else bad mouths rads

angie ... you may be right ... they may brush dev's reactions under the carpet and marginalize him ... but i am waiting to see next week before i decide - and then will start venting

i also agree with sia except for a couple of things rads did not have to tell dev anything why she is staying back but when her father is again insulting dev saying how he lived for 23 yrs as a servant and then saying he will have dev thrown out radhika should have spoken up