Was Sandhya's friend Preity wrong :S ?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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A friend in need is a friend indeed ... Yes this is one famous phrase that we all have heard !
now back to my topic ! is Sandhya's friend wrong ? ! she loves her best friend ! she wants to help her in every way she wants to ! i know Sandhya doesnt want anyone's help but for how long will a best friend avoid her Best friends problem !! she is seeing what she is going thru ! i know the Divorce part was rong ! i did not like this ! but Rest what ever she said was not rong !! how much will sandhya Suffer 😕 ! Sandhya should speak up now ! esp after every1 finds the Divorce paper !

im just saying Pretty wants to help Sandhya ! as she can not see her in this pain !!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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As a friend she can give advise and help if sandhya herself asks for help. whatever she says is also right. but taking decisions and taking action for sandhya's life is not for her to do. It should be sandhya's own decision and action.

Here Preeti is unnecessarily complicating sandhya's life further. first she came inside sandhya's house and blasted both bhabho and sooraj. in return sooraj got upset and bhabho more furious. after that every opportunity she gets she talks bad about sooraj when she doesn't know anything about him and half the conversation. she only hears the first part and leaves when the actual climax goes on in the second part.

Preeti preparing divorce papers and womens hostel accommodation papers for sandhya was completely wrong and over the top. first of all sandhya shouldn't have accepted those papers. okay, she accepted it. she should atleast be responsible enough to hide those papers. she did neither. now those papers are in Sooraj's hand. on one side it's written in english and on the other side it's written in hindi, 'talak naama'. he is going to be shattered to pieces when he finds out that sandhya herself wants a divorce from sooraj. Because so far whatever is happening everything is by bhabho. bhabho wants to throw sandhya out, bhabho was the one who announced 15 day test, bhabho is accusing sandhya of wrong doings.

Sooraj thinks Sandhya accepted the challenge because she wants to be in that house, win back bhabho's heart, win her trust back that's why she is still struggling in that house and going through everything. he also helps her whenever he can. Now when he sees those papers he is going to suffer a lot inside. he is going to be in a lot of dilemma.now bhabho's attitude towards sandhya may become warm in coming days but sooraj's attitude may go cold.

Perhaps...cvs here don't want to create a big drama on those divorce papers in front of the entire family that's why those papers were picked by sooraj. if cvs wanted to create a huge drama then those papers would have been picked by either chavi or mohit or someone else. Since it was Sooraj, now the whole tension is going to be created between sandhya and sooraj. before it was between bhabho and sandhya. now when the time has come when the tension between both will come to an end. it's time for another new tension times for Sandhya but this time time it may be between her and her husband Sooraj.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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This Bhaboo saga.. is doing my heading...the precap just grrr... and Sooraj helping that stupid Meenaskhii was just grrr... LOL LOL...
Coming to your topic.. her wanting to help Sandhya was not wrong but to try and persuade her to divorce her husband was definiteli wrong. It must not be forgotten that both Sadhya and Sooraj were innocent parties in this marriage... However Sandhya easiliy forgave her brother but finds it hard to give Sooraj his rights. Quiet frankly.. Sooraj has done more than any husband would have done put in his position.. those divorce papers would kill him...Sandhya wanting to be an IPS officer but has difficulty proving her innoncence ..*wah wah*...
Am getting frustrated with this whole Bhabho and Meenaskhii saga...drama or wwateva else u want to call it... LOL...
And this Preetii butting her nose where it does not concern her is the height of it all.. but then again i cnt blame her.. if my friend was in that situation perhaps i would butt my nose in her business too.. I guess Preeti understand how much Sandhya wanted fulfill her dream and knowing her friend could have found a better jeevan saathi in terms of money irkss her to the core... Her overhearing Bhabhoo taking abt Sandhya and Sooraj's bedroom situation also made her feel bad for Sandhya...Therefore all the events Preeti has witnessed has made her damn sure..that Sandhya needs to leave that house and fuflfill her dream.. but she is forgetting that Sandhya's husband is not at fault here and its not right to punish him. So in that regard yesh she was wrong.
Okkk.Manal... i think i repeated myself as well as vented my frustrations.. haha:P.. now am going to sleep 😆
Disclaimer...:: I had no intention to bash nor offend anyone.😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Manooo 🤗

I actually very much agree with ur post. Preeti is being a friend ... and the cvs have given her the harsh personality that makes us think - so she is def there with a purpose - of not just being a friend but also showing us the options that sandy has in her life - and in essence helps develop her character ...

yes she may be harsh is the options she puts forth and the conclusions she makes - but her character is one of genuine concern - one friend for another... and all she can do is show that concern - whether or not sandy follows her advice is up to sandy - which preeti even herself said.

now divorce papers a step to far - yes! but their is a message there - if u are stuck in a hopeless situation - divorce is an option...and it gets u to think - can i save the situation in any way ... or not...

anyway - sorry for going on a random tangent...tho i am not fond of preeti's character - but i can see she is there for a purpose - yes it seems like oh hey she is here to stir trouble - but its much more than that.

Great Post Manooo!! glad ur watching the show too - i want siggis!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good Post Manal and to avoid being repetitive with this post all I can say is that I agree that Preeti is a good friend to Sandhya and whatever steps she has taken which may or may not be to our liking ... her concern for Sandhya is genuine
Atleast Sandhya knows that she has a friend who cares for her...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont feel Preeti is Wrong at any time. Her concern on Sandhya , is quite needed one . or else will be keep on compromising 2 her life.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: megumi

As a friend she can give advise and help if sandhya herself asks for help. whatever she says is also right. but taking decisions and taking action for sandhya's life is not for her to do. It should be sandhya's own decision and action.

Here Preeti is unnecessarily complicating sandhya's life further. first she came inside sandhya's house and blasted both bhabho and sooraj. in return sooraj got upset and bhabho more furious. after that every opportunity she gets she talks bad about sooraj when she doesn't know anything about him and half the conversation. she only hears the first part and leaves when the actual climax goes on in the second part.

Preeti preparing divorce papers and womens hostel accommodation papers for sandhya was completely wrong and over the top. first of all sandhya shouldn't have accepted those papers. okay, she accepted it. she should atleast be responsible enough to hide those papers. she did neither. now those papers are in Sooraj's hand. on one side it's written in english and on the other side it's written in hindi, 'talak naama'. he is going to be shattered to pieces when he finds out that sandhya herself wants a divorce from sooraj. Because so far whatever is happening everything is by bhabho. bhabho wants to throw sandhya out, bhabho was the one who announced 15 day test, bhabho is accusing sandhya of wrong doings.

Sooraj thinks Sandhya accepted the challenge because she wants to be in that house, win back bhabho's heart, win her trust back that's why she is still struggling in that house and going through everything. he also helps her whenever he can. Now when he sees those papers he is going to suffer a lot inside. he is going to be in a lot of dilemma.now bhabho's attitude towards sandhya may become warm in coming days but sooraj's attitude may go cold.

Perhaps...cvs here don't want to create a big drama on those divorce papers in front of the entire family that's why those papers were picked by sooraj. if cvs wanted to create a huge drama then those papers would have been picked by either chavi or mohit or someone else. Since it was Sooraj, now the whole tension is going to be created between sandhya and sooraj. before it was between bhabho and sandhya. now when the time has come when the tension between both will come to an end. it's time for another new tension times for Sandhya but this time time it may be between her and her husband Sooraj.



@bold: I agree with your whole post but just wanted to zero in @ the bold part.

I agree 100% that as a good friend Preeti should give Sandhya advise and her opinion but that, that is as far as it should have gone. It is not in her place to get divorce papers ready unless Sandhya had requested her help in doing so.

Let's face it, if Sandhya were one our closest friend and was going through such difficult times we too would have said the same to her and suggested divorce as a possiblity but that is as far as we would take it. We wouldn't take it upon ourselves to have divorce papers drawn up that is just over the top ( but obviously needed to create drama in this show though. 😆)

Just my 2 cents worth...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Megumi,julz,sidu,juna,ananth,ParmB
Thanks alot for replying ! and i appreciate and agree with wat all u said ! i still believe what preity did was NOT wrong ! ! honestly the time u actually realize ur friends r ur true friends when they r there for u for ur hard times !! when they feel ur pain like its their pain ! n preity is doing that ! she can not see Sandhya like this ! she is shattered inside seeing this Sandhya and the Sandhya before marriage ! Yes her giving the divorce papers Was WRONG ! maybe cuz SANDHYA never told her how suraj is !! how suraj is NOTHING like his family ! how he is always there for her !! the onli thing made me sad was suraj ! tht guy is NOT just the best husband but one amazing human being !!

@Sidu ofc i watch it regular now n will make siggies for u <3

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ParmB



@bold: I agree with your whole post but just wanted to zero in @ the bold part.

I agree 100% that as a good friend Preeti should give Sandhya advise and her opinion but that, that is as far as it should have gone. It is not in her place to get divorce papers ready unless Sandhya had requested her help in doing so.

Let's face it, if Sandhya were one our closest friend and was going through such difficult times we too would have said the same to her and suggested divorce as a possiblity but that is as far as we would take it. We wouldn't take it upon ourselves to have divorce papers drawn up that is just over the top ( but obviously needed to create drama in this show though. 😆)

Just my 2 cents worth...



you elaborated it quite fantastically. Exactly right.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: paapoo-2012

After everyone finds the divorce paper myeans what 🤣🤣 🤣 🤣

🤣

does anyone know to read their except Mo-Ch

Tum bhee kya baat kartee ho

@ BOLD 🤣 ! wait i was high 🤣 ! buh on serious note 😆 ! i think tht suraj sis or tht mohit will -.-

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