What should Gopi do?

This post is for a sweet memeber Varshu27. Hope you like it, Varshu. This is my pov only and not meant to offend anyone. Trying to encourage open discussion.

We all know Gopi's mental condition these days. After more than a year of marriage, where her husband didn't want to know her, he slowly built a realtion of friendship with her. Now, after almost two years, she finally was acknowledged and given full rights of a wife when her husband finally made her his. She was walking in the clouds but she was pushed down cruelly yet again when her husband told her he didn't remember anything about the most beautiful moments of her life. All her life, she has had to undergo misery and suffering, but she never lost her optimism. Naturally, now, she is in shock, she is heartbroken, she feels numb. She has lost her optimism where even her Kanhaji seems to have deserted her. To show a glimpse of heaven and snatch it away the next moment...

So what should Gopi do at this point to get her heaven back? What is it that should work to make Aham realize what she is going through? She is not going to be brazen and just tell him what happened. That will be inconsistent with her character and her overall shyness. She was shown to be silent and not paying attention to Aham's tasks, which is normal since she is under shock and is despondent and it was working to some extent where he was questioning her behaviour. I haven't seen today's episode, but she seems to be coming out of that. I don't have any ideas on what should happen next to make him remember. I feel it should be Gopi who should somehow remind him, but how? No hitting him over the head please😆.

I would like this track to be tied to his remembrance of his first year with her and the whole repentance track. This has been long overdue. Any ideas?

aww aris ...thank u so much...i love ur posts and the thought that goes behind it...and i love the way u understand gopi ...i am all for the repentance track...and i hope this current track leads to it...yes in todays epi gopi does seem to be comming out of her depressed and empty state...but shes not where she was before with glowing happiness...i want her to ignore ahem for a longer period of time though...and ahem has to start trying to get back his lost day...he needs to put in an effort to see what happened to the chunk of time he lost...he could start questioning the family members for a start...if only gopi goes on a remembering spree and decides to take the letter out to read...she can then start learning the truth about urshi...and in turn ahem will start remembering his behaviour due to the letter and in extension the whole of the first year...and aris thanks once again...

Originally posted by: varshu27

aww aris ...thank u so much...i love ur posts and the thought that goes behind it...and i love the way u understand gopi ...i am all for the repentance track...and i hope this current track leads to it...yes in todays epi gopi does seem to be comming out of her depressed and empty state...but shes not where she was before with glowing happiness...i want her to ignore ahem for a longer period of time though...and ahem has to start trying to get back his lost day...he needs to put in an effort to see what happened to the chunk of time he lost...he could start questioning the family members for a start...if only gopi goes on a remembering spree and decides to take the letter out to read...she can then start learning the truth about urshi...and in turn ahem will start remembering his behaviour due to the letter and in extension the whole of the first year...and aris thanks once again...

Thanks for your comments, Varshu. I hope Gopi doesn't come around so fast. She has to make it harder for Aham. He has had it too easy. I am not sure if Gopi is thinking about the first year right now. She forgave him for that a long time ago. In fact she never thought he was to be blamed for his behavior during that time. It was her fault. So I don't think she will try to look for the letter. Now, if the CV's decide to make the letter visible to her while she trying to clean her wardrobe or taking out her wedding pictures to remember her old days, that will be interesting.

Anyway, I am noticing I have become a parayah here😆. Will see if that lasts longer😉. Thanks for all your encouragement.

Hi Aris, 😃

Originally posted by: RachP

Hi Aris, 😃

I think what will happen is that Ahem will try his absolute best to bring the light back in her eyes. He'll notice, however, that she keeps going back into her shell--like when she said "Tikh hai" today with a weak smile. Then, one day, as he's getting ready for the office, wearing a tie for a change (how I am obsessed with Ahem and a tie, god knows!), his eyes will drift to the wedding picture that is hanging by their dresser and he'll remember their wedding. And then, zoom zoom!!!!! All the flashbacks flood his prefrontal cortex and he starts to think about the future and makes some decisions. He cunningly plans a business trip, but takes Gopi along with him to make things better and I don't mean a second consummation. I mean, where they have a private heart-to-heart--rubaru! Face to face! Yeah?

Thanks for your comments. I knew I could count on you for coming back with a unique solution. I really hope she keeps him at bay for a while. I love the scenario of him remembering his wedding, of course, with the back ground music of zoom zoom😆. Love the idea of having Gopi alone all to himself with a private teteatete😍. No interruptions. Yes, they do need to air all their misunderstandings out in order to move forward to the next step. Once and for all, they need to have a serious talk and finally, say out loud how they feel about each other. Oh, can we have a second SR then☺️?

Gopi should tell him what happened that day.Ahem has asked few times ,what happened to you .. etc.

She thinks he blocked it out on purpose cuz she thinks he doesn't love her and he obviously has regret as someone mentioned in one of their posts but what she doesn't realize or understand is that the cause of him not remembering is the fact that he had consumed Bhang and not cuz he doesn't love her or regrets what happened between them. But it would be awesome if she did confront him and ask him how come he forgot their special day? What do u guys feel?

@arhaanmania, @ang143, Thanks for your comments. Gopi is soft hearted and vulnerable. She is not confrontational and it is not in her character to put people on the spot even her husband. If she was like that she would have said a lot of things to him during the first year when he was brutal to her. They would have been fighting a lot and they may have resolved some of the misunderstandings in the first year. Gopi is not like that. She is deeply wounded. I believe through her complaint to Kanhaji that noone loves her and not even her Kanhaji, she has shown that she is not blaming her Ahamji. She probably knows that something happened that made him genuinely forget.

Originally posted by: aris22l

@arhaanmania, @ang143, Thanks for your comments. Gopi is soft hearted and vulnerable. She is not confrontational and it is not in her character to put people on the spot even her husband. If she was like that she would have said a lot of things to him during the first year when he was brutal to her. They would have been fighting a lot and they may have resolved some of the misunderstandings in the first year. Gopi is not like that. She is deeply wounded. I believe through her complaint to Kanhaji that noone loves her and not even her Kanhaji, she has shown that she is not blaming her Ahamji. She probably knows that something happened that made him genuinely forget.

It would be a wonderful scene if she does confront him, but that's not her nature. She has to come up with something else to make him remember. I don't know if you have had bhang, would forget some things forever? Will his memory about that time ever come back?

Originally posted by: angl143

U know I was confused about that issue too!! I asked a friend about it actually and they said u should remember things after so I don't understand why CVs are taking so long for him to remember??? The only good thing coming out is Gopi's silent treatment to him and he is getting disturbed by it! Otherwise I don't see any benefit fr CVs to take so long to jog his memory!!!! Do u??

Ang143, you hit the nail over the head. Gopi's silent treatment and his suffering. Aham has to repent for what he did and that's why they are prolonging his amnesia. That's the reason he had bhang in the first place and then forgot about those moments. If Gopi ingnores him longer, he will wonder about it and may it will have him remember his distant past finally. We have been waiting for that to come for a long time...