A question for the ladies who have been in love..- Page 13

it does...there are heartbeats which make u go mushy...there are some stirrings inside which amkes everything around you soo beautiful...there is something which makes ur breath and heartbeats rapid when he comes near...and there is a pain which comes with that always !!!

Originally posted by: ipkknd_2011

Agree with the above. It is indeed scary to feel someone else have that much control and insight into your life, but the joy you experience from it is worth every bit! It is a kind of high that happens only once in a lifetime (some people argue that it can happen more than once, but I have only experienced it once and don't want to again). In fact, the high is such that it is almost debilitating.

As some people have pointed out here, the love you feel after the initial high changes and every relationship goes through changes (you just have to be prepared to accept it). I used to wonder why my husband and I don't feel the same high we did during our courtship and I was surprised when he said that, that kind of intense feeling is not something a normal human being can experience for a prolonged period of time!

My advise is even if you are unsure where your relationship will go, when you find the right guy just go for it because it is better to have experienced that feeling at least once in your life than to have never known it! Besides life's too short!

The beautiful way you guys are advocating this feeling make me feel silly for being reluctant to feel so wary of losing control. But bless you all, your stories have brought a smile to my face - I'm a great believer in fate so I'll leave it to that!😆