kunal's wants to take care of siddhi all life - Page 4

Originally posted by: poshah

hi norzar, interesting discussion here on this topic..i wish i could respond to them ..will try over the weekend. I have one question, why is the reason ie why he loves her so important > Is it not sufficient that he loves her ?

i agree the most imp thing is that kunal loves siddhi and so does she.

will look forward to your full reply over the weekend

norzar

Originally posted by: sgumi82

@red...very well said Pooja... as they say pyar na karne ke liye kayii wajah ho sakthe hei ..pur pyar karne ke liye kisi wajah ki zarurat nahi hoti..😃

well said

norzar

Here I am with my reply, may add it to my diary as well. I was to do voer the weekend, but doing it when the weekend is about to end.

A lot of people have been asking when did Kunal start loving Siddhi, why did he start, how etc.

I have to admit that I havent seen the episode from the day1 so I dont know all the reasons why he hated Siddhi in the beginning.

But I think I have seen most of the key bits after their wedding..

And here is my take on the reasons,

As I mentioned before, I think the why is not so important, and no one can really ever say why they like someone. There can simply be no reason to like someone, you just like someone or you dont like. There can be some few things or characteristics which one may like in some one.

So say, I like how he/she smiles, how positive that person is, how helpful that person is, how caring that person is, how independent and what good attitude that person has.

But is he/she the only person who has those qualities? There will be a lot of other people who may have those qualities but will I like them ? I dont think so. It is a unique combination of lot of things which makes one like someone..And then also finally, the whole is more than the sum of its parts..so why he likes Siddhi, is something really tough to say completely. Yes there can be some main things..

Then people are saying, that they didnt show him falling in but they showed Siddhi..I would like to point out a few events which showed it..(just it was nt made obvious like Siddhi, where she was smiling like crazy 😃 or being jealous or doing the running around etc) -they did show how and when he has been showen taking care of her- not sure why he did that.

1. From day 1, he told her not to work with T company - why because they would take his revenge on her

2. There have been two occassions when he has shouted at her (yes ok, he shouted at her a lot more after the divorce thing..most of the times for no fault of her's and in the beg of marriage for every small thing he shouted at her)..but if we talk about incidents before divorce, he shouted at her once when he came to know she gave him a recommendation for job and when something happened around sankrant and he shouted at her and asked her not to talk to him. Other than that, always if she cried he was there to console her.

Infact not only does he offer the tissue, but he makes it a point to help cheer her up

during her bday, he talks all that abt she asking for a car world tour for gift

at home, when he tells he has come to the room for first time after marriage, he again realises she was upset and talks abt the photo to cheer her up

even after the first court case, he tells, acha hua tum aise court mein nahi royee, warna judge

and during that whole case, he tells her couple of times to leave T's job

3. Even if he loves her because of the good things she has done for him and his family, is that not a good enough reason..I don't think there are too many ppl other than your best friends who will care so much for you

4. When Siddhi was paying for Ms Raveena, Kunal was helping Ms Shilpa

5. During the whole wedding thing, he didnt tell her a word when she imitates him in front of all the relatives, puts haldi on his face. He didnt shout at her even once.

6. He likes her just because she is his wife. I think somewhere the custom.rituals bind the people whether they admit it, whether they like it or not. He has always showed or used his right on her (in a good way, but he has always fulfilled his responsibiliites towards her)

7. During that famous diwali scene..inspite of their initial argument, he does try to help her..it was more like or a case where ppl fight with their siblings / spouse at home, but outside they are still one.

8. During the whole Raveena's wedding, he also shared a lot of painful things with her..they never showed Kunal's emotional side being revealed to the other family, but with Siddhi--when he misses anand.his mom and says that the ppl who had so much craze abt Raveena's wedding are not there..and when he was emotional after her bidaai..He also shared her doubts abt hiding things from Vikram with her. So she was someone he could confide in

9. All the times when Siddhi had helped him, he had also helped her.

I havent listed each and every small thing..but I think during the last one year as CV's have said,, that they have been married for a year, just like Siddhi had reasons to like him, so did he.. Just that it wasn't made obvious with the dialogues..

Just my pov !!

Originally posted by: poshah

Here I am with my reply, may add it to my diary as well. I was to do voer the weekend, but doing it when the weekend is about to end.

A lot of people have been asking when did Kunal start loving Siddhi, why did he start, how etc.

I have to admit that I havent seen the episode from the day1 so I dont know all the reasons why he hated Siddhi in the beginning.

But I think I have seen most of the key bits after their wedding..

And here is my take on the reasons,

As I mentioned before, I think the why is not so important, and no one can really ever say why they like someone. There can simply be no reason to like someone, you just like someone or you dont like. There can be some few things or characteristics which one may like in some one.

So say, I like how he/she smiles, how positive that person is, how helpful that person is, how caring that person is, how independent and what good attitude that person has.

But is he/she the only person who has those qualities? There will be a lot of other people who may have those qualities but will I like them ? I dont think so. It is a unique combination of lot of things which makes one like someone..And then also finally, the whole is more than the sum of its parts..so why he likes Siddhi, is something really tough to say completely. Yes there can be some main things..

Then people are saying, that they didnt show him falling in but they showed Siddhi..I would like to point out a few events which showed it..(just it was nt made obvious like Siddhi, where she was smiling like crazy 😃 or being jealous or doing the running around etc) -they did show how and when he has been showen taking care of her- not sure why he did that.

1. From day 1, he told her not to work with T company - why because they would take his revenge on her

2. There have been two occassions when he has shouted at her (yes ok, he shouted at her a lot more after the divorce thing..most of the times for no fault of her's and in the beg of marriage for every small thing he shouted at her)..but if we talk about incidents before divorce, he shouted at her once when he came to know she gave him a recommendation for job and when something happened around sankrant and he shouted at her and asked her not to talk to him. Other than that, always if she cried he was there to console her.

Infact not only does he offer the tissue, but he makes it a point to help cheer her up

during her bday, he talks all that abt she asking for a car world tour for gift

at home, when he tells he has come to the room for first time after marriage, he again realises she was upset and talks abt the photo to cheer her up

even after the first court case, he tells, acha hua tum aise court mein nahi royee, warna judge

and during that whole case, he tells her couple of times to leave T's job

3. Even if he loves her because of the good things she has done for him and his family, is that not a good enough reason..I don't think there are too many ppl other than your best friends who will care so much for you

4. When Siddhi was paying for Ms Raveena, Kunal was helping Ms Shilpa

5. During the whole wedding thing, he didnt tell her a word when she imitates him in front of all the relatives, puts haldi on his face. He didnt shout at her even once.

6. He likes her just because she is his wife. I think somewhere the custom.rituals bind the people whether they admit it, whether they like it or not. He has always showed or used his right on her (in a good way, but he has always fulfilled his responsibiliites towards her)

7. During that famous diwali scene..inspite of their initial argument, he does try to help her..it was more like or a case where ppl fight with their siblings / spouse at home, but outside they are still one.

8. During the whole Raveena's wedding, he also shared a lot of painful things with her..they never showed Kunal's emotional side being revealed to the other family, but with Siddhi--when he misses anand.his mom and says that the ppl who had so much craze abt Raveena's wedding are not there..and when he was emotional after her bidaai..He also shared her doubts abt hiding things from Vikram with her. So she was someone he could confide in

9. All the times when Siddhi had helped him, he had also helped her.

I havent listed each and every small thing..but I think during the last one year as CV's have said,, that they have been married for a year, just like Siddhi had reasons to like him, so did he.. Just that it wasn't made obvious with the dialogues..

Just my pov !!

poshah you have sumed up everything beautifully,

yes its not necessary that one has to have a reason to /love someone , love can just happens

at times we may hate/dislike someone for no reason too.

sinal judged each other wrongly to start of with but when they realised it, love just followed

and i compeltly agree with you that though siddhi's falling in love was shown more evidently

kunal is a complex character and cvs took a different approach for his character

i personally liked the difference

and kunal himself said in hsi drunken confession that he doesnt know how/when and why he fell in love for siddhi.

most imp thing is both sinal are in love

right now they are showing kunal's realisation slowly, the smile on his face, the way he looks at her, the way he has fb's, his self talk all is being showed beautifully

norzar