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Posted: 14 years ago
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Good point... as we have seen ASR is quick to make decisions in haste and repent in leisure... this whole marriage fiasco reminded me of one proverb "fools rush where angels fear to tread" ...

I saw a post which said that Khushi could have been in an affair with Shyam as she was seen flirting with NK... All I would say is even if she was, that does not give ASR the right to force her into marriage... both his acts Blackmailing and duress are both viewed as criminal acts by law... What rights does ASR have to go ruining other people's lives..? 🤢


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: polly2312

You have a point. But why Arnav is not confronting Khushi? This is something that I am not able to understand. Yeah I know he maybe scared to confront... etc etc... but I am not buying that, unless I hear him saying it. They are simply dragging it to extend episodes.

I'm not sure. But it could have something to do with Khushi not coming clean first about what he saw on the roof between her and Shyam. However, I do find this bit a bit odd too. I wish the CVs would clarify it somehow, once and for all.
Knowing Arnav, though, it probably has something to do with the aforementioned. Or maybe you're right about them extending the track.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: love_goahem

You'd think that after all Arnav and Kushi have been through (from the beginning to now) he'd think rationally to himself that in all that time has he ever actually seen any flirty looks btween kushi and shyam or kushi and shyam ever tried to sneak away to be together so they get a moment with eachother. I mean Kushi seriously spends ALL of her time at their house. For such a smart business man he's kind of an idiot.
Also he's had so much time to get to know her. You'd think that after seeing them on the porch when the misunderstanding occurred he'd confront her or at least "confront them"...I just think he needs to sit down and really gather some facts and figure this out before he makes things worst between him and Kushi.
What do you all think?

i know right and to think he is the one with all the brains in that house. i don't think he just needs to gather his facts, i think he NEEDS to see a psychiatrist (no offence but he does)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Good point... as we have seen ASR is quick to make decisions in haste and repent in leisure... this whole marriage fiasco reminded me of one proverb "fools rush where angels fear to tread" ...

I saw a post which said that Khushi could have been in an affair with Shyam as she was seen flirting with NK... All I would say is even if she was, that does not give the right to ASR to force her into marriage... both his acts Blackmailing and duress are both viewed as criminal acts by law... What rights does ASR have to go ruining other people's lives..? 🤢


I think that the debate about rights can easily become complicated.
He probably had the same right as Khushi when she decided not to tell Anjali the truth about her husband. Regardless of how dissimilar in gravity these two cases are, the end point remains the same - neither Khushi nor Arnav had any "right" to do what they did, to take the choice out of the other's hand.
The consequences are upon them now.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think that the debate about rights can easily become complicated.
He probably had the same right as Khushi when she decided not to tell Anjali the truth about her husband. Regardless of how dissimilar in gravity these two cases are, the end point remains the same - neither Khushi nor Arnav had any "right" to do what they did, to take the choice out of the other's hand.
The consequences are upon them now.



You have brought in a good point... why should ASR be angry with Khushi for not telling the truth to him? We know the kind of relationship they shared... even if she had approached ASR, the latter would have never believed her because Shyam is a treacherous chap who knows how to manipulate all accusations..

Both not telling the truth has not violated anyone's rights... true they may have failed the ethics of friendship but beyond that they owe nothing to each other because neither ASR nor Khushi were in a relationship ... I don't know what the good Samaritan law stipulates but they are not bound by law to reveal the truth. sure Khushi hid the truth from ASR but that does not give either of them the power to compel the other into a 6 month marriage... that is something beyond reasoning at least to me..
Edited by LadyLaLa - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyLaLa



You have brought in a good point... why should ASR be angry with Khushi for not telling the truth to him? We know the kind of relationship they shared... even if she had approached ASR, the latter would have never believed her because Shyam is a treacherous chap who knows how to manipulate all accusations..

Both not telling the truth has not violated anyone's rights... true they may have failed the ethics of friendship but beyond that they owe nothing to each other because neither ASR nor Khushi were in a relationship ... I don't know what the good Samaritan law stipulates but they are not bound by law to reveal the truth. sure Khushi hid the truth from ASR but that does not give either of them the power to compel the other into a 6 month marriage... that is something beyond reasoning at least to me..

I understand your point.
What I meant with right and choices is that no one gave Khushi the actual right to decide if Shyam deserved a second chance or not. That was for Anjali to decide. However, I can understand why she decided to hide it the first time.
In relation to Arnav, I agree that his decision was wrong. He did wrong. There's no doubt about it, no excuse for it. However, I understand his reaction - being Arnav. I definitely do not support it, because it's the wrong reaction.
In the end, I feel that the current situation could've been avoided if honesty had been the principle to be followed at all costs.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Arnav is not in the right frame of mind to think logically here, right now he is hurting and he is furious. We got a glimpse of what is going through his mind as he had flashbacks of his time with Khushi, to what he saw, and Shyam's words permanently stuck in his head. Its all too overwhelming for him right now so he is reacting the only way he knows how, by lashing out and wreaking havoc. Arnav really had no idea the impact his actions would have on Khushi's life, it is slowly becoming known to him with each passing episode.
Even though a lot of damage is being done, I can still see the CVs repairing Arnav and Khushi's relationship. Once Khushi knows the truth she will have a better understanding of Arnav's actions and will be more likely to forgive him, just hope she doesn't forgive him too fast. I look forward to him trying to win her back, don't want it to come easy for him.

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