Contemplating on the possibility of...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi peepz,
Even though my focus has shifted from Elena's triangle a lot towards other characters like Caroline, Tyler, Klaus, Bonnie, Elijah, Kol etc... but I was still wondering why is it SO hard for Elena to make a decision between Stefan and Damon. If she loves Stefan than she should just be with him, if she loves Damon what the heck just select him, be with him and say adios to the other one...

The Point Is: CHOOSE ONE!
...(I know you'll say that if she chooses one, the story will finish but its for the sake of an argument)... Why is Elena being a rubber band between both the brothers?.. She is not like Katherine, wanting both the brothers at the same time for her pleasure. She is also not playing/ flirting with both of them. She, in her own way maintains her distance with the other brother if she gets close to one!

So, the only possibility that was coming up in my mind was:...Is it possible for one to fall in love with two people at the same time??... I know it sounds NUTS? but think about it. (And I don't mean a two-timing kind of a relationship). I mean real, genuine feelings!!

Both are loving in their own way, both of them arise passion in you, and both of them could go to any lengths to protect you, and there are things about both the guys that attract you, and you find both sexy and hot as hell....SO IS IT POSSIBLE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH TWO PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME? you have no intentions on cheating on either of them, but you can't help but fall in love with two people at the same instance?... Is it possible?, can it happen and if yes, then what should one do in such an instance.

Is this what Elena is going through, I mean if she still loves Stefan, then why can't she just tell Damon to take a hike and leave her alone...BUT she can't and that makes me wonder that she does have something in her heart for Damon that she has yet to reveal, not to forget the infamous death bed kiss ☺️ last season, and the one that she enjoyed this season😳!!

So what do you guys think about my elaborate/ over analyzed hypothesis??
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aishwaryagayen thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well if i was elena .. i couldnt help myself fall for both of them .. i mean look at them man !!!!!!!! hahaha
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Elena doesn't have to make a choice... TVD will only come to that stage when she fully comes to terms with her feelings for Damon. We've seen Elena's love for Stefan, her friends and her family... she's far from acknowledging and truly embracing those feelings for Damon.
She's seeming more and more like Katherine lately. Season 3 was also meant to centre around Elena loving both the brothers.
And right now she's obviously conflicted. She's pushing away Damon and trying desperately to get Stefan back. But Damon's made it easier on her I guess. He gracefully backed out. So Stelena can pick up where they left off. 🤔🤢
He'll always be around to protect her... but he's not going to compete for her.
I watched an interview of Ian months ago in which he said Damon had to become worthy of Elena... Now he's more than that and I feel Elena has to prove herself worthy of his love. She's currently far from it. So until then... she's not going to be in a dilemma.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think you hit it...thats what I feel too. She loves Stefan,but she also has feelings for Damon. As much as she doesnt admit it,she loves him too. Being in her position,I feel its possible to love two men at the same time. Why not? I know it seems absurd and sometimes looks bad if you speak without context. But then,if you can love your parents in equal measure,if you can have two best girlfriends..why cant you love 2 men at the same time?Have genuine feelings for both of them?

I also agree with another poster,who said Damon proved to be more than worthy of Elena. Stefan proved his love for her. Elena proved her love for Stefan,time and again. But really,she didnt do anything drastic for Damon. She needs to come to that level yet.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i have really nthng to talk abt...seriously if u hv two guys beside u who r hot as hell and who can go to any extend to help u to protect u...what is my fault if i fall for both of these two person...??? but yes i will choose the person who will be happiest with me...if i would hv been in elena's place...i would hv chosen Damon coz the guy suffered a lottt...Stefan is luvd by Katherine and he can get luv from ny1 but what Damon got???? only rejection... and and unwanted life...!!!! he never wanted to be vampire...!!!! and Damon loves her more than any1...hate to admit but evn more than stefan...!!!! Stefan left Elena alone whn it came to choosing the person between Damon and Elena...Ok i do cmpltly agree he luvs his bro a lottt no doubt so i guess stefan too will agree that she shud choose Damon...!!!!
AmbyCious thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You're right. Elena is not like Katherine.

She is way worse.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AmbyCious

You're right. Elena is not like Katherine.

She is way worse.

I totally agree- I thought it was just me who was beginning to dislike Elena. She does things without thinking and then regrets it-umm it's too late sweetheart. As for Damon and Stefan- I love them both but feel she now has to prove her love for Damon if there's a chance for them to be together because otherwise I think he deserves better.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont think so...when you love someone, you can care about someone else for sure, you can like him, you can feel atracted to him in a way, but you CANT LOVE him as well!The way I see it: She loves Stefan, but hes still pushing her away and doesnt want to be with her till he thinks hes ready to forgive himself...she does love him, but sometimes when you feel rejected and not wanted you might get confused, especially when theres someone around who obviously cares about you, gives you the attention you need ..but at the end of the day when you put those two men next to each other and ask your heart whos the one you just know...you know whats real...Sometimes is just hard to realize the difference between real feelings and some kind of chemistry...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@fly_chick, Katherine is an angel in front of Elena. Elena is a complete ***** and she has no morals whatsoever. She can stoop really, really low.
I can go on and on about how much I hate Elena but i'm assuming nobody here will shower roses on me if I do 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Maybe because her identity has always seemed to somehow always brought back to Katherine?

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