What is Arnav feeling towards Khushi right now?

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Subha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Ankifan
Subha nice post.. 😃

Want to rant about 2 major things :

Firstly i just want this night to be over, past 10 days or more we are stuck with this night.. Can the Cvs move from this night plz.. Must hv been longest night in the history of television.. 🥱

Secondly, Payal was always meanie to me, but Anjali shocked me with her hypocritical behavior.. the precap, she saying u broke social norms and insulted our family, Jeez women he has married kushi, marrying doesnt break social norms, and live-in was insulting to family which she supported but she feels marriage with loved one is insulting.. Disappointed at her dialogues today..

About Arnav, he loves her period.
He felt betrayed, his past and the way things came out about his jijaji , and all the things he went through he took a decision without giving much thought. It was right from his POV but if we look from kushi's perspective it was wrong the way it went on..

I like many a things in today's epi about ArHi.. the way Kushi gets up and looks at RM once moves towards Arnav's room, she knows where she belongs to .. Breaking down near him and telling her grief, she dint even share anything to anyone but even after Arnav did all that the only person to whom she felt like speaking her heart out was Arnav coz she loves him and trusts him, period.

The moment she enter's room, he is aware of her presence, when she tells him he she is again an orphan because of this impulsive decision, they are connected with this very orphan tag, their was an unspoken rapport between them in that very scene..

If his intention was just to do badnaami of kushi then he wud have never married her according to me, the rituals are important for kushi and nt to arnav, he wud hv merely made a agreement or forced for a live-in blackmailing her, but he preferred to marry.. deep down he did what she believes in though he doesnt believe it.. Love is very much their, thats y he feels very much betrayed, i am just waiting for shyam truth to unfold totally..

Divy, Loved your post! 🤗

So true, if it were not love, he could have done many different things to bring her down... Agree with you completely there... Betrayal or hurt is the question I have - Betrayal from Shyam, and hurt and jealousy towards Khushi because he thinks Khushi loves Shyam...

Me too, loved the scenes today.. Loved the way you put it... I have nothing more to add.. I also liked the contrast between Arnav and Khushi - Arnav told in the temple that the wedding would be just for the world, but Khushi closes the door and tells him it is done in a very wifely way - kind of saying we are going to be wedded within the four walls as well. Fiery Khushi and conflicting emotions on Arnav was a feast to watch!!! 😊

On Anjali, I would like to wait and watch... I think Anjali is driven by a sense of insecurity.. At La's time, she and her brother did'nt have any secrets.. Suddenly her brother is married (not that she did'nt want them to pair up..) and he is refusing to give any reason other than say - you wanted me to get married so I got married.. Meaning he is not sharing everything .. I think she is going to get more and more insecure.. She needs Arnav to be the way he is.. anyway, I could be wrong.. too.. 😳

Definitely, definitely everyone needs a change of clothes.. Really, it has been one long day in IPK land!!! 😊

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Rabba-Ve-Delena

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Subha (hope I can call you that)

Really interesting topic, one thing with ASR/Arnav is that he is really unpredictable, I can't guess what his next move could be, kind of the charm about his character. Honestly my two cents or pennies (because I'm British😆) is Arnav is probably feeling despair above all right now. No matter how much hate/hurt/anger/fury/sadness he feels towards her I think the root of it is despair of having that beautiful emotion of love shattered by that hug and her words. Even though it isn't her fault she's central to the love part and in an instant its been snatched away and even though he has her now as his wife, he still doesn't have her the way he eventually would have wanted her!

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kitty25

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

only asr can answer to all questions you are asking...but i doubt even he will know the answers...😆we all know that he loves her..and he is not a ordinary person who falls in love again and again...ones he loves somebody its for life...right or wrong and she loves him or not it doesn't matter to him as long as she is with him...marrying her is the only way he can keep her forever...this is my POV..

Edited by kitty25 - 13 years ago

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LadyLaLa

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Excellent topic... 👏

ASR's trait is too quick to react when he is angry followed by repenting in leisure... Today I saw a repenting ASR, he is repenting for the pain he has caused his family, especially his sis, then repenting the pain he caused to Khushi (his recollection of the slap)... he is also still hurt by her betrayal (at least he thinks Khushi two timed him) and angry at Shyam...

So he is a mix bag of emotions...

I don't think he trusts Khushi at the moment... when you have a fallout with a loved one, you are unable to completely obliterate them from your mind and heart... so that is exactly ASR's state now...

he cannot forget Khushi and wipe clean his feelings for her because they are still afresh... at the same time, he cannot bear to see her in teh arms of another... he cannot forget the hug she shared with Shyam...

so he is feeling sad for his lost love, is angry at her for bringing all this pain upon both the families... and is feeling cheated and angry on himself to have got into this mess 😆

Edited by LadyLaLa - 13 years ago

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Julie0001

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

This is a beautiful and much needed topic. I think inside he thinks that he has lost her. He expects this because his mother left him. I think that his marriage is a way to protect his sister, but is actually a desperate attempt by a man to keep Khushi near him . He could not do this with his mother.

I think that Arnav has not even thought about what he is doing. He is working with instinct. The way he runs to Anjali, cried after his mother left, he is trying to keep Khushi. Somewhere deep down he does not expect things to really work out for him. He is a pessimist. This marriage to me is a last stab to keep her. I do not think that he thinks he will win her back. He does not seem to care that she hates him.

What I see is that even if a mother abandons a child in a horrific way, the child will still run after his mother. The marriage is him deep inside trying to hold onto K, even though in his mind he thinks that it is all broken and wrong.

This marriage is not a deal, it is a man holding onto his lifeline, even if means cutting up the veins of the world around him and his own.

Edited by jpalagrawal - 13 years ago

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DiamondLife

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

shu:

Deep down its his love for her ..made him took this rush decision. Just imagine if some other girl was there..he would have approach differently rather marrying her.

In this case, he loves khushi, cant see her with someone. its his jealousy and anger..but he loves her thats the bottom line.

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Subha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Rabba-Ve-Delena
Subha (hope I can call you that)

Really interesting topic, one thing with ASR/Arnav is that he is really unpredictable, I can't guess what his next move could be, kind of the charm about his character. Honestly my two cents or pennies (because I'm British😆) is Arnav is probably feeling despair above all right now. No matter how much hate/hurt/anger/fury/sadness he feels towards her I think the root of it is despair of having that beautiful emotion of love shattered by that hug and her words. Even though it isn't her fault she's central to the love part and in an instant its been snatched away and even though he has her now as his wife, he still doesn't have her the way he eventually would have wanted her!

Ouma, yes, you may!

Liked your two pennies!! 😆.. Despair - suits him well, .. in love, the feeling of having lost her...

@bold: So true! He wanted to make her his, but not this way.. hence the conflicting emotions of love, anguish, despair, hurt and pain...

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Subha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: kitty25
only asr can answer to all questions you are asking...but i doubt even he will know the answers...😆we all know that he loves her..and he is not a ordinary person who falls in love again and again...ones he loves somebody its for life...right or wrong and she loves him or not it doesn't matter to him as long as she is with him...marrying her is the only way he can keep her forever...this is my POV..

@bold: Exactly! ASR would never spill it out.. so we keep debating!!!! 😆

I agree to your PoV! 😊

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mommy2000

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Good Topic, Shubha!

I believe that had it been someone else that Shyam was pursuing, he would have dealt with them differently. But since it was Khushi, he married her. Now, at this point, even he may not know the reason why he chose to marry her instead of sending her away. Hopefully, later he will have this realization --- trust the Cveess to develop amnesia on this aspect!😆

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Subha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa
Excellent topic... 👏

ASR's trait is too quick to react when he is angry followed by repenting in leisure... Today I saw a repenting ASR, he is repenting for the pain he has caused his family, especially his sis, then repenting the pain he caused to Khushi (his recollection of the slap)... he is also still hurt by her betrayal (at least he thinks Khushi two timed him) and angry at Shyam...

So he is a mix bag of emotions...

I don't think he trusts Khushi at the moment... when you have a fallout with a loved one, you are unable to completely obliterate them from your mind and heart... so that is exactly ASR's state now...

he cannot forget Khushi and wipe clean his feelings for her because they are still afresh... at the same time, he cannot bear to see her in teh arms of another... he cannot forget the hug she shared with Shyam...

so he is feeling sad for his lost love, is angry at her for bringing all this pain upon both the families... and is feeling cheated and angry on himself to have got into this mess 😆

Thanks LadyLaLa! 😳

I would like to think the way you told about Arnav's trust, but as @moon_mine earlier commented - Arnav told Shyam that Khushi is off limits, but he did'nt say the same to Khushi! That is where I have a thought whether he clearly sees Shyam as the betrayer and Khushi as the victim.. I could be wrong! 😳 At the same time, he thinks she loves Shyam and that really hurts him... Is'nt he in a pool of emotions... Oh Boy!!!

I agree to everything else you stated. He did'nt really want to bring her in his life this way and surprise/shock his family this way... But ASR is ASR.. He always makes too quick decisions when he is angry and yes, he repents it later... He did it again...

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