How I see Kunal-Guilty feet got no rhythm

I havent seen the serial from begining, however, Kunal comes with a huge baggage of guilt. If we talk of the recent guilt, he is over ridden with the guilt that Anand died because of him. He needs to get over that guilt sooner or later, and realise that after some incident all ppl can make are conjectures and think aisa hota to waise hota to , and keep blaming one self. But all the guilt doesnt land anyone anywhere, it saddens him and also the people near him. In reality that is not true, more so in this case, where he is not the reason, it was destined for him to go and he passed away.

The only way for him to get over the guilt is to talk it out to either his dad or mom or anyone he thinks he has caused pain and ask them to forgive him. Or just plain talking openly to them and telling them what is hurting him and why he thinks he is guilty. Finally he needs to get over the guilt and lead a stressfree and mentally healthy life.

Next is his guilt of loving Siddhi, here again he faces two problems or keeps moving between two reasons, one is siddhi loves his brother- for this there is a solution that gradually Siddhi has to tell and act to show that she loves him more than his brother, his brother was the past, he is no more and she will eventually settle with someone and in this case it happens to be Anand;s brother.

the other reason he has or causes problem to him is that anand loves siddhi- for this there is no solution or rather only solution is for him to have some gyan from his dad. Just like Raveena is misguided, Kunal needs his papa's guidance. He is one tracked to thinking that Anand loves Siddhi, so he cannot love her. He needs some guidance from his dad just like he had explained to him after the marriage. That shaadi tho ho gayee hai and the husband is the most import rel for the wife so he has to take care of her. He has to forget that Anand loved her..Ok, he did, but now he is no more..And more so if he were so worried why did he get married to her in first place. This guilt is what is nt even allowing him to see what Siddhi is feeling or showing.

Then the other question is why he cannot see or understand Siddhi when he could in the past, in the past also, he couldn't understand the reason for her worries, all he could understand was that she is upset or something is troubling her. He could never read her mind. So now also he sees her as worried and interprets it as guilt.

I am all for actions speaking louder than words and if you love someone it shows in the actions. But there are some crucial times or atleast once when one has to admit it orally verbally face to face to the person that you do love them-clearly spelled out, because actions can be misinterpreted- we all have been through the he loves me loves me not..if actions could be interpreted so well, no one would ever be confused.

And in this case, Siddhi has comparatively less of a past baggage, because she has fallen in love with someone other than anand.,,anand was her love but not a blood relation.

To break the log jam one of them should atleast verbally spell it to the other else, we are all in for a rollercoaster ride for a while 😊

At the end, we all know that they will both turnaround and after many twists/turns they will get together, till then let us be a part of their journey and enjoy it with all the heartbreaks and dhak dhaks it gives us

Glad you liked the post !! thanks. Yes Siddhi is to be blamed to an extent, but they are both in a cmoplicated situation, I think they got themselves into a complicatin the day they decided to get married, probably didnt completely understand what they were getting in.

Siddhi I think, it depends on someone's nature..can they spell it out or they cannot, just thinking the fact that Siddhi writes, probably conveys she is not so expressive and uses poems to convey things. Pepole men or women are obviously nervous confessing their love...for fear of rejection. Siddhi is scared too that if he refuses..so probablly it is her nature..Someone else in her place would hve been happy or glad to just confess irrespective of the consequences..but she is not one of them!

good post

yup i agree with your points, its terrible to see sinal in this state and yes both are responsible for it, however i feel kunal is being really insensitive towards siddhi and thats bec he loves her, no man will like to see the women who is his wife and love pine for anotehr man(yes we know she loves kunal, but kunal doesnt. he thinks she still in love with anand and and pines for him)

it was terrible how he mentioned anand's name at the dinner and said if he was alive you would have been happy, i mean he thinks na that she is mising anand etc, then why bring up his name anyways, wont that hurt her even more and if he thinks she regrets that night wont she feel even more disgusted he

the thing is for kunal them consummating that night seems no big deal, how can he think siddhi will forget it

siddhi has never directly made kunal feel that she still hasnt moved on and is is in love with anand, but now that she herad from kunal's mouth herself yesterday, she should realise, kunal thinks she still pines and loves anand , she can atleast clear that misconception of his, but she diidnt say anything and after going home she ran to the bathroom, adding more to kunal's assumption that she was crying for anand bec she was missing anand. siddhi isnt helping herself and the situation either

kunal feels siddhi can not love any other anand and she tries to find anand in him, so does that mean he thinks that night when they consummated they marriage she was thinking of anand when she was with kunal?

i dont know if kunal still holds himself responsible for anand's death but siddhi has never made him feel that way, you right he probably needs to pour out his heart in front of his parents

norzar

With siddhi that is also what is taking toll... again like seema put it 'aapki jo ladayi hain khud ke dil se' could not have described his situation better.

I really doubt siddhi will open up and say her hearts feelings... I really wish they show seema and raj discussing about how much siddhi loves kunal.. maybe seema could relate how siddhi was waiting outside to see if kunal read the card ,you know stuff like that.. and kunal overhears.. even if he wouldn realise siddhis love for him , it would atleast steer him in the direction of considering the possibilty of her being in love with him.And then his analytical skills could revist every moment of theirs together and actually see siddhis reactions to him and what they meant.

After the whole consummation drama he has been in the ultimate denial mode. He doesn't even wanna see siddhis reaction , just what he thinks is right.Bcoz before that he used to flirt with her.. remember the tea dialougue(taj mahal nahi hain),your cheeks turn red, even during raveenas engagement when he stops her from saying 'maine sab aapke liyee kiyaaa'.He needs a whack to set him straight.

Originally posted by: chitsss

I agree about kunal having a single track mind... even regarding ritcha see now I dont think he even remembers about them having an affair or beings friends or anything. No self pitying as to why did she do this to him, He is not sad just roaring mad and hell bent on getting revenge.like seema said he just knows right or wrong ... matters of the heart dont belong.

With siddhi that is also what is taking toll... again like seema put it 'aapki jo ladayi hain khud ke dil se' could not have described his situation better.

I really doubt siddhi will open up and say her hearts feelings... I really wish they show seema and raj discussing about how much siddhi loves kunal.. maybe seema could relate how siddhi was waiting outside to see if kunal read the card ,you know stuff like that.. and kunal overhears.. even if he wouldn realise siddhis love for him , it would atleast steer him in the direction of considering the possibilty of her being in love with him.And then his analytical skills could revist every moment of theirs together and actually see siddhis reactions to him and what they meant.

After the whole consummation drama he has been in the ultimate denial mode. He doesn't even wanna see siddhis reaction , just what he thinks is right.Bcoz before that he used to flirt with her.. remember the tea dialougue(taj mahal nahi hain),your cheeks turn red, even during raveenas engagement when he stops her from saying 'maine sab aapke liyee kiyaaa'.He needs a whack to set him straight.

i dont know why but i feel all the shows high points have been shown in a dramatic way and i feel kunal knowing reg siddhi's love for him, will be shown in a very dramatic way too, he will be shocked and stunned that she has been loving him al the way long and he couldnt see it

for the audience kunal confessing his love for siddhi in the drunken state ws shown in a very good way too, even though witcha was there, his words and love for siddhi was shown beautifully. it was a shock for the audience

norzar

it being a serial, they will drag it for a while but having said that, guilt is a feeling or emotion which is not easy to over come..The only way is talk it out to the ppl you think you have hurt and slowly forgive oneself. And in such times, the guidance of elders is always helpful. While Kunal had asked for Siddhi's hand in marriage, he had said, that we both have lost our true love and these elders dont and cant understand what it is like to lose the love and one can never love again.

Hearing that I wished to say that is not the case, your elders know it better. I am sure he will overcome his guilt 😊

norzar

i m eagaly waiting for the epi when kunal will confess his love to sidhi. i m sure cvs will give us a good one( at least this time) dumbo + wicha + rohit free epi. full of sinalious episode it will the most beautiful love confession in television

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