So wat if KKG indeed loves shyam?

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Angels11

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Posted: 14 years ago

i ve a question 2 all the ASRs of this world. so wat if kkg did indeed love shyam. love just happens. its shyam who s'd ve respected the holy ties of matrimony. if he strayed away frm the straight path & had an affair with another girl y punish that girl? yeah the girl made a poor judgment by getting into an affair with a married guy which is always a risk. but y blame only the girl. both r adults who know the consequence of their actions.

another question is wat is the point in tying up a guy by force in marriage 2 a girl wen he obviously hates her. here shyam is least interested in anjali. why the hell r both kushi earlier & now arnav trying 2 protect her & let her live in la-la world. today it might b kkg. tomorrow it might b another ms xyz that ll capture the lustful eyes of shyam. 4 how long ll kushi & arnav continue 2 protect anjali. ll arnav marry all the girls that shyam has an affair with? also wats the point in having a relationship wen the 2 ppl dont love each other. is it not better 2 go their separate ways rather than cling to each other?

finally 2 the person in the epicenter of all this storm. Anjali. why r v women so obsessed with husband & kids. s'd women not try 2 ve a life of their own. men pursue their hobbies, hang out with friends & ve an active social life. but why do most indian women never think beyond their house. aft marriage they dont pursue any of their hobbies, dont cultivate new friends. why cant they think beyond husband, in-laws & kids.

and i hate this concept that having a kid ll solve all problems. its just pure bull shit! a child is a gift frm god a proof of love not a compromise solution!

plz note that i am not saying kkg loves shyam or cheated arnav & anjali. I am just trying 2 say what if she actually did. why s'd she b punished. who is asr 2 punish her btw?

want 2 know the thoughts of fellow forum members on this!

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Angels11

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Posted: 14 years ago

sadly no comments 😭 i still cant understand the regressive mindset in our society especially wen it comes 2 women & the different yardsticks set 4 men & women in our society 😡

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yanka

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hey Angel!

Nothing would be wrong if Khushi was in love with Shyam.. she met him where he presented himself as a bachelor, and stayed at her place and was very courteous and helpful to each and every member of the family...

However if you see it from ASR's perspective – then Khushi who use to be perpetually there in RM could possibly not be aware that Shyam was indeed the husband of Anjali. So why was she not upfront about her relationship with Shyam. Instead she was all loving to Anjali, Naniji et al... and ASR believes that he was played around with too... cause if Khushi had any feelings for Shyam then why was she flirting with ASR or giving him signs that there was attraction from her side too...

i guess that is why ASR has had such an extreme reaction to what he saw on the terrace followed by what Shyam said to him later...

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Naheeda

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Posted: 14 years ago

What you are saying it's true but Arnav loves and respect his sister a lot, he can't hurt her. How is he supposed to tell her that the person she treats God his cheating on her, and she is pregnant which made it difficult for Arnav to tell hi sister the truth, she might not be able to take the shock and she will be hurt which Arnav does not want.

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bikerider

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Posted: 14 years ago

hmm if kushi was in love with shyam then may be ASR would have been right in threatening kushi and marrying her 😕

now that she is also the one who is victimized i did not like ASR forcing her into the marriage. just because he cant do anything to shyam because his sister is pregnant he threatened kushi to stop payal marriage more i think about it more i think ASR blunders have just begun. once he made kushi stay because he misunderstood her to be gold digger and stopped payals marriage guess he also want to learn his lessons heard way.

i agree with you that a kid will not the solve the problem
but what if indeed shyam changes now that kushi is out of his reach 😕

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Angels11

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Kinrul-Ragvir
What you are saying it's true but Arnav loves and respect his sister a lot, he can't hurt her. How is he supposed to tell her that the person she treats God his cheating on her, and she is pregnant which made it difficult for Arnav to tell hi sister the truth, she might not be able to take the shock and she will be hurt which Arnav does not want.

but thats the whole point that i am trying 2 make. for how long ll arnav or others keep protecting anjali. he knows v clearly now wat a lecher her hubby is. it might not take v long 4 him 2 catch hold of another girl 2 lust after.

wat if anjali herself stumbles across shyam hugging some girl in the future? for how long can u continue 2 live a lie. And anjali-shyam's marriage is a HUGE lie. the sooner she is out of it the better! she can give birth 2 her child, find comfort in its innocent smile & who knows in the future she may actually get a really caring guy someone who deserves her!

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Angels11

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: yanka
Hey Angel!

Nothing would be wrong if Khushi was in love with Shyam.. she met him where he presented himself as a bachelor, and stayed at her place and was very courteous and helpful to each and every member of the family...

However if you see it from ASR's perspective ' then Khushi who use to be perpetually there in RM could possibly not be aware that Shyam was indeed the husband of Anjali. So why was she not upfront about her relationship with Shyam. Instead she was all loving to Anjali, Naniji et al... and ASR believes that he was played around with too... cause if Khushi had any feelings for Shyam then why was she flirting with ASR or giving him signs that there was attraction from her side too...

i guess that is why ASR has had such an extreme reaction to what he saw on the terrace followed by what Shyam said to him later...

my quest is simple. so wat if kkg is not a good girl & did cheat. who is asr 2 punish her. why is the world always hell bent on punishing a girl 4 her mistakes b it real or imagined.

here both asr & anjali can simply throw kkg & shyam out of their house & their lives & try 2 piece together their broken lives. y this fixation with punishing ppl. all this revenge stuff. i just dont get it. plz dont mistake me. since i dont watch soaps & this is the 1st one that i started watching i am asking these questions.

in real life does the jilted lover b it girl or guy go about seeking revenge? just curious!

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Swati

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Posted: 14 years ago

Unfortunately, in society, it is always the female who is to be blamed and if her social status is not high, she becomes the target even easily. Whatever be the case, a shrewd businessman like ASR should realise that there are 2 sides to a coin, if he has seen Khushi and Shyam hugging, and he could confront Shyam, why is he not able to confront Khushi and hear her out? Why is the happiness of his sister so huge that even if another girl is sacrificed for it, he has no qualms??? ASR is hurt and in that state he takes a decision.But when his anger dies down and he can see that whatever he does, Shyam will never accept Anjali, play games with her , as you have said, now that Khushi is out of bounds for him, there are other girls. Then?? Then he will probably buy her off, because the reason he has married Khushi is his inner most feelings for her. And the reason why Anjali is like this is her brother and her family who have protected her or rather have been overprotective about her. When a relationship breaks, the way your family reacts plays a huge role. Had they then made her strong and stand up on her own feet instead of using the crutches of prayers, vraats and poojas... had they made her emotionally capable, then maybe we would seen a stronger Anjali.

However all this is realistically speaking. At the end of the day, this is just a show and to get the TRP's in, the creatives will use any trick they can. What they cannot show and have not yet shown on television is the evil and the bad get away and hope here too, ultimately, the bad gets his dues.

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yanka

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Angels11

my quest is simple. so wat if kkg is not a good girl & did cheat. who is asr 2 punish her. why is the world always hell bent on punishing a girl 4 her mistakes b it real or imagined.

here both asr & anjali can simply throw kkg & shyam out of their house & their lives & try 2 piece together their broken lives. y this fixation with punishing ppl. all this revenge stuff. i just dont get it. plz dont mistake me. since i dont watch soaps & this is the 1st one that i started watching i am asking these questions.

in real life does the jilted lover b it girl or guy go about seeking revenge? just curious!

hahahaha no i am not sure every jilted lover would go about seeking revenge but here the scenario is different...

If it was only ASR that would have been hurt i guess he would have let Khushi go... but here its his sister's life... Anjali... who has been shown as a woman who breaks very easily... as Gul Khan in her interview also said that she is the one who has been affected by the past more than Arnav and she is on the boderline... and Arnav knows that... and as we have seen... Arnav cannot lose his sister... never... so what does he do in his desperation? goes ahead with the only plan that he thinks works for him... get married to Khushi... that way she is front of him and so is Shyam so that he can in the meanwhile hatch another plan to teach them a lesson... who said that ASR should be fair and rational in taking decisions...

as you say even in real life how amny of us are able to take rational and calm decisions at the extreme time?

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SStephy

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Posted: 14 years ago

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There would be nothing wrong if Khushi does love Shyam... but she would be wrong if she did act on her love and comes in between Anjali and Shyam... and this is what ASR thinks. But of course Shyam is also wrong.

Regarding covering the truth... Khushi is way too naive and had thought that the child will solve the problem. And ASR.. he did want to tell the truth but the news of pregnancy stopped him. So he is trying to fix the problem... Shyam said the only one between him and Khushi is Anjali. So ASR has decided to put himself also in between...

This is what I think... ASR heard Khushi tell Shyam to leave Anjali. So he thinks Khushi loves Shyam but she won't go ahead with Shyam until he leaves Anjali. So ASR thinks that by marrying Khushi, she would not come in between Shyam and Anjali.

And no, whatever ASR is doing is not right...

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