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Ok one fact clear, every single one of us is disgusted by the fact that Snake fathered the child.. But well once we clear of that fact, meaning put that aside and look at the situation from Anjali's side, i see a completely different picture..
i was actually thinking of this when i saw someone commenting on this in Satya's thread. I wanted to ask about it there, but decided that it would be a better full discussion..SO here i am..
What we know about Anjali is that the most important person in Anjali's life is her little brother, chote whom she considers as her own child and not just a younger brother..She knows each flaw, each mistake of her brother, she knows him too much to miss anything that truly matters about him.
and then comes her husband, to whom i see more of a blind devotion born out of gratitude that he accepted a handicapped girl. She has put him on a pedestal that is not humanly possible..And this is where Anjali's feelings differ.
While she knows her brother's every wrong, every mistake, every flaw and still loves him unconditionally, in fact she loved all of his mistakes and flaws and accepts him for who he is..
she thinks her husband is perfect, and it is this perfection she worships. And the moment this illusion clears away the impact will be pretty harsh to her in normal circumstances and she would completely break down and would seek shelter in her brother..that is cz HE would be the stronger one at that time..
But this pregnancy changes everything. Now Anjali has two children, not just one. And judging by how feistyly protective of her Chote she is, she is going to be just as possessive and protective of her unborn child, 'flaw or not', cz this child like her brother is going to be a part of herself.. A part of herself that her husband never was..not lack for trying though..But this Raizada blood seems to work in a different way, the bonds of blood r stronger than any other, at least at the moment..
Therefore, the moment Anjali gets to know of Shyam's deception, she will have higher priorities than her heartache at realizing that the perfection was an illusion..
But instead of breaking down she will be the fierce lioness protecting her cub and would be strong for him/her cz after a while she will be deeply attached to the baby or may be she will be from the moment she got to know...
And this is where i said about 'flaw or not' comes in cz the child's flaw would be being related to the cheater who ruined her life, but for Anjali it will not matter..
for this child she will stand strong..and we will not see the cry baby anjali cz the mother anjali will overtake her...
so well in a manner i see the usual blessing, which in this instance we thought was a curse was indeed a blessing in disguise...
So people, do share ur views on this.. i really wanna know what all of u think of this aspect of the situation cz how anjali reacts at a certain time to the truth will have a long lasting impact on the ArHi relationship..
i was actually thinking of this when i saw someone commenting on this in Satya's thread. I wanted to ask about it there, but decided that it would be a better full discussion..SO here i am..
What we know about Anjali is that the most important person in Anjali's life is her little brother, chote whom she considers as her own child and not just a younger brother..She knows each flaw, each mistake of her brother, she knows him too much to miss anything that truly matters about him.
and then comes her husband, to whom i see more of a blind devotion born out of gratitude that he accepted a handicapped girl. She has put him on a pedestal that is not humanly possible..And this is where Anjali's feelings differ.
While she knows her brother's every wrong, every mistake, every flaw and still loves him unconditionally, in fact she loved all of his mistakes and flaws and accepts him for who he is..
she thinks her husband is perfect, and it is this perfection she worships. And the moment this illusion clears away the impact will be pretty harsh to her in normal circumstances and she would completely break down and would seek shelter in her brother..that is cz HE would be the stronger one at that time..
But this pregnancy changes everything. Now Anjali has two children, not just one. And judging by how feistyly protective of her Chote she is, she is going to be just as possessive and protective of her unborn child, 'flaw or not', cz this child like her brother is going to be a part of herself.. A part of herself that her husband never was..not lack for trying though..But this Raizada blood seems to work in a different way, the bonds of blood r stronger than any other, at least at the moment..
Therefore, the moment Anjali gets to know of Shyam's deception, she will have higher priorities than her heartache at realizing that the perfection was an illusion..
But instead of breaking down she will be the fierce lioness protecting her cub and would be strong for him/her cz after a while she will be deeply attached to the baby or may be she will be from the moment she got to know...
And this is where i said about 'flaw or not' comes in cz the child's flaw would be being related to the cheater who ruined her life, but for Anjali it will not matter..
for this child she will stand strong..and we will not see the cry baby anjali cz the mother anjali will overtake her...
so well in a manner i see the usual blessing, which in this instance we thought was a curse was indeed a blessing in disguise...
So people, do share ur views on this.. i really wanna know what all of u think of this aspect of the situation cz how anjali reacts at a certain time to the truth will have a long lasting impact on the ArHi relationship..
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