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After my sister had her baby, she and her husband started to sleep in different rooms so that her husband can sleep better even when both of them work in offices full time during day. And now, I see in YRKKH that Akshara and Naitik are also sleeping in different rooms so that Naitik can sleep better. 😲
This makes me ask - 'Is taking care of a newborn baby and waking with him only a mother's responsibility and father only gets the benefits?' 😕
When I had my daughter, my MIL also suggested that she sleep in my room with me and my husband sleep with my FIL so that he can sleep better. My husband refused point-blank. He even told my MIL to never raise the topic again. My husband and I together took care of our baby at night. If she was crying because she needed to be changed, my husband woke up and did it. If she still cried for feeding (which was usually 😉), only then he woke me up. That helped me get a few more minutes of sleep. I agree that even my MIL could do that, and mind you, I have the best MIL in the world. But sleeping in the same room gave my husband and I some private time when we just talked about us. This kept the romance in our life even with a newborn.
After seeing my sister and YRKKH, I have understood why husbands feel neglected and unromantic after baby birth.
Hubby Dear, I love you so much for not leaving our room. You are the bestest 😊😊😊😊😊. Main bahut saubhagyashali hoon ki meri aapse shadi hui 😳 (Our favorite dialogue to each other, LOL)
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