Aham has always been a momma's boy. A successful big businessman like him gives up his love to marry the girl of his mom's choice and tolerates her because he thinks she is helping his mom. He thinks his mom is always right and does everything for his own good. So he thinks he deserves the punishment and he was the one at fault.
I have no problem with both the characters acting as they are since they are running true to their form. But I think in this process, the cvs are ruining their charm. I liked Kokila, because despite all her foibles, she was portrayed as a strong and smart woman. I thought it was brilliant on her part the way she put her son in his place by making Gopi take back her vows. She could always figure out Urmi and Rashi's kalakaris. Now, the punishment that she is doling out to Aham has made her character look ridiculous and petty.
I always liked an arrogant, fire-spitting, and passionate Ahem. I have to admit since his transformation, I have wished him to be more passionate and aggressive in his interactions with his wife instead of acting like a shy female-Gopi. I almost wanted him to shout at Gopi instead of giving those shy robotic glances. Still, I didn't mind it that much since it showed progress in their relationship. But with this punishment; showing him do the house work, the cvs are destroying his character too. He should be portrayed as a manly man - not as a man-servant. What are they doing? He is the hero of the show. If they are worried about TRPs, Aham won't attract female viewers with his spineless dumbo portrayal and Kokila's ridiculous meanness is going to drive away frustrated viewers.
Still, Koki can come out of this hole by realizing her mistake and apologizing to Aham, but I don't think I can ever get over Aham doing household chores. He is a big business tycoon, a great negotiator, and a fire-breathing dragon; why is he acting like a bheegi billi?
Kokila's punishment is all wrong. She should have sent Aham on a business trip or to Nani's house for samaj seva. This way, she could have kept him away from Gopi and Raji. Her punishment doesn't make any sense. It is contradictory to her wishes for Aham to be a working robot. I don't understand what cvs are trying to show here.