SiNal - Best Chemistry, Worst Compatibility!!

I know. I might be beaten with cold stones but let me say this out and loud. Kunal and Siddhi have amazing chemistry. They set the screen on fire, repeatedly and it does not have to be all cootchi-cooing all the time. But chemistry unfortunately is not same as compatibility. This very fact is the reason why love sometimes sizzles in the beginning and then fizzles..

Kunal is a straight forward guy and Siddhi likes to keep her cards close to her chest and not open up to call spade a spade. In this regard, they are not compatible. What is really needed for them to do is to work on this issue but then that would make the serial very normal and Ekta cant let that happen!

Kunal should try and understand what Siddhi is NOT saying aloud and Siddhi should also learn to open up to her husband and say things as they are. We off course see small bursts of confidence from her but they don't come when they are most critically needed. So she can demand out of him to find his things on his own and not disturb her OR to go to Dumbo's place to get her back for some post wedding ritual then why cant she be her same avatar when its her own life and marriage that's threatening to crumble into pieces?!

I understand her hesitancy, shock and disappointment but when you, over the time, realize these differences of nature and temperament with your spouse, you have to speak up and work on them instead of sulking away in a corner or crying on someone else's shoulder.

I will not blame Kunal at all if he goes ahead with Divorce proceedings because Siddhi could be crying for 100 different reasons. He can interpret it as a guilt too, just the way he is feeling. Didnt he being a man cried too! How can he understand why she is crying and what is it thats bothering her!

I would have very well have her slap Kunal when he said sorry and just say.. you just said sorry for the best night of my life. One sentence and even Kunal is not so brainless not to understand what that means to a woman! The Anand issue could have been tackled separately, just the way they have been ever since they got married. If it was just about sleeping together, this one confession was more than enough.

Women who expect their men to be clairvoyants who can read their mind without speaking for it are always in for greatest disappointment from what I have seen with other couples and my own experience taught me the same! If you have a problem, speak up!

I hope Siddhi gets this sooner before they hit the courts!

Kunal should try and understand what Siddhi is NOT saying aloud and Siddhi should also learn to open up to her husband and say things as they are.

Originally posted by: asena

i like your points

"I would have very well have her slap Kunal when he said sorry and just say.. you just said sorry for the best night of my life."

as for this line in my opinion Siddhi was stunned to hear such a thing from Kunal and at the moment she didn't know how to react...poor girl was all ready to confess her love and ready to hear the same from Kunal but she never knew it turning out to be something she had never thought in her wildest dreams😭

Originally posted by: Kshiti_Kunal

I know. I might be beaten with cold stones but let me say this out and loud. Kunal and Siddhi have amazing chemistry. They set the screen on fire, repeatedly and it does not have to be all cootchi-cooing all the time. But chemistry unfortunately is not same as compatibility. This very fact is the reason why love sometimes sizzles in the beginning and then fizzles..

Kunal is a straight forward guy and Siddhi likes to keep her cards close to her chest and not open up to call spade a spade. In this regard, they are not compatible. What is really needed for them to do is to work on this issue but then that would make the serial very normal and Ekta cant let that happen!

Kunal should try and understand what Siddhi is NOT saying aloud and Siddhi should also learn to open up to her husband and say things as they are. Isn't that the quintessential man-woman relationship😆 Someone once said "No man is truly married until he understands every word his wife is NOT saying." In that respect, our Kunu isn't really 'married yet😆

We off course see small bursts of confidence from her but they don't come when they are most critically needed. So she can demand out of him to find his things on his own and not disturb her OR to go to Dumbo's place to get her back for some post wedding ritual then why cant she be her same avatar when its her own life and marriage that's threatening to crumble into pieces?!

I understand her hesitancy, shock and disappointment but when you, over the time, realize these differences of nature and temperament with your spouse, you have to speak up and work on them instead of sulking away in a corner or crying on someone else's shoulder.

I will not blame Kunal at all if he goes ahead with Divorce proceedings because Siddhi could be crying for 100 different reasons. He can interpret it as a guilt too, just the way he is feeling. Didnt he being a man cried too! How can he understand why she is crying and what is it thats bothering her!

I would have very well have her slap Kunal when he said sorry and just say.. you just said sorry for the best night of my life. One sentence and even Kunal is not so brainless not to understand what that means to a woman! The Anand issue could have been tackled separately, just the way they have been ever since they got married. If it was just about sleeping together, this one confession was more than enough.

Women who expect their men to be clairvoyants who can read their mind without speaking for it are always in for greatest disappointment from what I have seen with other couples and my own experience taught me the same! If you have a problem, speak up!

I hope Siddhi gets this sooner before they hit the courts! On the other hand, the typical alfa male expects to make decisions for his family. He makes the rules, he lives by them & he expects others to live by them too. His views are the only ones that matter. In actuality this tunnel-visioned view of the world around him is only a facade to hide his fragile ego.

Kunal decided, on his own, not only for himself, but also for Siddhi that it would be in her best interest that they separate. Not once did he so much as glance around the room or 'look' at his wife's expression. It never occurred to him to ask his wife how she felt about 'last night'. The decision, no matter how noble in thought, is not his alone to make.But that is beyond his scope of understanding. Bas, the lion has roared & the rest of the pride must fall into line.😡

Originally posted by: jheel1