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Koki- Gopi:
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she wanted a naive bahu only so that she can train, mould or change the new naive bahu to be like her and to be able to take care of the modi household just as she does... we all know how competitive spirited she is... being the younger DIL she still rules the house... she wanted and trained Ahemji to be the best in business,.. she also wanted a DIL whom she could train under her guidance to take care of the modi household ...
we all know, and koki knows it as well, people like Anita and Rashi would never listen to koki ... they would never care for the house ...and whoever would be Hetal's bahu may be taking koki's place in the house which she never wanted,,...
In the early days she treated gopi pathetically... frightened and terrified the girl... but that is her way of teaching unlike Hetal who could not teach anything to her DIL... all she did was Javadena and carried on with Rashi's work as well,,,...but as time progressed...when she came to know about Gopi's character...she is more loving and caring and she is proud of Gopi...
today her screams and yelling at gopi is her anger due to Ahemji...and partly on gopi for deviating Ahemji from his work to resolve her sister's marriage
Koki-Ahemji:
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Coming to being angry on Ahem is not for him being close to Gopi... but Gohem helping RaJi and Ahemji ignoring his work to help them...
she never in her dreams felt Ahemji would hide anything from her... he even married a girl whom he does not love only for his mom,...
when nani left, gopi wanted to leave, but she again forced Ahem to let gopi stay in the house...
She thinks, a son who did the biggest sacrifice of marrying someone and let go of his love for his mom's sake... is hiding things from his mom...this irked her to the core...
When tejas said "Mr.Modi please ask ur wife to accept the gift" Ahemji looks at Koki for approval ... she approves with her eyes... Ahemji tells gopi to take... she looks at koki for approval, and takes it from Tejas...In this scene also to make a decision for his wife he took his mom's approval...
next when he gets sarees for all of them during navrathri ... then both look at koki to seek her approval only then he gives it and she takes it...
so koki is in a secure state that their son and DIL will never do anything without telling her and she is extremely proud of this ...
when things started to turn against her ...recovery time...
during the recovery in the injection...gopi did not get convinced when koki tried but she listened to Ahemji,,, this is her first blow..
next playing ludo, oil massage ... he said he don;t mind getting late shocking koki... Ahemji often used to cut short her sentences in between...
and in the kitchen when gopi was about to fall then she got the hardest hit...
with all these things piled up and added by the hiding the reasons for his being in mandir,..watching movie... helping jigar to give rashi and i think that is the penultimate one and may be Ahemji not attending the client will be the ultimate one
she is seeing that part of life which she never expected and that is being neglected by Ahemji so all this gussa on Ahemji and Gopi in today's episode
hope i didn't bore u with a long post