Is Ahem being Fair?

Is Ahem being fair to Jigar ...He knows that Jigar at this point is not on good terms with Rashi & wants to maintain distance from her...similar to Ahem not wanting to do anything with Gopi & maintained his distance...

Nabyab, I do not think Ahem is in that thinking mode yet. He is just doing things that he thinks would make Gopi happy. I am sure he has not even thought why he wants to make her happy. He is just in this reactive mode where he is letting the situations help him not exactly thinking through for long term repercussions. He wants to maintain his distance (the kangan today was his head doing its job) against coming close to Gopi (asking Jigar to go sit with Rashi because he wants to be near Gopi.)

I don't think that ahem has a brain at times. He has had so many problems in his own marriage with gopi, and he has yelled at her in front of his family ... but jigar is feels has changed for rashi , and rahi is the one who made the mistakes ,

Originally posted by: ANJ4

I don't think that ahem has a brain at times. He has had so many problems in his own marriage with gopi, and he has yelled at her in front of his family ... but jigar is feels has changed for rashi , and rahi is the one who made the mistakes ,

But in ahem case it was also U&R fault not gopis but ahem still yells at gopi.

Go figure MR AHEM MODI... please don't leave your brain to science...they will not know what to do...

@bold- LOL 🤣 ..

I don't think Ahem has thought about how he treated Gopi - maybe he thinks she deserved it. He is trying to push Jigar and Rashi together but doesn't remember how he felt when his mom was trying to push Gopi onto him e.g his birthday, Switzerland etc.

Originally posted by: ANJ4

I don't think that ahem has a brain at times. He has had so many problems in his own marriage with gopi, and he has yelled at her in front of his family ... but jigar is feels has changed for rashi , and rahi is the one who made the mistakes ,

But in ahem case it was also U&R fault not gopis but ahem still yells at gopi.

Go figure MR AHEM MODI... please don't leave your brain to science...they will not know what to do...

Originally posted by: navyab

Is Ahem being fair to Jigar ...He knows that Jigar at this point is not on good terms with Rashi & wants to maintain distance from her...similar to Ahem not wanting to do anything with Gopi & maintained his distance...

Jigar at that point respected his brother's decision & never forced his brother & bhabi to be with each other...

Why is Ahem not realising that Jigar also needs his space & it will be his final decision if he still wants to continue or not their relationship or does Ahem not want Jigar to make the same mistakes as he has made...if this is the case...then Jigar's actions should get him into a thinking mode of what he has done so far !!!