fast turning into hopeless case

i used to really like "saath nibhana saathiya" serial.

somehow it is not my most favorite serial these days.

it is turning into a disappointment. I hope the serial can be rescued.

I have been watching the serial to see its progress.

Here are some disappointing things(Please dont be mad when you all read this. These are just opinions. and opinions change everytime with new improvements):

1) Firstly, hero ahem needs to have a backbone. He shivers like a leaf when his mom enters.

His expressions become frozen as though he was caught stealing. He needs to love his mom and not fear her.

2) Gopi is playing a huge super hero role here. She played on her life to rescue Rashi. She saves animals, birds. she is the first one to kiss Ahem (even accidentally). She is a girl. very young person who has not seen much of the world. Where as ahem is a businessman who has seen the world. he needs to protect her more dearly.

3) every one talks in the serial like they are bosses of everyone else (except for hetal)

more softer tones and addressing will be appreciated

4) Hetal says rashi is beautiful then Kokila says gopi is beautiful. is this some competition? my doll is beautiful... no my doll is beautiful. If you think your daughter in law is beautiful the please appreciate it more often in Ahems presence and mean what you say.

5) Kokila is same as Urmila. let us say she is worse than urmila. we cannot expect much from urmila. but kokila forgot that she is supposed to bring ahem and Gopi closer. she starts imagning that ahem buys her bangles. why cant she imagine that he bought bangles for his bride.

6) Gopi accepted the modi family as it is when she married. even her life was at risk many times because of kalakaris and saving rashi. it is time that Ahem accepts Gopi and treats her well. his first responsibility will be to buy bangles for Gopi first, then for rashi on behalf of Jigar only to make Gopi happy and then if needed for his mom too. he does not have to trick her by not giving her bangles because she did not give him teddy bear. she already made it clear that she loves him on holi day and everyday by taking care of him. what has he done? planning not buy bangles. bangles dont save life, love does. she already expressed her love. now its ahem's turn.

7) importantly, Rashi should come out and confess all the kalakaris she did and put Gopi in trouble. Rashi should realize that Gopi almost gave her life for Rashi. also rashi should know gopi loves rashi. It will be easier for Jigar to accept Rashi if she accepts how bad she was and how sorry she is.

8) Please the lady playing Gopi's character probably some acting skills. please let her use those skills. dont always put painful expression on her face or a smile. give her some scope where she can act.

9) Also i think Rashi and Jigar seem to be the leading characters of the serial and not Gopi and Ahem. the story is alwasy about Rashi, rashi's mom and Jigar and Jigar's parents.

10) also Ahem's and Gopi's wardrobe needs to change very soon. I cant bear to see those dull clothes.