I do NOT want Siddhi to confess her feelings - Page 2

Originally posted by: Kshiti_Kunal

Yes. you read that right. i do NOT want Siddhi to confess her feelings as of yet. Reasons are plenty.

A relationship, be it friends, family or spouse needs time to develop. It just cannot be built overnight. We have seen that in SiNal relationship as well. They started off hating each other, then came the respect out of loving the same person - Anand, then there came an understanding albeit as a compromise, then they became good friends, the natural progression of this should be love but it will take time for both to realise and accept it. Siddhi has already done it but its a little difficult for Kunal.

Anand is dead and though that does not make it easy, its still possible for Siddhi to overcome her feelings for him. For Kunal, Witcha is around always 😡. Even if he does not harbor any feelings for her, its still going to take some time before he let her go from his life completely. And its happening. He is not pinning for her anymore. She is nothing but a nuisance in his life, he has already stopped thinking himself responsible for her well being (the way he asked her driver to call her dad, brother or fiancee and the fact that he did not run off to her to save her from her 'violent' boyfriend says it all) so very soon he will extract himself out completely. He will need a friend during this time and Siddhi can be that friend with whom he can share all his fears, dark secrets and feelings.

If Siddhi confesses her feelings right now, Kunal may not feel comfortable with her. Since he hasnt realised his love yet, he may try to distant himself from her in order to stop her from falling hard and fast. He may stop doing all those little things out of care and empathy that he did earlier. that would hurt Siddhi even more. A rejection from a man is hurting but rejection from your husband is worse that can happen to a woman. I dont want Siddhi to go through that right now when she needs to be stronger to face witcha and upturn her gimmicks to get Kunal.

Her confessed feelings would also put kunal in a tug of war between Witcha and Siddhi. It may sound like a man's fantasy to have two women fighting for him but i am sure Kunal is not into such cheap thrills and would rather have a peace of mind than the cat fights.

It would also mean that Siddhi's every action would be colored with her confession. Then her slight remark on Witcha would be termed as Jealousy which is ok since she is a wife but Kunal will not feel comfortable having her around..

Furthermore the fact would send Kunal on a long guilt trip. so now he not only has Anand's fiance as his wife and not being able to make her happy but also has her fallen head over heels in love with him and not being able to make her happy. I hope you get the subtle yet important difference here. He wouldnt feel as bad to see Siddhi living a life of his roomie with no real contact or sharing if he thought she was doing it as a compromise too, just like him but if he knows her feelings now, he will feel worse every time he sees her crying.

I want Kunal to understand his own feelings and then see the meaning behind Siddhi's actions and realise that she is in love too than have Siddhi say it all and Kunal feeling burdened under her expectations as a wife who is in love and naturally expects him to be her husband in real manner. He might relent to it but it wont be as genuine as it would be if he realises his feelings on his own without Siddhi's feelings influencing him.

How much pressure can the poor man suffer really?! what do you guys feel?