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Posted: 13 years ago
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The ME had me thinking of two processes in which events have occurred with AHem and his love for Gopi.

It is the beginning of events being brought to a full circle and parallels with the past, and the developments to the next stage of their relationship.
Full circle and parallels:
* Him asking for mitaai knowing that he is health conscious paralleled to the time when he willingly asked to drink the milk tea whilst nani was in MM.
* Her being able to tell him where his red file was kept, brings this full circle to the time when he sulked saying only his mum looked after him at the time when he searched high and low for a red file before the Swiss trip.
* He willingly offered his hand to her to support her when walking up the stairs.The first time he did this was when nani made him help her down a stool after hanging up their wedding picture on the wall in their bedroom. Then he detested doing this tremendously.
* She miss steps her foot whilst going down a step in the dark cinema hall matched the time they met the very first time when the lights went out in MM and she when to the mandir to bring a lit diya. He helped her then as now but this time he tells her to take care.

Next stage:
1. Them getting linked up with each other, like when her hair got caught on his shirt and now, her sari getting caught on his bracelet.

2. Sharing things in close proximity, like the armrest and popcorn.
3. Being comfortable with each other when talking, walking and standing.
These are some of the events that have brought them to a full circle and are parallels with the past, bringing them to a new stage in their relationship with each other.

What do you think? Do add more to these lists.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Swasthi this is a great post. They really have come full circle.
My mind is been on taking back of the vows. He may not have verbally voiced the fact that it didn't matter anymore, but his actions speak volumes.
Yes even after she took the vows back they did everthing together, the things she promised him she wouldn't do for him anymore or with him anymore. Like doing the puja together, or taking care of his needs, or to not celebrate his success. They were forced to do those things in the past, and his reluctance and displeasure was always obvious. His mom practically had to push him to do things with her.
Now he doesn't even have to be asked to do those things, in fact he doesn't even look towards his mom for permission or to see how she is reacting. Like the time he helped her up the stairs when she returned with Kanaji idol, or helping her with the divas at Diwali. Just these small things. He no longer asks his mom for things, he asks Gopi.
I am loving how they have brought them to this stage and are now moving forward.
Edited by sbp1971 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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great analysis.loved the way you described the changes.ahem n gopi really have come a long way from where they had begun
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great swashi :) u said it all, I have nothing to add :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Its really nice to read something good before I go to sleep lovely post
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Posted: 13 years ago
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amazing analysis as usual!!!!! def life has become a full circle for ahem and gohem! i think also for gopi...she's starting to share feelings w/ahem as well and doesn't always look towards koki...like the scene yesterday w/her telling about the movie and both of together convincing koki. before ahem would always kick gopi out of the room while talking to his mom.

love how ahem expects gopi to know about his things and looks towards her to help him out instead of shouting for his mom before...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rsk16

great analysis.loved the way you described the changes.ahem n gopi really have come a long way from where they had begun

Thanks Raunika.
Totally agree with you on your point whether they have come a long way consciously or subcounsciously.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nadiamimi18

Great swashi :) u said it all, I have nothing to add :)

Glad to know that you think so too, Nadia.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ever

Its really nice to read something good before I go to sleep lovely post

Much appreciated Ever.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sweet analysis.

Aham and Gopi are starting to behave more like a couple then individuals. And the transformation is great.

It is good to see him treating her as an equal, considering her opinions, and even taking heed of her advice. He will mellow nicely under her influence.

It is good to see her blossoming under his care. Sharing her worries and desires with him. She will become more confident and sure of herself as the days go.
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