Why is it all about Bhabo!!

Originally posted by: Raadhni

With Bhabho shouting and yelling herself in fron of the media , isn't she not insulting herself , her family and the dignity to public -- sure the media will telecast it. Then instead of Pushkar whole India will do tuu thu thu on her . That's gr8 for her. With Sooraj keeping mum then aren't the cvs deviating away from the title "Diya aur Bati Hum".

Originally posted by: Avidfan

I still don't not get it. Why is this serial turning into the "World of Bhabo" and which part of the diya or baati is she? She is more like the dirty oil that creates black smoke. She has to be the THE most miserable person in the entire world who thrives on creating misery and cannot bear to see peace or happiness. I don't think the show is turning or deviating to Bhabho either for TRP or any other matter. They are emphasising and always emphasized the importance of the mother character on Suraj. I don't completely agree with Bhabho's behavior and thoughts but as a head of the family, she always foresees the matter. She clearly wanted a less educated DIL for her less educated son as it is common to think that their compatibility would be good and it is one of the factor for her hurt behavior as she has been cheated as well as she thinks she failed to bring a good compatible wife for her son. She does not really know about Sandhya and I also think she does not understand Suraj too. A successful marriage needs good understanding and suppert for each other which SurYa have.

As the other threads have said, it is laughable at the way she treats marriage and the life of her children. Packing them off every time there is an incident. The story writers need to get a grip on reality and a little bit of common sense. 🤢It is weird that Bhabho thinks calling parents of DILs and throwing them out is a good solution for whatever mess happened. In fact, instead of throwing Meena out, she would have first gotten back the money Suraj gave to Vikram and also questioned Vikram as how come he was not aware of this fire incident drama.

Having said that today's episode was fantastic except the 20 minute long rant from Bhabo.

Sooraj was good, no actually superbly fantastic (the actor is not only good looking but can actually ACT!!) At las, t he in a most poignant but assertive manner took charge of the situation. His characterization is superb and I think apart from covering and protecting Sandhya, he was also conveying to Bhabo the true meaning of marriage/trust/love. His exchange with Sandhya was one of the finest pieces of drama I have seen for a long time.

Am I right in thinking that he in round about way told Sandhya that he loved her and that is why he could not stand by or see her leave (although he took his own sweet time) !!! I wish she has reciprocated in a similar way. I observed it and it was so good to watch and listen to it but untimely.

I thought that it was a bit unreal for her to want to apologise to Bhabo, After the abuse, torment and trauma meted out to her for a whole day, 3 minutes into sweet talking, she wants to apologise to her tormentor (I think there is a term for this in psychology). If it is anything other than a family issue, I accept it was unreal but since this is a family issue, it is praiseworthy that she immediately wanted to apologise and convince Bhabho, a fact that youngsters should learn from the show. I do not ask anyone to be submissive to elders but once the situation cools down, place your request or wish in a pleasing way and explain them and they would agree afterall they wish for your well-being.

She should have shown affection and admiration and love for Sooraj rather than being obsessed with Bhabo. Maybe, it is too early for her to think on those lines.

Any clues to what happens after this? I hope they show Bhabo going off on a looong pilgrimage and the story is just about Sooraj Sandhya and their dreams...😆

Originally posted by: breezy

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@breezy: I agree with you on all the points. A marriage means bondig of 2 families not only husband & wife.

Jaya