today was very sad epiosde

i felt really bad after wtching todays episode,a day before they were celebrating and now eevry1 is sad and crying aT gandhi house.i dint like aditya raising hand on baa but he was really very pushed hrd to do taht but i felt bad on seeing a grandson raising hnd on dadi,plus felt bad for kalpesh he is so heartbroken ,hetal was rude but her questions did make sense ,tats d reason every1 was quite ambji was their role modelmore tehn hatered i cld see disppointment on hetal-sejal eyes.,felt bad for ketki-amabji,they were insulted but i still blame them for dis mess.

I hope the Ghandi family accept Aditya. Was is his crime? He is the biggest victim in this. Not shock Hetal was rude. Even when she has a point, she can't do it in the correct manner.

Originally posted by: vcoolwater

I hope the Ghandi family accept Aditya. Was is his crime? He is the biggest victim in this. Not shock Hetal was rude. Even when she has a point, she can't do it in the correct manner.

i agree he is,but the culprits are ketki-bharti.i think as mona,eevn hetal do has a same problem.but the thing is that no 1 in gandhi fly take him as their blood including anukalp-sejal and eevry1,if they had excepted him they wld ahve gne to meet him,but no1 went to see aditya.

There is not fault of Aditya in this mess

I felt soo bad for aditya...it is not his fault...he is the biggest victim...more than anyone i blame mona...it is because of her this happened...it could been solved quietly without aditya or anybody else even knowing until everything was proved...until they had done a DNA test and found out the truth...and then she has the guts to stand there quietly and act innocent...i am so pissed of at ka;pesh too...he thinks aditya doesnt have his sanskar...what sanskar is he talking about...he was his wives slave for so many years...never stood up for himself or his kids...never even got involved in the kids lives...so what sanskar is he talking about...you get sanskar as you grow older...it is not in your blood...and if he is soo concerned about his and his parents sanskarr then he should take one look at bejal and will know what sanskar they have...somebody needs to tell baa to keep quite...this does not involved her...i also blame ketki and ambaji for not telling anyone and more than i am so mad at her for leaving her kid like that...what kind of mom is she...she sacrificed the kid that she already had for the ones that werent even there yet...hetal's points and her tone was appropriate in that circumstance but i think she believes that aditya is not kalpesh's...my heart breaks for aditya...i dont feel sorry for any of them but him...if kalpesh wants prove then go get a damn dna test and get it proved...and if he believes ambaji cheated on him when they were married then how is he sure that the other three are his kids...

if i put myself in their place, and my mom tells me i have another sibling, honestly i would have no problem and accept them..even if that is from a previous relationship or whatever...because it is not the child's fault...however i would be really mad at mom for abandoning her kid

This mess is created by one and only Ketki and her superstition...Ambaji falling for her sister's words..Kalpesh and Aditya innocent victims..

Originally posted by: Luv4games

I felt soo bad for aditya...it is not his fault...he is the biggest victim...more than anyone i blame mona...it is because of her this happened...it could been solved quietly without aditya or anybody else even knowing until everything was proved...until they had done a DNA test and found out the truth...and then she has the guts to stand there quietly and act innocent...i am so pissed of at ka;pesh too...he thinks aditya doesnt have his sanskar...what sanskar is he talking about...he was his wives slave for so many years...never stood up for himself or his kids...never even got involved in the kids lives...so what sanskar is he talking about...you get sanskar as you grow older...it is not in your blood...and if he is soo concerned about his and his parents sanskarr then he should take one look at bejal and will know what sanskar they have...somebody needs to tell baa to keep quite...this does not involved her...i also blame ketki and ambaji for not telling anyone and more than i am so mad at her for leaving her kid like that...what kind of mom is she...she sacrificed the kid that she already had for the ones that werent even there yet...hetal's points and her tone was appropriate in that circumstance but i think she believes that aditya is not kalpesh's...my heart breaks for aditya...i dont feel sorry for any of them but him...if kalpesh wants prove then go get a damn dna test and get it proved...and if he believes ambaji cheated on him when they were married then how is he sure that the other three are his kids...

if i put myself in their place, and my mom tells me i have another sibling, honestly i would have no problem and accept them..even if that is from a previous relationship or whatever...because it is not the child's fault...however i would be really mad at mom for abandoning her kid

the ting is that aditya is the biggest victim here,but u cant deny the fact that it was only ketki-bharti fault,i felt bad for aditya cause he really wanted a family,who agin threw him out.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

This mess is created by one and only Ketki and her superstition...Ambaji falling for her sister's words..Kalpesh and Aditya innocent victims..

I did not like Baa using bad words for her DIL Ambaji who has been a good dedicated DIL of the family to accuse her of such...Aditya defo was wrong in raising his hand at Baa...

Its abt time Ambaji open her mouth and say it was wrong of her to do what she did...Ketki also needs to apologize for her belief and forcing or coarsing younger impressionable age sister in doing something she might not have done if Ketki had not influenced..

Baa was right abt one thing...Ketki has broken her own sansar and she could not stand Ambaji having one..

I find Gandhi family and especially Hetal out of place and had no right in talking to ambji the way she did...This is between Kalpesh and Ambaji now...Kids have no right to speak in between parents issue...Seperate issue with Baa-Bapuji and than explaining it to all kids..

Aditya is caught betwen in loyalty for Ketki and love for Ambaji...Gandhis should start using their brain and let the false sanskars go...No samaj is going to know abt this...So what...they talk for a day or two but than eventually no one gives a damn abt it..

Ambaji speak up in assertive manner and help them understand your take at that time...Apologize to Kalpesh, family and Aditya...

Ketki needs to apologize to Gandhi family period...She seperated a son from his parents and famuily...

i agree wat u say but i differ here,y dont children have a right to speak in between,after all even their life gets affected,have seen cases in my life,my cousin have got divorced,although her husband used to physically abuse her,so we got her divorced,now when she wants her daughter to get married beleive me no good family is taking her,cause they tink she is from broken family,she is 28years.so i feel parents doing does matter,do u tink till aditya isnt proove gandhi son,sejal will get good guy,hetal can shut any1 do u think sejal can?anu was taunted by his cerlicks cause her wife used to roam wid a guy in teh car,what will he tell y is taht guy staying at his house,and if he is his brother where was he till now?

Originally posted by: sherma

the ting is that aditya is the biggest victim here,but u cant deny the fact that it was only ketki-bharti fault,i felt bad for aditya cause he really wanted a family,who agin threw him out.

i felt bad for gandhi family cause all were happy evn baa-babuji came to celebrate,all were in party mood.

i blame mona but u cant deny she brought teh truth out or these mad sisters wldnt have tld any1,her timing are alwys wrong

@underline thing:i just want to say,ur post are alwys very mature and really like to read them,but if u see from the serial pov,its not very realistic,and gandhi fly are very othordox,taht they dont prefer their daughter dancing od DIL working etc,,,,so excepting sum random person as son in front of every1 is difficult

i agree that adiya is the only victim...and you are right per the serial the family is very close minded so i doubt they would be okay with it that easily...

I feel that Ketki is at fault from the very beginning and to a great extent, Ambaji. Such a huge decision to sacrifice one's child should be taken only by both parents. It should have been Kalpesh and Bharti's decision...but Bharti allowed herself to be influenced by her sister. And to make matters worse, she hid this from Kalpesh for 25 years. Was she going to hide this all her life???? It was bound to come out one day. All that Mona did, in her usual unthinking way, was to bring this out in the light. This is a very big issue, so of course everyone is going to react. The real victim here is Aditya.