What's with the ArHi marriage obsession? - Page 4

Originally posted by: arhi_78

I understand your POV and I also want to see something like that, However the CV's are hell bent

on making Kushi cry, so I said why not she do that crying after marriage, its peaceful for me to watch. Some how the telly people are obsessed with lead actress crying - they think that will get them TRPs'

I'm with you!! I want to see him explain to La why their relationship wont work and then call it off. After that he should single mindedly pursue Khushi and convince her to break it off with Shyam and go through the 'farak padtha hai ' track with her all over again but with love not anger..

agree let them like, fight, fall in love, feel the pain... that'll be a long entertaining journey...

Originally posted by: HeadOverHeels

Does everyone really feel that KKG/ASR should get married so soon? And, for those who do, a few questions.

Do you not think she at 18 is too young for marriage?

How well do they know each other?

Why a marriage to START a relationship? Why not a marriage BECAUSE OF a solid relationship?

Once they're married, she'll cook, he'll work, they'll have a baby, some tu tu main main, and then what?

Why not a good, interesting love/relationship track, after this misunderstanding/hate track? How about some friendship first?

They're both such deep characters, why finalize before their true selves have even begun to get revealed?

I want to see this guy woo her first... Who's with me?

Agreed 100%

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

I with ya! no marriage so soon. She is 18 (check star tv site for the details). He is 28. Way too much going on on both sides. Both need to clear their thoughts before commitment.

like you said, kkg needs to become a woman first and ASR needs to become a "gentle"man.

I am with u :)

Originally posted by: HeadOverHeels

I agree, there is much she can do for him, but I just as strongly think the change needs to happen in both of them. ASR may have his demons, and be incapable of expressing his feelings, but KKG also has a long way to go till she has hit maturity. I find it slightly annoying how most people think it's ONLY the big, bad man who needs to change for the sweet, young girl. Yes, she will light up his life, but he will also in turn lead her to her full potential as a woman. At present she's all very cute and sparkly, but that's not going to be completely acceptable for the wife of a man as complex as him... not to mention that he's also a tycoon... She will have to learn to curb her impulses, not demand he always see things her way, and grow up a little more. I don't mean that in a negative sense, or that KKG is not a great character, because she is. But, an example of her immaturity shines through in moments like when she asks her Goddess to hurry their engagement, so that her confused feelings will end. 😆

A possible track: She can enter into his world and overcome hurdles, learn to accept that her idea of simplicity is not always the way to go, and that the world is full of muted colors as well as her brighter ones. So far this girl doesn't approve of anything he is or stands for, because she's only seen the surface. There's tons more she can discover, if the CVs let her.

Khushi has to grow up. And I think she will do it without making a fuss because she is very good at adjusting to changing circumstances. Moreover she cares for Arnav. The more of Arnav she gets to see, the more she will (as said in the Dulux ad) change her rang to suit his.

If Khushi is immature and confused, Arnav (notwithstanding his age) is no better. They need to learn, mature, grow up, and realise themselves. I think Khushi needs to be close to Arnav and Arnav needs to be in Khushi's world for this to happen.