Is Arnaav dumb?

I know that I'll probably be bashed for this but I had to say this since I really feel that this guy is dumb. I felt it more than ever today while he's behaving like Khushi is his "property" that he secretly belongs to him and that nobody should even dare trespassing.

I really feel bad for Khushi because the poor girl's feelings are all in her eyes when she stares at him. She is awaiting the first move from him and he has not got it yet. He feels her presence, right? But he can't feel how the attraction , passion and love between them. Oh come on Arnaav!

Also, how come he is behaving like Khushi betrayed him when it was him who actually hurt her in the first place when he announced his desire to get engaged to La.

Is he dumb for not feeling that Khushi is waiting for HIM?

Dumb to nahin hai 😃 Thoda bhatka hua hai...I think he is quite aware of his ego and defense mechanism and how he avoids showing his vulnerability..

Also.. I believe..that one can have some control how you are treated by others.. He treats Khushi like she is his property.. because.. so many times she lets him..or allows him to take these liberties.. What's to stop her from screaming ? She just tears up and stares back at him at most of their "rabba ve" interactions.. (my constant grouse with CV's for showing her character a bit wimpy sometimes and borderline bipolar). She is always in his space and several times..kinda provokes him

He has his own demons to fight.. Wish we knew more about his past..not that it justfies any of his behavior..

I won't call him dumb.. but I do find it extremely unbelievable that he doesn't suspect his jeeju... when his basic nature is to be suspicious of everyone !!

Originally posted by: ktja

I know that I'll probably be bashed for this but I had to say this since I really feel that this guy is dumb. I felt it more than ever today while he's behaving like Khushi is his "property" that he secretly belongs to him and that nobody should even dare trespassing.

I really feel bad for Khushi because the poor girl's feelings are all in her eyes when she stares at him. She is awaiting the first move from him and he has not got it yet. He feels her presence, right? But he can't feel how the attraction , passion and love between them. Oh come on Arnaav!

Also, how come he is behaving like Khushi betrayed him when it was him who actually hurt her in the first place when he announced his desire to get engaged to La.

Is he dumb for not feeling that Khushi is waiting for HIM?

Originally posted by: ktja

I know that I'll probably be bashed for this but I had to say this since I really feel that this guy is dumb. I felt it more than ever today while he's behaving like Khushi is his "property" that he secretly belongs to him and that nobody should even dare trespassing.

I really feel bad for Khushi because the poor girl's feelings are all in her eyes when she stares at him. She is awaiting the first move from him and he has not got it yet. He feels her presence, right? But he can't feel how the attraction , passion and love between them. Oh come on Arnaav!

Also, how come he is behaving like Khushi betrayed him when it was him who actually hurt her in the first place when he announced his desire to get engaged to La.

Is he dumb for not feeling that Khushi is waiting for HIM?

Yes, he is dumb. I think not many of us are very intelligent or rational when love hits us.

Here's a guy who has spent his life carefully building walls all around him, and suddenly he wakes up to find Khushi inside that wall! He feels the attraction, the passion and the love, haven't we all seen overwhelming evidence of that ?😳

But we've also seen overwhelming evidence of his ego, and his pride, which he uses as a shield against his own feelings, he's possibly been hurt before, and has no intention of getting hurt again.

So yes, it will take him a while yet to accept his own feelings, and the mistakes he has made due to his ego. And until he accepts them, he'll continue to act dumb.

If only it were that simple between dumb and not dumb.

he is very complicated. actually he does not know what he want actually. he is very confused. sometime i hate him, sometime i love him, sometime i want to slap him

Yes the guy is dumb in love at the moment! He is ALL over the place! Love makes even the most rational person irrational!

he is not at all dumb!!

I dont know if Arnav is dumb or not (I think he just chooses not to acknowledge his feelings, he isnt dumb) but I just recently started watching this show and trying to catch up watching scenes on youtube and I Have to wonder how dumb Anjali is. Arnav can take one look at his sister and tell when she is in pain but Anjali just cannot figure it out when Arnav has had a pained expression on his face for a good while now! She notices when Akash is unhappy but not Arnav??!! Same goes for Naniji. She is all knowing and super experienced and knows what is best for him but cant see what he is going through. All he needs is a push in the right direction that either of these two can give. And Lavanya...oh dear..I feel bad for her and the fact that her fiance is in love with her friend but come on woman open your eyes. He didnt cath you but caught Khushi when both of you fell and you werre in a more precarious position that Khushi! that would have set off all the alarm bells in my head! How many times are Arhi staring at each other and all these people are buzzing about them like bees and not one of them notices?? Even Shyam babu has noticed!! Dont get me wrong, I realy like all these secondary people (except Shyam of course) but I'm a bit miffed at them now. Hence the rant😔 I have to get it out of my system or I'm going to explode on my mom!! 😊