Uff..yeh dard.

I couldnt help but feel a tinge of pain and suffering for Toasty. The fact that she finally sees the error in her ways and her longing for Tej is simply painful. Like I had said before, a partner should not have to be separated from another to feel their pain, it should happen with mutual communication, but then again this is only a drama. It does give me closure as a viewer that Toasty is finally coming to realization that she has indeed hurt Tej quite a bit and that two wrongs dont make a right. I hope she learns to trust and believe in Tej more from this accident on wards.

I completely agree with you Naina.. quite emotional episode.. Particularly the scene where Dadaji tried to hide the bad news from Toasty.. and Toasty finally broke down in front of her mom.. Marvellous performance..

I find it sad that you people were so stuck on seeing Toasty feel sorry for changing competition results that you were not able to see her pain and hurt unless your much awaited scene was shown.

I sometimes feel that most of the people on here and some other forums create there own version of lead actresses and start calling them names and blaming them for any good or not-so-good which happens in TV shows. I seriously fail to understand why especially women/girls carry such prejudice towards female lead characters.

I wonder when and where has it ever been shown that Toasty doesn't love Tej. What I see is how she is selflessly devoted to Tej and his family and still she is called as being arrogant. Believe me this is purely your interpretation of her character. IMO it has never been shown that Toasty was gloating in the glory and pride of achieving success in her small deeds that brought happiness to the family. Only expressions that I ever see on her face are of concern and content for her family which includes Tej. You also like to call her efforts as "mahaan" in a sarcastic way. You tend to talk how "BS" her actions are. Well, pardon me but could it be that your opinion of her is total BS?

In recent episodes we have seen how deep is Pashu's love for Tej. So even though there was a phase when Pashu and Tej got carried away and started fighting with each other over petty issues, Toasty (and Malti) continued to remember this love between the brothers and tried to do what they thought was in the best interest of family and found ways to preserve peace and love in the family.

It was very childish of Tej and Pashu to fight over silly things and to agree on participating in competition against each other. Thank God it is all over and once Tej is back, things might be back on track. But just assume if in this scenario, Malti and Toasty also got involved from the beginning, supporting their husbands as if no one else mattered more, coming up with tricks, spying, and exchange of hurtful dialogs with each other, just imagine how would environment be in the house then, how screwed up all relationships be, filled with bitter ness and hatred. How wonderful would it be to see two bahus fighting with everyone in the family for their husbands' rights!!??

Then you guys also say that Toasty takes Tej for granted and she changed the results thinking that she could always convince Tej later on, well, I don't see what is wrong in that. I love to have that kind of trust in my relationships...such as with my parents, my sisters, my friends. These are the people I know inside out and have an unquestioned trust in their love/care and vice-versa. However it is rare to find the same comfort in a husband-wife relationship but those who achieve it are the blessed ones.

Originally posted by: abc113

I find it sad that you people were so stuck on seeing Toasty feel sorry for changing competition results that you were not able to see her pain and hurt unless your much awaited scene was shown.

I sometimes feel that most of the people on here and some other forums create there own version of lead actresses and start calling them names and blaming them for any good or not-so-good which happens in TV shows. I seriously fail to understand why especially women/girls carry such prejudice towards female lead characters.

I wonder when and where has it ever been shown that Toasty doesn't love Tej. What I see is how she is selflessly devoted to Tej and his family and still she is called as being arrogant. Believe me this is purely your interpretation of her character. IMO it has never been shown that Toasty was gloating in the glory and pride of achieving success in her small deeds that brought happiness to the family. Only expressions that I ever see on her face are of concern and content for her family which includes Tej. You also like to call her efforts as "mahaan" in a sarcastic way. You tend to talk how "BS" her actions are. Well, pardon me but could it be that your opinion of her is total BS?

In recent episodes we have seen how deep is Pashu's love for Tej. So even though there was a phase when Pashu and Tej got carried away and started fighting with each other over petty issues, Toasty (and Malti) continued to remember this love between the brothers and tried to do what they thought was in the best interest of family and found ways to preserve peace and love in the family.

It was very childish of Tej and Pashu to fight over silly things and to agree on participating in competition against each other. Thank God it is all over and once Tej is back, things might be back on track. But just assume if in this scenario, Malti and Toasty also got involved from the beginning, supporting their husbands as if no one else mattered more, coming up with tricks, spying, and exchange of hurtful dialogs with each other, just imagine how would environment be in the house then, how screwed up all relationships be, filled with bitter ness and hatred. How wonderful would it be to see two bahus fighting with everyone in the family for their husbands' rights!!??

Then you guys also say that Toasty takes Tej for granted and she changed the results thinking that she could always convince Tej later on, well, I don't see what is wrong in that. I love to have that kind of trust in my relationships...such as with my parents, my sisters, my friends. These are the people I know inside out and have an unquestioned trust in their love/care and vice-versa. However it is rare to find the same comfort in a husband-wife relationship but those who achieve it are the blessed ones.

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coolkitty: although my post was originally inspired by your post in this thread but as I continued to type it kinda covered all that I have been reading on this forum lately so not everything may apply to you or any one person. And I think you misunderstood me in what makes me sad. Also, it was more figurative than literal :)

I am quite aware of use of sarcasm on this forum and fully expected it when I cared to post my thoughts here.

you don't call someone a friend unless you mean it :)

Originally posted by: abc113

coolkitty: although my post was originally inspired by your post in this thread but as I continued to type it kinda covered all that I have been reading on this forum lately so not everything may apply to you or any one person. And I think you misunderstood me in what makes me sad. Also, it was more figurative than literal :)

I am quite aware of use of sarcasm on this forum and fully expected it when I cared to post my thoughts here.

you don't call someone a friend unless you mean it :)

Originally posted by: nigo123

Through out the story line, Toasty never does any thing that other want... she always does whatever she wants and she never listens to anyone in the family, and especially to TEJ. she wants to be MAHAAN.

and i dont get it, why they copy scenes from BAA BAHU AUR BABY DRAMA.

Tej is lost somewhere as a result of accident, and now Toasty is showing how much she loves him,...but it was easy for her show that Tej's shop not making enough money. and made him loose the competition. and afterwards made PASHU to feell like shit...

TOASTY SUCKS

really people are enjoying these scenes?? getting emotional, heart broken etc etc??

Originally posted by: akash08

really people are enjoying these scenes?? getting emotional, heart broken etc etc??

I am getting irritated and switiching off TV because 1) I know Tej is not dead. this plot has come only because he is enjoying in Goa with Shagun - so what emotion?? 2) I have no sympathy for this lady named Toasty..