Shyam is Pyscho and the Guptas are Brainless

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Okay, so Khushi is supposedly 18-20 years old? Correct? And Arnav is supposedly 26 years old. Alright, I admit that is a bit of an age difference. An age difference of six to eight years, however, I would consider completely okay if those people are in love and want to be married on their own account. Love is blind, and it can transcend boundaries such as age. However, did anyone realize how much older shyam has to be? Arnav was 15 years old when Anjali was supposed to get married the first time around and his parents died and he came to Delhi. So if Anjali was getting married, she had to have been at least 20, because she was from a higher class family that probably wouldn't get her married off before 20ish. So that means that the age difference between Anjali and Arnav is about 5 years. I think it is safe to assume that Shyam and Anjali are around the same age which would make Shyam around the age of 30. So Khushi and Shyam have an age difference of about 10-12 years. Now, like I said, I can't say anything about people being in love and having a huge age difference, though I still think its kinda extreme...What the hell is Khushi's family thinking by wanting her to marry a man that is 30, a good decade older than her! My mama is 31...Shyam could be someone she called "Kaka" for god sakes. I am willing to accept Arhi's age difference because they are totally meant for each other, but I feel like Khushi's family is really brainless to think that Kushi would be happy with a 30 year old stranger. It's almost like the family is going back to child marriages, except with an older man! Yuck!!! I am 18 years old and if I fell in love with a 25-26 year old, I would feel totally comfortable. But if I woke up and my parents were forcing me to marry a 30 year old man (which would never happen because my parents encourage me to stay away from pedophiles ) I would probably say "No thank you, I don't want to marry Uncle." All in all, Shyam is a nasty pedo.

My second point, the the second cause of why I want to vomit on my computer screen when I see the creep is that this man is an ignorant fool for thinking that he can truly live a normal married life with both women. He can make an excuse for being gone a lot like he already does by saying that he has work. Okay, and he is a lawyer so I guess he could somehow work around getting a fake marriage licencse, but even with a fake license, doesn't he know that on some official documents of Khushi's it will request her husband's info and if she is not legally married to the creep than how would that all work out? Another thing...he would live with both wives in the same town...? Really are you serious??? It is so easy to just run into someone like that. Shyam is also an idiot because he doesn't realize how close the Raizadas have gotten to the Guptas. I mean they know where each other live. What if one day Anji was at the mandir near Bua's house and decided to pay them a spontaneous visit?? Come on. And does he not realize that Anjali will want to see Khushi's fiance and be at the wedding? What Anjali met Khushi one day in the bazaar and they got talking about their husband??? Shyam has clearly not thought this out. What about Karva Chaut? He is not superman that he can be in two places at once. Another thing, why does Bua want Khushi to marry a man that is not even home half the time. Its different for Anji because she lives with her family and so she is never alone. But, if Shyam and Khushi lived in their own house, Khushi would be alone days at a time, and she'd spend many nights alone because Shyam would have to spend nights with Anjali too. My next point is that he is a damn Ghar Jamai...lousy idiot can't even afford to buy his own house and support his wife. Don't get me wrong, I would hate to see Raizada Mansion without Anjali, but seriously...he can't even provide for his wife. Arnav pays for all of Anji's stuff, including her employees (Khushi.) Did you all notice that in Khushi's dream, of Arnav, she pictured herself being the proud bahu of Shantivan and she was in Arnav's bedroom. When she pictured herself as Mrs. Blah Jha, she saw herself in her own freaking kitchen. She already knows he will be ghar jamai...she has no expectations from that man. Besides just the fact that Arnav can provide better for Khushi financially, this scene also symbolizes that Arnav will always be able to give her what she wants, the title of bahu of family. Somewhere deep in her heart, she would feel proud to be the bahu of the grand Raizadas, and would feel let down and ashamed to be living in her own home after marriage. And because Shyam is already living at Bua's and because Bua is gaga for Shyam, I'm sure he plans to live in Bua's home even after marriage. Another reason why Shyam is totally an idiot. He mentioned to Bua earlier that his parents live in Lucknow'and they have to know about him being married to Anjali. So how is he supposed to hide his second wife from his parents? (You know, seeing how ruthless he is, he might even go to the extent to kill his own parents to hide his secrets'Uhhgh'chills). It amazes me, no, it baffles me to think that Bua and the family are preparing for Khushi to get married to a stranger, and they haven't even met his family'seriously'CV's we aren't that stupid. How can they portray these characters as stupid as to not even inform Shyams parents that he will be marrying their daughter. The stupidity makes me want to bang my head against a hard wall. Shyam and Bua are both crazy mental patients and Garima seems to me to be deaf and dumb because she's just along for the ride. What a disgrace to adoptive parents. She seems like she doesn't care that shes giving her daughter away to someone who she has spent 10 days with and she has not even met the guy's family. I question if she would every give Payal away to a man like that, but then again I know that answer. Its so horrible. She is being a horrible mother because she can't even stand up for her "own daughter." My neighbors probably take better care of me then she does of Khushi. Also, what about Shyam's peers and aqaintences? How can he hide the fact that he has two wives??? What is one day Khushi comes to his work and she says that she is his wife, and workers will say he is already married. This guy is a complete bafoon. He is a disgrace to men and he seriously needs to get checked into the nearest mental care hospital. And Anjali is blindly trusting and an idiot, but Khushi is not. She would become suspiscious of him after a while. I literally get chills when I see his creepy face on the screen, and now I have to skip his parts because I can't risk vomiting on myself too much. Okay so that was my "little" rant about the creepbag, nastly, psycho, bigamist, pedophine, snake, poopie, smelly, son of a *****. 😡

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Posted: 14 years ago
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😆😆😆
What actually baffles me is how the Cv'z plan to expose Shyam, with him turning the blame on Khushi & EVERYONE distrusting her?????
He is MARRIED!!!!!! Hw will he xplain hw he was 'FORCED' in to this situation!! If he was upfront about his status, the question of marriage with Khushi wouldn't even arise in the first place!!!!
Secondly, Anjali lives in her own little dream world, she wouldn't want to believe at first, acceptable. Mami is Mami......But Nani...she has the wisdom of age..(as she is ALWAYS pointing out to her DIL)..it may come as a shock, but if khushi's father can suspect something from the moment he meets Shyam, won't Nani be able to see thru the holes in her damaadji's defence of himself????
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey dont be so rude to my dulha yaar...yeh joh animals ka naam tumne likha hai meri pyari shyamji keliye woh kya sochenge tumari baareme?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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love all you have said !! :)

but according to the star plus site, khushi is 18 and arnav is 28.
but dw you point still stands. shyam. ew!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i know that star plus says hes 28, but nani said she was 26 in the show :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think they need to explore Shyam's mind a little more. He is creepy. But what would be interesting is if they spend some time helping us understand what he ultimately wants and why.

The age thing is there - but the writers never really mind it. If they completely forgot about it, I wouldn't be too surprised.

There have been serials where some people end up being 120 years old. (lol)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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reserved!!
i'm coming back to type!! this is too good!

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@ArnavKhushiLove : felt good to read ur rant..n here is a bit more added by me..

the 1st part of ur woes...the humongous age difference!🤢! seriously that seem ridiculous..i mean even for a love match a man over 10 years older than a girl barely out of her adolescence! i agree it sounds just like child marriage except with a creepy uncle!!
and coming to Bua!! damn that woman!😡 she is unbelievable! she doesn't have kids of her own and interferes in the lives of her adopted niece's life! her excuse is payal will get 100s of rishtas right? where r any of them?😡 isn't Khushi the baby of the family who is still a teenager and how come she should be married off 1st b4 her elder sister?
anyway it is cz Khushi is not of their own that woman is not so careful about who she is given away to...damn it is like she'll do anything to get rid of Khushi...n it is not even like Khushi is a burden to the family! in fact it is the exact opposite! she is the sole breadwinner for that family and the ungrateful bua!😡
and about khushi's amma! she is shaming all those caring and protective adoptive parent around the world with her ignorance n negligence! when she can clearly see Khushi is extremely uncomfortable with the idea of even thinking of the marriage and is not giving any positive signs she still like a headless idiot asks her for an answer like she can't see any of the negative signs!😡😡😡😡😡😡

well for ur 2nd point...hmm i really don't think Shyaam's intention is to live a happily ever after with both women for an indefinite time period...🤢
Shyam wants to have Khushi for his pervertic needs.. and he knows that without marriage there is no way of getting anywhere near Khushi as before marriage these things are unthinkable to Khushi...so he is simply finding a means to an end to have Khushi for his physical pleasure...🤢 once he succeeds in having her (ewww..god forbid NOOO😭🤢)...anyway what he probably thinks is once he has her he can give her up anytime he wants n go back to rani sahiba so he can have the comfortable life...n Khushi would be left high and dry to fend to herself...and if Khushi seems to become a problem to him, i doubt if he'll restrain himself from being violent with her too..we saw a glimpse of it for the 1st time when Khushi point blank refused his proposal, he looked like a maniac and his animal like fury was directed at Khushi and he growled her name😲...he barely managed to catch himself before he physically harmed her like he did with Shashi..it was scary to see him at that time..cz Khushi looked so vulnerable when compared to that...so i have little doubt about what he will do if in any case he thinks of succeeding his plan to marry khushi...just think a sanskari n innocent girl like Khushi once that pervert destroys her (pray to god no😭...this is just hypothetical from the pervert's point of view) what would be left to her?her life would be over..it won't matter if she gets to know..it'll be too late n the snake will not hesitate to kill her even once he satisfies his pervertic intentions...

so my guess is shyam is nowhere near planning how two marriages for an extended period of time..he is just finding a way to have Khushi to satisfy his animal needs..🤢

Edited by princessunara - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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haha topicmaker (ArnavKhushilove, sorry I don't know your name) you are awesome, gave me a good laugh (which I needed after my midterm a while ago). I also want to thank you for venting my feelings too so I wouldn't have to lol. We won't know the reasons behind Shyam's behaviour because like Khushi and Arnav, we don't know about Shyam's past, how he met Anjali or the circumstances in which he married Anjali. So far only thing that has been pointed out is that he married her for money.

@Sofna - I totally agree with you, I have been thinking the same thing for a while. How can he say to his wife that he was forced, did Khushi hold a knife to his throat and tell him to marry her? Point is, he should not have become persuaded to marry Khushi when he is already a married man and supposedly loves his Rani Sahiba. Anjali is a dimwit if she believes him. Ankali needs to think hey he loves me so how did he become trapped? Plus if Khushi was a gold digger she would have trapped Arnav not a paying guest living in her house. This is all so irrational.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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In one of the episodes shashi found shaym's driving license, in which his age was different to the kundli... and shyam's excuse was that he was advanced for his age... whilst shashi may know the truth... bua and the rest don't... but regardless of that how can bua and Garima think of forcing khushi to get married. And when you do want your son/daughter to get married... before the engagement.. comes meeting and talking to the parents, how could have Bua missed that...the only thing she sees is her shaym babua... Not gonna talk about Anjali, she's just pure blind


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why are you talking sense when we all know that all soap writers are senseless 😆 Thats why I never give importance to the story or plot , if like the actors , that is enough for me. And normally soaps based on good stories are never popular so why should the writers rake their brain to come up with sensible story line .

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