Anandi(gaoki gawar gauri oops sorry gori)

Hello, i am new to this forum. i really feel that Anandi is too unreal a character. It seems to me that she is lingering in this relationship more for her sasrawalas and the ayashi wali life she is living at the haveli(no wonder she didn't go home with her parents to their small house.) than her love for her hubby. Since the love triangle started,and she got to know about it, she never once fought for her husband. The family's maan has always been above relationship for her. if when she went to mumbai she had set the record straight, that she was his wife,none of this would have happened. i guess she wants to emulate her fav person dadisa whatever my jagya wants my jagya gets.Even if it's illegal. if she was really mahaan she should have divorced jag. because of her passiveness ,JG are in an illegal relationship, about to become parents to an illegitimate child. Gauri for all her faults is fighting for her husband.although who in their right mind would want a husband like jagu dada!!!!all her shouting and screaming shows that she is not in her right mind.she started off as being a positive character and through her love for jag she not only spoiled her life but also her character.all her putting down of anandi is because of her jealousy and insecurity. i don't know why she thinks she is superior because she belongs to the same background as anandi. if her mother had really given her true sanskars wouldn't she know all the reeti riwaj like eating from your hubby's used plate etc. Also i don't understand how she automatically gets saris to wear in haveli even when her visit was unplanned?