Apologies...and the truth behind it.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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First of all,I would like to apologize for whatever happened yesterday regarding the bashing issue. I think many members have been hurt by some of the comments and uske liye I want to say a BIG sorry!

But I just wanted to clarify one thing.

Whatever comments were made yesterday in some of the posts were not meant to hurt the sentiments of ANYBODY…I repeat…Anybody!The comments were solely made to tease one particular member in the forum.Actually many of the active members in the forum are also part of the chat club in this forum and there we find every scope and chance to tease each other and pull their legs.Every person has their own likes and dislikes and we purposefully choose the dislikes and start teasing them

.Like for example,let me take yesterday's issue only.One of the members here actually don't like the character of Akshara much.That is why whenever we get a chance,we only try to bring in her name(the character name and NOT THE ACTRESS.)in every discussion of ours.If you see yesterday…we didn't take Akshara's name but actually took Meenu's name whenever we say Akshara's name in the post.Our intention is never to bash any actress.Whomever we tease,its limited only till the character.😛

I think same way,some members here are teased using characters from SGP itself.Sheemu di was teased before by taking Ishaan's name..and now teased using Sona's name.Resham di is teased using Elesh's name and the list goes on.But I think now this plan is backfiring big time lol :P Jokes apart,I guess we did go too much into this which resulted in fans of the show getting hurt.I repeat our intention was never to hurt anyone!😊

I promise that such a thing will never happen from the next time.Being a viewbie,it was my duty to handle the issue in a more matured manner but intead I only started commenting and I am very ashamed of that too.From the next time,we shall keep such discussions only in the Chat Club and through PMs..but please…I request you all NOT TO MIND to such things...like someone said in another thread…we are not serious about SGP..and you expect us to be serious about other shows too😆

I know such instigating remarks were posted long back two years ago during SPA.That time I agree it was bashing.But this time,I promise…it is not bashing at all! :D

The damage is done…no one can deny that…but it can be repaired…and the most we can do is apologize.So I am really very sorry for that matter anything that has been spoken bad about the show.Please give me the links and I shall edit each and every comment. 😳

Ok and now another issue🤣major issue!

Guys,I guess we all have to control chatting! 😆 I am not saying you or me…we all…matlab poor a genda gang…that includes me too..Many people are getting confused in between chats and discussions so let us try to control chatting and limit it only to the BBC.Lets try not to chat in the discussion topics(pata hain control nahin hota..yesterday's bhai dooj post opened my eyes lol :P )

Let us try to atleast limit our chats to two to three pages in the discussion topics..lets not fill the whole post with chatting :P

And I have got a solution too which I shall start implementing from today!

If I see myself or someone else going off topic during the discussion,instead of replying on that post,I will quote the post and reply to it in the chat club lol :P You know just trying to control.So lets practice how to speak less in the discussion topics lol.

Instead of pressing the report button,please PM me the post you think is degratory(except the spam posts)so that action can be taken much faster.

Thank you and sorry once again.

SGP Forum Dev. Team

and I am such a ghatiya viewbie

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shounak bhai may be u r ghatiya viewbie🤣 but for me u are the best viewbie who gives us full freedom to do whatever we want to😆...I have no issues and no complaints😃

PS: I bring in neutrality by loving all characters whom people here hate🤣
Edited by tejeshec - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Acha yeh sab bhi hua?? I agree on chatting issue in discussions , I wanted to say something but I didn't but that would be great if you could stop it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Its very tough to draw a line for Bak Bak actually cuz one thing leads to other. We give some example drawing a parallel to a real life instance and then it starts. Or we find something funny in the episode it starts, we find something funny in the post, it starts...

I know it can get on u'r nerves if u are not part of it cuz u won't follow anything but if we start setting hard bound rules then the discussion will die very rapidly.

Only way is to take a personal call about what we write. Is it related to the topic of the thread then lets go ahead else drop it. Now what I may feel relevant might not seem relevant to others so we have to live with it.
Edited by tejeshec - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I guess somewhere round the corner even i m responsible for this...may be at times I might have passed harsh comments jst to justify my thoughts...bt everyone one have there likes n dislikes n what here we do is jst tease each other n not that actor, its fun...bt still if anyone thinks that I have crossed the limits n have commented which i shld have not then I apolozise.

and regarding bak bak...to some extent its fine but when I have prob. when some personal thread are audulterated with bak bak n where one cant afford to miss valuable post sometimes gets missed in bak bak
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenakshi_16

I guess somewhere round the corner even i m responsible for this...may be at times I might have passed harsh comments jst to justify my thoughts...bt everyone one have there likes n dislikes n what here we do is jst tease each other n not that actor, its fun...bt still if anyone thinks that I have crossed the limits n have commented which i shld have not then I apolozise.

and regarding bak bak...to some extent its fine but when I have prob. when some personal thread are audulterated with bak bak n where one cant afford to miss valuable post sometimes gets missed in bak bak



@red: accepted🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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abhi mujhe pata chala...its all because of me...jst now saw the link that niks send...and most of the comments were mines...par maine galat kya kaha...sach sahi mein kadwa hota hai 🤣

sahi hai yaar...thy got so much tym to stalk us...kahan kahan se post dhund kar likhe hai 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenakshi_16

abhi mujhe pata chala...its all because of me...jst now saw the link that niks send...and most of the comments were mines...par maine galat kya kaha...sach sahi mein kadwa hota hai 🤣



What will happen now?? NO BBC on Discussions threads, No "so called" Bashing..😭 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: greenleaf007



What will happen now?? NO BBC on Discussions threads, No "so called" Bashing..😭 🤣



Hum toh nahin rukenge..Koi rok sake toh rok le😆
vaise bhi hum humesha se hee Gopi aur Akshara ke shubh chintak rahe hain😳
Edited by tejeshec - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: .sb.

Guys,I guess we all have to control chatting! 😆 I am not saying you or me'we all'matlab poor a genda gang'that includes me too..Many people are getting confused in between chats and discussions so let us try to control chatting and limit it only to the BBC.Lets try not to chat in the discussion topics(pata hain control nahin hota..yesterday's bhai dooj post opened my eyes lol :P )

Let us try to atleast limit our chats to two to three pages in the discussion topics..lets not fill the whole post with chatting :P You are now asking the moon from me. 🤣 🤣 *sigh* But okay...I think I can control myself...yeah, totally...uh huh...buahahahahaha...who are you kidding? 🤣 Okay, okay, I can totally do this...but if I get withdrawal symptoms, I'm taking it out on you on FB. 😡😆😆

And I have got a solution too which I shall start implementing from today!

If I see myself or someone else going off topic during the discussion,instead of replying on that post,I will quote the post and reply to it in the chat club lol :P You know just trying to control.So lets practice how to speak less in the discussion topics lol.

Instead of pressing the report button,please PM me the post you think is degratory(except the spam posts)so that action can be taken much faster.

Thank you and sorry once again.

SGP Forum Dev. Team

and I am such a ghatiya viewbie

Shounak you are a fantabulous viewbie and I'm not saying this because you let most of the crap i post slide...but because of that reason only. 🤣🤣 Jokes aside though, I like you best as viewbie of SGP forum no matter what anyone says so don't think you're ghatiya. 😡 You're awesome!! Samaj gaya? 😳

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