Anandi and Gauri:Jagat is the culprit.

I am reading so many topics about Anandi being balidan stree, Gauri being irrational or wrong or right.

The whole focus is wrong. It is Jagdish who needs to questioned, scrutinized, blamed and crucified.

He is not a man enough who can take responsibility of his wife. He cannot put his foot down and say "my decision, my career, my wife, I am in charge, I walk out of this haveli, u want relations- u approach me".

He silently lets his illegitimate wife suffer. He also takes advantage of his legal wife by taking financial favors. He wants his family to say his illegitimate child is their legal heir.

Even as a medicine professional, he is inept. As a doctor he should be aware that if a pregnant woman faces stress and tensions, her child will be affected. He is not doing any good to his wife and expected child.

Now Jagdish has always been like this from childhood. Self absorbed. Unaware what others wants.But hugely lacks to satisfy this own demands. pathetic creep.

Both these women act as J's enablers and therefore are equally culpable.

I feel then anyone is too be blamed ,is bal vivah ,for us its very easy to say .but he was under big tension of tied to A ,G was kept in the dark ,difficult time but i felt sad for only anandi,nt his family ,they wud nt understand j ,for sure,becoz even they wer maried the same way right.yes he is responsible for chaos in their lives.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

I feel then anyone is too be blamed ,is bal vivah ,for us its very easy to say .but he was under big tension of tied to A ,G was kept in the dark ,difficult time but i felt sad for only anandi,nt his family ,they wud nt understand j ,for sure,becoz even they wer maried the same way right.yes he is responsible for chaos in their lives.

Every one can be blamed for many things.
But someone has to start doing the right things. Jagat was wronged when he was tied in child marriage. But as an adult he wronged gauri by not revealing his married status.

And if all went wrong for him until now, he is the ideal person to start doing the the RIGHT things at least for him.

As for Anandi being pitied, it is quite clear that J not is coming back. SHe might still love him and still be married to him. That does not make her present and future. So stop supporting him.Family ki izzat was tied to the freaking son. he failed the family.