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nirankesan

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Posted: 14 years ago

if the parents or mother think its unwanted pregnancy.its good for the child if mother opts for abotion.after delivery its really pitiable if the child is not getting mothers affection.human birth is not like anagconda. even after birth baby needs affection and guidance for years.

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Posted: 14 years ago

Exactly. If the mother is not in a position to - physically or mentally able to provide a completely wholesome and caring environment for the baby - it is for her to judge. Coz if she stays with the baby at home and is unhappy - that will only result in even more unhappiness and maybe even resentment for the baby.

Babies shud be had by mothers who r willing and eager to have them. They r very gentle and delicate and need the best of our love, attention and care to thrive into happy healthy children and adults.

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Missesha

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree to your thinking, but find it hard to accept. Somewhere we all have feelings and that's why we find it hard to accept things like;

Someone is aborting their child, bse it was unplanned pregnancy or

Someone has abandoned his wife, because he was not intersted in her anymore

or some girl can just start living with another married guy, simply because she feels its right.

Because by such acts someone else is getting hurt (born / unborn) and I personally feel we don't have right to spoil or rule other people's life.

I mean G does not have a strong valid reason to abort a child, accept for her career, which according to me is being a bit selfish. if she was worried about child being illegal or something it would have still made sense.

Also there may be girls like G in our society who may have gone through unwanted pregnancy (whether married or not) but if everyone had this easy option of aborting a child then, its like everyone is getting a license to make mistake and erase it... a wrong example to society as well.

Thats how I think

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