Originally posted by: monika.goel
Do you think a woman's first priority should be her family or the professional career?
I think that the first priority should be family... well if u think about it ..career can made up anytime.. if u get some backlogs in it then thats fine.. u do have other options.. to get along.. but not in the case of family.. never neglect it .. oncee its gone.. we will be shattered left with nothing even mental peace.. all alone... which is nothing but end of life....
What is your favourite home-made dish?
Its the baingan ka barta made by my mom
Where did u do your schooling & college?
Schooling from St.anns school in hyderabad, and college from JNTU univ,hyderabad, india..
How do you react to people who try to boss over you all the time?
Well.. i hate if anybody does that to me.. i give respect to once ideas and feelings but that doesnt mean they can boss me.. I guess ill end with a big figth with them.. and I care a damn.. ill do what i have to do.. and i feel it to be rite...
Select 3 of your IF -mates. Describe the 3, how you feel about them. Also, you need to mention atleast 3 negatives of that person, ofcourse, as many positives you want, you can list out!!!😳
well.. firstly.. about Khoo ( KOMAL)... as the name goes she iss like that.. and she became very close to me within less time .
positives in her.. : 😃.. she is friendly, she is fun loving, she is good by heart i feel..
negatives :.. yaar i dont know any... ( Monika please i dont know any...)
Secondly is MT:.. well i really am fan of this girll.. im just carried away by her.. i just keep imaging her as a personality .. i think if i explain.. ill keep going on..
positives in her : she is awesome writer.. what should i tell abt her writing and analysing skills.. i guess.. im short of words..., another positive in her is she is very humorous, and wonderful person .. i feell..
Thirdly well dont mind but it is U.. Monika :.. well i always read ur posts and i kind a feel very impressed by ur way of dignity in ur posts..
I like the way u interpret the things.. i just imagine u as a personality... admirable, decent, dignified.. ( just its my feeling..)
and im not telling any negatives abt anyone becoa i dont know that much that i can point out the negatives.. it wont be fair on my part to that when i am not clear as what u r .. i guess u got me.. 😊
If it's Zero degrees outside today and it's supposed to be Twice as cold tomorrow, how cold is it going to be? 🤓
😭😭😭... well i dont know.. im not good at this...
Why is it called a building when it is already built?
well..i dont know.. yaar where did u get these questions from.. wel is it becoz still the lives are getting build in that house.. 😛 .. i know my answer is crazy... i feel like banging my head.... 😭
What do you do when you see an endangered animal that eats only endangered plants?
laugh my heart out.. and then cry....😆
Why do they report power outages on TV?
becoz they cant tell it by running on the roads...
Why do scientists call it "re"search when looking for something new?
well.. why dint i get this doubt when i was doing a research...
becoz someone knows it and it might be known at at least some person the earth.. 😛...
yaar monika my bheja out..
aisa questions pehli baar dekh rahi hoon..
What do you think about the plight of married woman in IF, with their husbands always angry at seeing their wives in IF? What do you think is the best solution to this? (Other than the wife leaving IF, ofcourse)
ask the husbands to find their own time pass.. at least let the women get some sort of refreshment and exposure to the world.. and be contendded yaar.. well women gr8 going.. my full support to ull.. but at the same time do take care of ur hubby... ( i know ull do i need not say..)😛 I luv u all women over there...
Can you recall any particular interesting incident from childhood?
well i had many incidents but this one i can never forget.. we actually went to our village where in the outscirts we attend the pooja of our god.. well i was i guess 4 yrs then.. and we had to go little away from where the temple to take shower in the pond.. and my sisters and cousins left and i followed them.. but i keep staring at hings if they come on my way.. so i missed them and went into other direction and ended up in the middle of the forest.. u shuld see my face.. i was like throwing out buckets of water from my eyes... and after 3 hrs of crying and dont know where i was walking i at last saw my maid.. and then went safely near my parents.. after that i never went to such places... 😛
have you met anyone from IF? if yes then whom? who all you want to meet?
well.. no i dint meet anyone yet.. but yess im gonna meet Khoo... ( KOMAL).. well waiting to meet her...😊.. i dont beleive this.. 😊..well.. i want to meet arsh, MT, anushka, riyadutt, lisa, mallika, and of course how can i forget ... (U).. my dear.. actually i have made a picture of urself in my mind.. 😛😃
Do you keep in touch with your school and college friends? How deos it feel when you know you are going to meet them after a few years?
well im hardly in touch with one schooll friend.. i dint have good friends in school but in college sure i have my bigg gang... og friends.. with whom im in touch almost everyday.. friends mean a lot to me..😊
Choose one and tell me why
Anniversary or Birthday
Birthday, becoz i still dont have any anniverseries... 😛
Computer or TV
Computer.. yaar i spend most of the time on my laptop.. i cant think of a day without it.. and ofcourse my If .. how can i miss it.. and i dont watch KS on tv so Tv doesnt matter to me ..
Jai or pushkar
of course... JAI.. all the wayy.. my hottie.. and sexy.. jai walia..
Looks or Brains
what to do with looks without brains.. brains for sure..
bani or piya
of course mu hunny bunny bani.. all the way.. she is a sweetheart..
Writing or Typing
typing.. i do that better.. becoz my handwriting is not good..
frowning or yawning
yawning is better i feel than frowning.. it is something not of my interest ..
Day or Night
ofcourse nights.. that is when im more active.. and its plesant and romantic....😛😉
Which hindi serial character some to your mind when u listen to these IF members
MT,Khoo,Simz,Zara18,Monika,gumisavi,arsh,riyadutt,doyelpakhi .
MT - Jai, Khoo - Ranveer, Zara 18 - actually jai and Jigs for zara.. , Monika - Jai, pushkar, Gumisavi ,, - 😆.nothing indeed... arsh - rano, Riyadutt - 😛 jai, Doyelpakhi - sahil.
What is the most valuable gift you have ever received and from who?
well.. itssssssssssss...........😛.. ( kiss).. and from my loved one..
What actually comes to your mind first when you hear these terms:
"Love" -pure, "Friendship"-trust, "Husband's togetherness" -- safety, "Understanding in Marriage" - good terms, "Virtues and Discipline in Life" -success , "Important Virtue for a Woman -satisfaction..😊
In our society, sometimes relatives pass insensitive comments, and you being so sensitive, how do you cope with it? DO you cry your eyes our or do you reply firmly to discourage such comments in future?
I really dont care abt what they r talking.. becoz i do what matters to me and my loved ones i see they r not hurt by what i do.. thats what matters.. koi kuch bhi soche mujhe kya.. i really dont cry.. even in front of my loved ones.. i rarely cry.. 😛
As a person, Do you have the feeling of "what others would think" sometimes? and how do u handle ppl who are backbiters 😕
As a person.. well not 100 % for for about 10 % i think like that but .. the bottom line is that it doesnt really matter to me.. backbiters.. i cant stand themm.. if i know them then sorry to say ill tell them on the face i cant stay with them anymore...
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Monika
hey monika.. had a nice rollercoaster yaar.. kya questions hei.. i dont even know the answers.. my mind wass rolling around.. but alas.. no answers... dont shout at me.. becoz i dint do justice to ur questions..
anyways maza aa gaya yaar..
luv,
savi