jai-bani-silence, trust and family pride.

As I said in my earlier post that silence is not always acceptable. I also said that before anybody inform jai about bani's pregnancy, its bani who should be the first one to inform jai about the situation. By doing this, trust level between them increase to a higher level. Bonding between them become very strong.If she will not than situation go worse. I feel that whatever I wrote justify by y'day's episode.

Whatever jai told to bani was completely wrong. He should not use those kind of words. (for which I blame ekta. In all tv serials, ekta is the pioneer who show her female vamp character below the bottom level. To call her all the vamps a woman is a shameful thing. The kind of words ekta's dialogue writers use are disgusting. How can she allow this kind dialogues utter by one woman or man for other woman as she also a woman? She knows that serials are watch by every member of the family. So use of such a words is totally shameful. She better check her mind before approving it. Hate her…) but when he heard the news, he didn't believe anyone and straight away go to bani and asked her about the truthness of the report. This shows that he trust her. But when bani confirm about the pregnancy, his anger blast becoz he felt cheated, his trust in bani broken. He knows that there is no such relationship between them which lead bani to become a pregnant. So when he asked her , if u notice his reaction which said that he wanted bani to say no considering their relationship. He wanted to keep his faith in bani intact.

He also asked bani the reason of her crying. That time also she keep mum. So bani is to some extent responsible for the mess between them. Why she didn't tell to jai? He is her husband. Whatever happened between them was a past. Now there is no bitterness in heart for each other, both like and love each other, both respect and trust each other (which shows from their action) then why she didn't trust jai? If she wanted to save a jai's family pride by hiding anu's pregnancy (which we assume), she can do it even by telling it to jai. If she had told about it to jai, its for sure that jai's trust in bani, his respect for bani, his love for bani touch the higher level.

But she remain silence all the time. What is the need for it? What she gain by becoming a "tyag ki devi" all the time? Nothing. On the contrary she gain humiliation and lost his husband's trust. Now even if truth comes out that its not bani but its anu who is pregnant and bani did all this to save her and family "izzat", its of no use. Ya people will call her sacrifice lady and jai will feel guilty but at what cost? By hearding all the craps for herself and at the cost of her self respect. Oh bani.. common baby stop behaving like a sacrifice lady n first think for yourself and jai….That's why I again say that "SILENCE IS NOT ALWAYS ACCEPTABLE".

Hope all my friends like what I want to say…

Love,

kiah

I totally agree with you. Good analysis. Is Ekta listening!

yes,that is true.she should communicate with jai.

yah...you are right.
our bani should be more strong...she should say something at least...being silent wont help her solve her problems!

Yes, maybe Bani's character could be made more stronger.

Loved ur analysis. U r so right.

?You are right if Bani loves Jai she should trust him and we all know Jai has a very understanding nature he would obviously jelp Bani in protecting Anu

i think it would be better if Bani's character was more stronger - as said by Sangitadas.

a lot of the main actresses in shows arent strong characters

BUT what if bani IS really Pregant? Then what can she tell Jai??

BUT what if bani IS really Pregant? Then what can she tell Jai??