The Mavbharat times? - Page 2

@khusi and asru --

Anandi is not using any cheap tactics to get jagiya back in her life...!!

You know I get both Khusi and Tinoo's points here and agree. But I am leaning more towards Tinoo's post and here's why.

(no sarcasm here)
We all know how good Anandi is. She is good to a fault. Her niceness is becoming her biggest weakness. We also know that she would do anything for J's happiness. In fact we also agree that she has never set out to hurt anyone with intentional malice. Majority of the time decisions she takes hurts her the most. Most of us think this is ok because she is hurting herself not others. I agree with this to a point but what about 'zulm sehna bhi paap hai'. With that said, I have issue with the following:

If she is so good to the extent of always wanting J's happiness, why did she choose to jeopardize his relationship with G by calling at all (forget time of day). She knows J's happiness lies with G. She had options available to her. She could have verified with Sumitra that it was not required for her to return J's call. Wouldn't it be safe to say that deep down there was a selfish desire within her to talk to J, to hear his voice?

Anandi projects herself as very cautious, very thoughtful, she weighs every word before speaking. She is praised and heralded all the time by the family for all her good qualities. Why can't she be just a discriminatory about her actions concerning Jagya. Giving baashans is easy, setting an example is difficult.

My thoughts are jumbled on this, and expressing in writing no better. I hope I was able to convey the essence of my POV.

agreed at Kushi!

There is no point in me saying all the time that Anandi loves jagya and thats the reality of it if we like it or not.


She is moving on , but slowly and deep inside she still wants to patch up and forgive.

thats Anandi , her life, her view of things.
So thats cool

No its NOT cool...

Originally posted by: gagarulez

No its NOT cool...

So what kind of message goes out then??? that no matter what your husband does...you need to forgive and accept him back??? is that what BV message should be...

then why blame Gauri???? she too loves Jagya and accepted him even after knowing that he lied to her for 5 years, because he convinced her he loves her and NOT Anandi, she agreed to marry him and lives with him...so whats the big deal?? why blame Gauri all the time? its Jagya who made the choice...of not wanting to live with Anandi...of marrying Gauri...

Well...if Anandi forgives Jagya and accepts him back after "ALL" that he has done...its COOL...because she is Anandi...ohhh she cannot go wrong...bulls**** she can and what she is doing IS wrong...

But if Gauri forgives Jagya and marries him after knowing "ALL" the truth...its so not cool...WOW...how convenient...

Originally posted by: chulbuli7

Has Jagya gone back to Anandi???

Has Anandi forgiven him???

Has Gauri left him???

NO right?

Then lets just wait and watch what happens... why get so hyper about it, its just a tv serial...Take it easy. 😉

Yes parri..i am getting what u r trying to say…!!😊

I agree with u on the fact that "zurm sehena paap hai"…tolerating the injustice is something I am not ok in present anandi's situations. Yes It can be excusable for me before 4 years leap coz at that time she wanted save her marriage and didn't know about gauri but now if she would try to get back jagiya tolerating all his attitudes…I would criticize A all the way! And about tolerating JG in haveli ,her many steps at that time were seemed me as her moving on process at some extent but not every action!

Now her call back to j…as far as I am able to understand ur point …anandi overruled her own basic principle/stand that she wants j's happiness so she should take more cautions not to put him in trouble.

Ok I just want to a give a small example on that…!

One basic principle is not to go against law. Kanun ko hath main lena sahi nehin hai….it is a basic rule.

Jagat bribed the peon for the illegal marriage that was against law and highly punishable. And when basant knew the fact he threatened and even beat the peon and gave money to him to get back the locket.(lets forget the emotional attachment on the locket)

Here also the basic stand is overruled by basant. The rule book says when u know a person is doing the wrong thing as bribe ,u should inform the police and a proper procedure is there and that should be followed. But he didn't do that and accused jagat that he bribed the peon and scolded him in the name of family reputation. Where he was also did the similar thing by beating the peon and didn't think about family reputation….But here in basant case isn't it excusable!! In fact in my eyes it is not noticeable at all. Basant's this action cant put question mark on him…not to obey rules or not thinking of family reputation!

Jagat's case is a broader issue to criticize…

Here same with anandi…her call back is not that big thing that I can suspect her basic stand not to get j back in life anyhow. That's her hidden desire to listen j's voice and I can't call it as selfish desire also… as comparable to what JG have done (all that I, me, myself stuffs).

If cautions r concerned then there r many things to look at like financial help, serving JG food, want to sit in j's chair at dining table , talking to j at cowshed late at night! Those can be also create prob between JG but...should anandi think much of those things?…. her basic stand is questionable for not taking cautions?…..hmmm….i didn't find those cases r noticeable!

My problem with A is why to convey mgs to j that u r still pinning for him!! Those could be controlled and not that she can't do it…she did it in past but right now she is stepping backwards!!...Y to wasting time in the worthless things….y to neglect ur higher education?? These r serious issues!