Originally posted by: steffroc
Oh!! Dear..So you think this does happened in our society..Issi baath ki mujjhe daar thi. I was mainly confused.😕 At front of my eyes there is no MIL like that. I know few stories from 30/40 years beofore. But I can see in dramas in every family have some very complecated problems about family politics. So I was worried. Seriously yaar, I am thinking to marry someone who's family is very independent from each other and better to be some one from west😭😭😭😭option nehi hai na yaar😳 keyaa karu? Still we are quite conservative to marry from other country. We should start marrying from west.
just last year i went to holidays and i realized the people havent moved on they are just like we see in Soaps and i can tell they are even worse,
the MILs always want to control their son
doesnt matter if they are educated or not. in the serial they are atleast shwoing the MIL is uneducated.
i will suggest to marry soemone from west. its also ok if the person is brought up in west also if he is desi. they are not the best but a little better than real desi boys😆😉
haan i know well i am not conservative i would love to marry someone out of my countryT it might not happen, my parents wont like it ) 😆 and my kids will not marry any desi guy for sure 😆
Oh! Dear, so you and I on the same track. My parents gave me freedom recently to marry from any country after lots of debate. I will just marry a person of same religion, does not matter his nation, color anything but only good educated culture(very important), good human being .
you are soo right. Indian man who are brought up in west and live independently , is better than desi khit pit the once are potrayed in dramas, if this is truly highly practiced in India , as you said. But we should not fall for any desi guy who live in west with his joint family. haam mar jayegaa yaar.
I did not saw any pathetic MIL in my Family or even in other families arround me, it is very true so I was strongly opposing those dramas, but during last generation(my mom's era) there were few MIL like the one in TV dramas. My grand maa was really nice person and was a very constructive character.So I can't relate those dramas in my life.
But I have heard NRI joint family in west who are 100 years back ward and fighting kitchen politics. Again those NRI are lower class one. Of course not our standerd and we do not need to think about them. Usually homeless people who eats poor fund, has this type of mentality ... Kaam wali baai nehi hoti hai na , ghaar mai, issi lie bahu koo baai samajhti hai kuch poor uneducated NRI family. I completly agree , I have heard NRI joint family where MIL expact the DIl will do lots of household work everyday for everybody.
It is better to marry a man who stay single, away from family with his business or job in west😊. You are correct👍🏼 And western country is a big support as itself for the women. Many things we can do there without social pressure. It is good to take care of MIL,SIL, BIL but it should be vise versa. but if it is too critial and give us some sin in our beautiful life and make our life hell then it is better to marry some one who stay away from all those crimes. Western men are the best, specially those who marry once in a life time. There are nice man in west. But some of them just play with women.Character dhilaa western man are very bad and ratio of character dhilaais higher in west than India. So there is a problem with west, we have to be very careful when we choose.😉
Indian women are in serious trouble yaar Hum loog kare to keyaa kare? There should be just one drama which will deal with this situation in innovative way and show some solution and that is it. All other drama which are showing conventional khit pitt should stop kiu ki we have seen them a lot. Abh solution chaa hi ee
Edited by sama0023 - 14 years ago
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