Originally posted by: skg267
Maybe it's because he is still hoping deep-down that this is all some kind of big joke. I mean he comes home one day to find this totally new person in his life, whom his whole family, especially Daadi dotes on but whom he finds pretty annoying.
Then he realises she is his wife and that he has forgotten a whole year and a half of his life!
Now everybody is pushing him to be with her, to behave as her husband when he feels almost no attraction towards her. Ever since he realised she is his wife, and how seriously she takes that and loves him he has been trying to be nice to her. But he is not enjoying being around her. It is a huge amount of pressure for him, as she can't hide her love and he feels terrible not being able to return it. So if ever he gets the chance to suspect her, confirm that she is false and not his true wife then he is going to grab it because then his whole world would fall back into place and make sense.
To me, that is why he is so desperate, almost, for her to be the wily vamp who tries to interfere and ruin his work life, tries to trick him into breaking her fast etc. Not only does he not feel anything for her at the moment, he doesn't understand why she loves him either!
So he has the tendency to not trust her, rather than trusting her, because at this point her having some ulterior motive makes more sense than her being his devoted, loving wife, especially when he can't remember why she loved him in the first place!
He always grabbing the opportunity to bash Geet because:
1. She claims his wife & he doesn't remeber her.
2. His entire family supports her, especially his Ddadima, who always used to place him in front of every one, now takes her side than his which frutrates him a lot as he can't take it easily that some strangers takes his place in his Daadima's heart. (this is so natural even with children, the elder kid tries to hurt the younger one, because mother dotts the younger one more than the elderone and the child can't take it so easily as he was enjoying the love so far entirely an ddoesn't want to share it with anyone else)
3. He know she is agood girl and he is willing to accept her as his wife but unfortunately he doesn't feel for her even when she is in his close proximity. So he feels, he will do wrong by giving her false hopes, when he can't feel the love for her.
he is just shout at her because that is teh only way he can outburst his anxiety, he wants her to go away from him and ahve peaceful life of her own than staying ibn KM by hurting her feelings as well as his.
Jaya