Elders Interefrence:right or wrong

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: _charu_

what happened once, woh dobara na ho, uski tension advance mein hi le li 😆 if it happens for the 2nd time what will happen? akshara will commit suicide? or she will turn mental? sorry to say but we all love our loved ones and cannot imagine our lives without them but once they leave this world, do we live with the dead? one day everyone has to die, do we have to mourn everyday and spoil the present

understand di.. jo kuch bhi hua.. uske liye vo sab bhulana aasaan nhi hai.. use time lagega..🤢

Sari is right, acc. to the paltan they r right...but why this anxiety for a routine check up? if it was some imp. blood test or ultra sound report which will decide baby's fate, it was understandable, but routine check up? 🤢 whats this logic ke if akshara didnt listen to the doc,. and naitik also forgets then therez gayitri to note down the advice, if she forgets then therez bma, if bma forgets then varsha and rajshri 😆 why not make a video of what doc. is saying 😎 watch the footage on BIG SCREEN 😆

exactly di!!

routine check-up ke wakt ye haal hai.. delivery ke time kya hoga.?? bache kuche log bhi aa jenge kya.??

what worries me more is.. kya har routine check-up par yahi hone wala hai.??😕

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: --Sari--
Deepshi- great question! Was it right or wrong, depends on who is answering this question😆 If you ask the paltan, they would all say they were right. She has had a MC & the way she has been behaving since the news I think they all can justify their presence there. Some assistance/help is definitely appreciated by every couple coz this is a new experience for both & can be worrisome at times but the one on Fri probably never happens😆

Jo hogaya so hogaya. How can we resurrect this track that has been going downhill since the start? Hmm...Ek din ke liye mujhe CV bana sakthe hai? 😆 I would love for Akshara to step up to the plate next week. Not Naitik but Akshara; show the 2 maa's that she is ready for this new responsibility😃

It's Akshara's lack of self confidence that is creating this circus like atmosphere. Room mein jaake rona hai tho rone dho but not sabke saamne😆 The humorous side of me wants Akshara to say "agar ek aur baar MC ki baath kisine ki tho, mujhse bura koyi nahi hoga..."🤣

Agree with you Sari Di...somewhere down the line its Akshara's fault too... If she had shown some kind of happiness...excitement on hearing her pregnancy news the situation would have been defintely better than what it is now. It would have given Naitik more confidence to say that he can manage. Akshara's fear and nervousness allowed other ladies of the house to poke their nose in...sply congo and papita... 🤢 Everyone wanted to put in their two cent w/o asking Naksh if they wanted it or not... 😕 Naksh were definetely not happy with this unwanted tagging...😔 Though Akshara was nervous she wanted only Naitik to be around her and not the whole mahila mandal. Sab logon ke paas apne apne reasons the aane ke liye and I must say all reasons were quite wierd... 🥱 Ladies it was just the check up and not satya narayan ki puja ke sab log mattha tek kar prasad lene pohanch gaye... 😆 4 ladies along with a small child accompanying a couple for a routine check up just cause Doc asked to get previous mc file...I mean how idiotic can it get... 😡 I understand as an elder they wanted to guide and be there for Naksh but has anyone taken an effort to ask if they want this help or not. Sab log munh uthake chaldiye...🤢
RJ is going to get it from G3 for poking her nose in each and everything...😆 aur agar phir bhi nahi sudhre toh Akshi has to tell her clearly... The biggest problem in this matter is udaipur express GAYATRI...jo chalu hogayi toh rukne ka naam hi nahi leti hai... Who will pull the chain to stop this train... 😕

P.S :- Nice Topic Deepshi...🤗

Edited by Asawari_naksh - 14 years ago

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Kruti

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I agree,only naksh and varsha should have gone,i couldnt understand the need for bhabi maa and gaytri to be there even rajshri didnt need to be there. there was too much crowd and insteas of akshara being calm she was upset and worried and the mums espically gayatri kind came across as making about them.'.muhje yeh doctor nahi pasand' ya dont ask the patient you just give ur opnion and force them to change docs and dont let them speak😡
They can give thier opnion about doc etc but at the end of the day it should be up to naksh which doc they want and mostly akshara's choice as she has to be confortable with her doc. Also scans and all is something the couple should experience together and not the whole family! and omg how dressed up where gayatri and babhi maa for a hospital appointment?😲😆

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madhavi

@Madhavi_Di

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Posted: 14 years ago

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agree with you Sari Di...somewhere down the line its Akshara's fault too... If she had shown some kind of happiness...excitement on hearing her pregnancy news the situation would have been defintely better than what it is now. It would have given Naitik more confidence to say that he can manage. Akshara's fear and nervousness allowed other ladies of the house to poke their nose in...sply congo and papita... 🤢 Everyone wanted to put in their two cent w/o asking Naksh if they wanted it or not... 😕 Naksh were definetely not happy with this unwanted tagging...😔 Though Akshara was nervous she wanted only Naitik to be around her and not the whole mahila mandal. Sab logon ke paas apne apne reasons the aane ke liye and I must say all reasons were quite wierd... 🥱 aLadies it was just the check up and not satya narayan ki puja ke sab log matth tek kar prasad lene pohanch gaye... 😆 4 ladies along with a small child accompanying a couple for a routine check up just cause Doc asked to get previous mc file...I mean how idiotic can it get... 😡 I understand as an elder they wanted to guide and be there for Naksh but has anyone taken an effort to ask if they want this help or not. Sab log munh uthake chaldiye...🤢
RJ is going to get it from G3 for poking her nose in each and everything...😆 aur agar phir bhi nahi sudhre toh Akshi has to tell her clearly... The biggest problem in this matter is udaipur express GAYATRI...jo chalu hogayi toh rukne ka naam hi nahi leti hai... Who will pull the chain to stop this train... 😕

P.S :- Nice Topic Deepshi...🤗
Ashi good one i loved everyone views but Ashi you make me Rofl🤣🤣
@red the Gayari udaipur express😆and satya narayan puja with prasad😆Ashi prasad ka naam maat lena varna RB bhi hospital main aajayega😆
Gayatri ka naya naam maine rakha hai jwalamukhi jo sabko jaladegi and hamara and naksh ka jina haaram karegi😡waise who will pull the chain ye Baisa ko bulavo 😆

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sonu_naksh

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Nice topic Elders interference...right or wrong well It all depends on everybody's personalities, expectations, contributions, and communication styles.but yes elders shouldn't(here it'sGayatri Or RJ) humiliate/criticize naksh . i don't think that everyone should come to the hospital & poke their nose is the right thing , i know they do care about naksh but caring & interfering is two different thing they should know very well that what was rational yesterday may not be valid today and will never be applicable tomorrow & elders are the pillars of the family. Pillars are for supporting, not for creating obstacles.

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jassi81

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sweet_deepshi
in friday's epi according to me many things which i didn't expected happened...i'm saying this coz i didn't watch thursday's epi...i didn't expect so many ppl going to the hospital wid naksh...it seemed as they all had gone out on a picnic...it was so frustating to see maheshwaris n ss in the hosptal it was looking ki naa jaane kya ho gaya ho?ok theek hai akshara needs care n everyone wants ki pichli baar jo hua woh naa ho but i don't think ki that much care is needed...seeing everyone so scared akshara will also get scared...mujhe lagta hai ki acc to maheshwaris n ss naksh are kids jo apna dhyaan nahi rakh sakte...it's ufff...naksh too were sad...seeing fridat's scene i was like oh meri goodness...agle 9 mahine agar this happens wud never feel like watching this track then...leaving behing interference what all g spoke...her rubbish n irritating words...i mean the doctor wud be more protective this time naa...she will not let things repeat...why is g3 so scared...she'll make akshara too break into tears...!we all wee so happy that finally what we wanted is back but never expected it in this way...!!!!🤢🤢

I agree, this is too much interference, but I have to say that they are showing reality. This is what still happens in so many families, even non traditional ones. everyone wants to be involved. I have seen this first hand and I know it is very frustrating but this is how parents want to react. This interference is nothing compared to what happens in real life.

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457639

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: jassi81

I agree, this is too much interference, but I have to say that they are showing reality. This is what still happens in so many families, even non traditional ones. everyone wants to be involved. I have seen this first hand and I know it is very frustrating but this is how parents want to react. This interference is nothing compared to what happens in real life.

i would not deny the fact that this doesn't happen in real life.. of course it does.. but here the thing is akshara should know where to draw the line.. if not gayatri.. she can tell her own mother or ask dadi n everybody else at her home that she'll manage..

here others are interfering only because she's letting them to.. if once she puts her foot down that yes ma.. im alright i can handle this pregnancy, things i believe will get to normal then..

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--Sari--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

RJ is going to get it from G3 for poking her nose in each and everything...😆 aur agar phir bhi nahi sudhre toh Akshi has to tell her clearly... The biggest problem in this matter is udaipur express GAYATRI...jo chalu hogayi toh rukne ka naam hi nahi leti hai... Who will pull the chain to stop this train... 😕

Entertaining reading Ashi! Bahut maza aaya😆 "Akshi has to tell her clearly..." kab hoga? Hoga bhi nahi? The last time around, this didn't happen. Only 2 of them & sometimes just Akshi visited the Dr. Why? Coz Akshara was happy + confident, tho M's & S's ne zaroori nahi samja. Jabse news aaya hai, I haven't seen Akshara happy😕 As a family member I would be concerned about her & since this is joint family, puri paltan ne aana zaroori samja. I am not defending their behavior here but we all know how intrusive & annoying family can be😆 Actually MJ ko aana zyaada zaroori tha coz he is the one cooking for her. Dr se acche se puch letha kya kya kilana hai...🤣

She has the maturity to decipher why a Dr would need previous reports, doesn't she? 😕 Yes, this is only her second time & she is young. Guess what, we all have been in similar situations maybe not MC but we learn to deal with it independently😃

Life has been a smooth sailing so far (barring all the self inflicted MU's), this has been the only real roadblock & she doesn't seem to handle it well😕 Yes, bahut laad se pala hai but hum sabko bhi laad se hi paala tha. Yes, everybody handles things differently but kabhi tho himmat dikathe honge na? That is what is missing in her portrayal😕 For the last how many ever months, all we have seen is Akshara cry over the MC. It's almost like this is her last chance, a make or break deal😕 Kabhi tho himmat dikhao & show what we, the real women are made of😉😆

For me, the gripe is with the CV's for showing us such a weak portrayal of a girl going thru motherhood. Women go through such hardship to be a mother, so many complications before, during & after the birth of the child. Some babies are in NICU for months, yaha pe aisa kuch bhi nahi hua & all we get is panic attacks followed by crying

Am I giving these ullu's ideas?😆 Ab mujh pe muth chilao if the baby is in NICU...😆 Oh please, forgive me I was just trying to convince Ashi, kuch zyada hi behak gayi... 🤣Forget, I even said it. Hypnotist ko bulao?😆

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sona_naksh

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Posted: 14 years ago

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here i want 2 say dat in dis serial everyone has been given d right 2 interfere😡 in naksh's life n take decisions w/o even asking dem dat wat exactly dey want.

in last 2 epis g3😡😡😡 has blamed doc🤢 4 mc n said dat she knows everything as she has given birth 2 kids👏 but i say dat if she knows dis much why dint she took proper care of akshi during her first preg😕🤢😡.

i think if akshi had been alone in d company of naitik she wud ve recovered very early at d time of mc n dis time too but d time she starts smiling sum1 reminds her n she gets afraid😭.

akshi wanted 2 go 2 d doc only wid naitik😃 it was visible thru her gestures but dese idiots inhe kaun samjhaaye🤢. btw rest 4 first 3 months i dont know i ve no experiance but i ve listened elders saying unless until doc suggests u shud nod take complete bed rest, it creates prob at d time of delivery.

i m afraid if every1 is not stopped here after d birth of child dey wud say tum dono ko kuch pata nhi h abhi bas dekho khud sb kuch karne ke liye doosra paida kar lo😕😲.

worst part is g3🤢😡 dragging akshi away from naitik everytime n saying ki bahu ke liye sab kuch mai tai karungi arre jinka bachha h unse to puch lo at least first n final decision shud be der's only.

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