Originally posted by: gutky
DITTO... 👍🏼 ❤️ 😍 😳 😆
yup di dont EXPECT anything from anybody... 👏 gre88 thinking i'll apply it right away... 👏 n di its not about taking sides.. i still like akshara's character n relate with her in every aspect... but i wont deny the fact that its way too unrealistic in present scenario.. chamchagiri karke impress karna is certainly not in my cards.. the only thing i like abt her is that she respects each n every relation n can go to any extend to maintain peace n unity in their house.. 😃 which is very rare to see these days.. 😆
i never said i dun like akshara, i said she's too unrealistic.i really admire the perfect akshara and bhagwan kare , sabko akshara jaisi bahu, wife n beti mile 👏.in practical terms, i believe, nobody can change from gayitri to dadi..even if their bahu is akshara...what happens is that ppl. start taking u for granted and in the end u feel ur being used...we THINK that ppl. change but they don't, actually with time, the understanding comes, we LEARN to ignore (like ur mom said), that's adjustment which everybody does..may be with time we also start liking it, what we didn't like a few years back...i was a spoiled brat with i got married n nobody expected ke i'll manage a family but i did...my attitude my perspective changed..wohi toh, maturity aa jaati hai..but with time, not immediate and not by akshara's way...even if she does tons of gulabogiri, gayitri will not start loving her more than munna...after a period of time, you will be saying what i'm saying now 😆
it happened with my sister..when she got married, she was in full on gulabo mode 😆 she got everybody's praises, everyone was flattered , now after 5-6 years, she's so much in trouble bec. of this..bec. now she's not able to do gulabogiri coz of her health, after operation and baby n she HAS to...woh bhi all alone...she cannot work or leave the house, bas ghar raho aur ghar ka kaam karo..this is what her in laws thought she can do best and now it's extremely difficult to change the scenario ! her SIL is also getting married n nobody can be akshara, my sis. is not able to do anything alone when she's expected to...jo bhi karo, 10 logon ki advice lo phir karo, OMG what a ghutan bhari zindagi 🤢
ur mother gave a very good advice, my mom gave itne deadly advices to me ke main toh khatam ho jaati if i followed them...jahan jao saas se poochkar jao 😆 ( pehle i didn't like it but now i'm used to),baatein ignore karo..omg ! 🤢 ignore karna is tough specially if u feel strongly against something (ur mil 😆)...if i have to go to maayka, saas se poocho 😆 yeh toh i only noticed ke when my mom says something i never feel bad n when my saas says it, i dun like it...toh ab usually hota hai ulta...see, i also changed from payal to mini akshara 😆
Edited by _charu_ - 14 years ago
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