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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Sach mein Charu, I didn't want to comment yest, dishing out such bakwas. Baar baar ek hi kayal aaraha tha, if this is one of the top 10 shows baaki shows kaise honge Humor is also not helping these days


Pehle it was easy to write more than a page, dil se woh bhi but aajkal I have to think🤢 Main discussion mein post karna bhi bandh kiya tha other than just chatting with the girls. Kyonki, accha likne ke liye kuch hai hi nahi.


I cannot believe I am saying this but I can seriously tolerate RJ now but G3 mere samaj ke bahar. I was thinking the same, she can appoint a personal gynec. Imagine if something goes wrong, usse kaccha chabayegi , literally😆

I hope RJ talks back, woh uski beti hai dushman nahi. Yes, RJ has made the same mistake, what goes around comes around but it's about time, someone needs to put an end to this train wreck called G3. Didn't Akshara lose the baby in her dekh-pal? Why blame the Dr? For a change, Akshara seemed to want to have only Naitik, about time😳👏


can't tell u how much i'm hating this track..woh bhi old memories start haunting me..when my mom got insulted by my mil, n she packed her bags and went back and i had to do everything alone , managing the baby and myself after 10 days of c-section delivery.. bahut mushkil se bhooli... see, i won't take any sides, mil's r also right, it's just the lack of understanding...i dun think except in kabhi khushi kabhi gham, 2 samdhan's ever got along well 😆 mil
s ke most common complaint hai ke their bahu's listen to their mothers only...and we girls also think ke what our mom is saying must be right...

i said rajshri should not interfere coz ultimately it's gonna be gayitri's call and she won't hesitate in telling the same to rajshri...secondly, gayitri will give another deadly reason ke rajshri thinks they cannot take care of akshara 🤢 just stop her meri bachi jaap coz it's not gonna help akshara or her... misunderstandings galore and dil khatta ho jaata hai sabka..what's the use? let meri bachi live her life, leave her alone, she's mature enuf to take care of her, if not her then her husband will take care..dono milkar kuch toh kar hi lenge...if everyone starts voicing their opinion, there will be utter chaos..rajshri doesn't want varsha's mom's interference, gayitri doesn't want rajshri and rama behen wud not want gayitri around rashmi..sab apne expert opinion dene lage toh kaunsi baat maani jayegi who will decide?

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: gutky


Yup di I live with my inlaws'😃 n believe me di everything's fine as per my wishes n demands.. n sab nayi bahu ko pamper bhi bahut karte hai.. beta ye lelo.. beta ye kha lo n all dat.. 😆expect for my MIL .. thodi g3 types hai.. but mere pass bhi tho munna hai..😉 who apni chalata hai n g3 is like..😲 shadi ko ek mahina nahi hua aur abhi se joru ka ghulam ban jaya' 🤣

Yes di I totally understand n agree with u that we should live each day of our life peacefully infact I believe this theory from the core..👏 but as charu di said they should not test somebody's patience .. every time ignore nahi kar sakte hai di.. it gets into my nerves.. or else they'll take u for granted..😕

But yes as u suggested I'll definitely join my work again' yeh attitude office mein kaam karne se hi develop hoga I guess' phir shayad ignore karke jeena bhi shik loon.. 😎 n a big thanks from bottom of my heart di..🤗 u n charu di are really a source of motivation n inspiration for me' ❤️ kudos for u two... 😆 to be honest I was really disturbed since 2-3 days but after reading ur post I'm feeling much better now.. infact very fine' thanks di.. 😃


aaaww Vini, we r always there for u 🤗 koi nayi baat nahi hai, dadi jaisi saas rare/extinct species hai 😆 why is it with mil only? bec. mom's r too insecure , they don't wanna lose the authority over their sons, and they have this pre-conceived notion that bahu's will snatch them...well, mera ek hi funda hai, it's a formal relation, do ur best , nibhaofy it but don't expect anything...expectation creates a lot of problems...expecting mil to be like mom, kabhi nahi hota..ab batao, akshara ko support karti thi na, pata chala why i said she's unrealistic? tu akshara bankar apni gayitri saas ko impress karne ki koshish kar...7 janam lag jayenge 😆 n why take so much pains? koi medal nahi milega..YR ka song yaad rakhna "preet sajan ki jag mein sabse pyari hai" 😍
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_


can't tell u how much i'm hating this track..woh bhi old memories start haunting me..when my mom got insulted by my mil, n she packed her bags and went back and i had to do everything alone , managing the baby and myself after 10 days of c-section delivery.. bahut mushkil se bhooli... see, i won't take any sides, mil's r also right, it's just the lack of understanding...i dun think except in kabhi khushi kabhi gham, 2 samdhan's ever got along well 😆 mil
s ke most common complaint hai ke their bahu's listen to their mothers only...and we girls also think ke what our mom is saying must be right...

i said rajshri should not interfere coz ultimately it's gonna be gayitri's call and she won't hesitate in telling the same to rajshri...secondly, gayitri will give another deadly reason ke rajshri thinks they cannot take care of akshara 🤢 just stop her meri bachi jaap coz it's not gonna help akshara or her... misunderstandings galore and dil khatta ho jaata hai sabka..what's the use? let meri bachi live her life, leave her alone, she's mature enuf to take care of her, if not her then her husband will take care..dono milkar kuch toh kar hi lenge...if everyone starts voicing their opinion, there will be utter chaos..rajshri doesn't want varsha's mom's interference, gayitri doesn't want rajshri and rama behen wud not want gayitri around rashmi..sab apne expert opinion dene lage toh kaunsi baat maani jayegi who will decide?


but to be honest di… after marriage we're expected to follow inlaws custom's n traditions n also listen to our respective Mil's … (even if she talks crap) 😆 infact yesterday only my mom was explaining me that wat if same thing was done by me?? Will u be in the same manner get angry with me n stop talking with me ?? I said NO.. den she said if u dont take ur mother's words to ur heart then why cant u apply it for ur mil ??? even she's like ur mom .. just learn to IGNORE certain things it will help u … n stop cribbing for small small issues it will worsen ur life n make u more miserable… u can share ur problems with me.. n I'm always der to explain u.. but don't expect me to come in the picture.. its your house n family n u better learn how to tackle it urself… 😊 inshort after marriage inlaws ki hi chalti hai..😭

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_


aaaww Vini, we r always there for u 🤗 koi nayi baat nahi hai, dadi jaisi saas rare/extinct species hai 😆 why is it with mil only? bec. mom's r too insecure , they don't wanna lose the authority over their sons, and they have this pre-conceived notion that bahu's will snatch them...well, mera ek hi funda hai, it's a formal relation, do ur best , nibhaofy it but don't expect anything...expectation creates a lot of problems...expecting mil to be like mom, kabhi nahi hota..ab batao, akshara ko support karti thi na, pata chala why i said she's unrealistic? tu akshara bankar apni gayitri saas ko impress karne ki koshish kar...7 janam lag jayenge 😆 n why take so much pains? koi medal nahi milega..YR ka song yaad rakhna "preet sajan ki jag mein sabse pyari hai" 😍


DITTO... 👍🏼 ❤️ 😍 😳 😆
yup di dont EXPECT anything from anybody... 👏 gre88 thinking i'll apply it right away... 👏 n di its not about taking sides.. i still like akshara's character n relate with her in every aspect... but i wont deny the fact that its way too unrealistic in present scenario.. chamchagiri karke impress karna is certainly not in my cards.. the only thing i like abt her is that she respects each n every relation n can go to any extend to maintain peace n unity in their house.. 😃 which is very rare to see these days.. 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: gutky

DITTO... 👍🏼 ❤️ 😍 😳 😆
yup di dont EXPECT anything from anybody... 👏 gre88 thinking i'll apply it right away... 👏 n di its not about taking sides.. i still like akshara's character n relate with her in every aspect... but i wont deny the fact that its way too unrealistic in present scenario.. chamchagiri karke impress karna is certainly not in my cards.. the only thing i like abt her is that she respects each n every relation n can go to any extend to maintain peace n unity in their house.. 😃 which is very rare to see these days.. 😆


i never said i dun like akshara, i said she's too unrealistic.i really admire the perfect akshara and bhagwan kare , sabko akshara jaisi bahu, wife n beti mile 👏.in practical terms, i believe, nobody can change from gayitri to dadi..even if their bahu is akshara...what happens is that ppl. start taking u for granted and in the end u feel ur being used...we THINK that ppl. change but they don't, actually with time, the understanding comes, we LEARN to ignore (like ur mom said), that's adjustment which everybody does..may be with time we also start liking it, what we didn't like a few years back...i was a spoiled brat with i got married n nobody expected ke i'll manage a family but i did...my attitude my perspective changed..wohi toh, maturity aa jaati hai..but with time, not immediate and not by akshara's way...even if she does tons of gulabogiri, gayitri will not start loving her more than munna...after a period of time, you will be saying what i'm saying now 😆

it happened with my sister..when she got married, she was in full on gulabo mode 😆 she got everybody's praises, everyone was flattered , now after 5-6 years, she's so much in trouble bec. of this..bec. now she's not able to do gulabogiri coz of her health, after operation and baby n she HAS to...woh bhi all alone...she cannot work or leave the house, bas ghar raho aur ghar ka kaam karo..this is what her in laws thought she can do best and now it's extremely difficult to change the scenario ! her SIL is also getting married n nobody can be akshara, my sis. is not able to do anything alone when she's expected to...jo bhi karo, 10 logon ki advice lo phir karo, OMG what a ghutan bhari zindagi 🤢

ur mother gave a very good advice, my mom gave itne deadly advices to me ke main toh khatam ho jaati if i followed them...jahan jao saas se poochkar jao 😆 ( pehle i didn't like it but now i'm used to),baatein ignore karo..omg ! 🤢 ignore karna is tough specially if u feel strongly against something (ur mil 😆)...if i have to go to maayka, saas se poocho 😆 yeh toh i only noticed ke when my mom says something i never feel bad n when my saas says it, i dun like it...toh ab usually hota hai ulta...see, i also changed from payal to mini akshara 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
Good discussion Charu & Vini👏 Vini - abhi tho safar start hua hai. It's very natural the way you feel. Naya ghar, naye log; it takes time to get a feel for your surroundings. Charu has some wonderful advice that will come handy👍🏼


Shuru shuru mein you don't want to ruffle any feathers but at the same time you want don't want to take things to heart. Easier said than done I know. It's tough to get that balance & comes only with time & maturity. Latter you have plenty, so no worries there😊 Pehle thoda jhelna padtha hai but at the same time you do not want to give the feeling ki you are a soft target😆 Mera funda is simple don't mess with me, I won't mess with you...🤣 No confrontation, just passive aggressive. My body language says it all...😆


Maa-beti relationship is a dream. We have all heard it & believed it too😲😆 Wah, meri sasuma thinks I am her daughterThose were the naive & stupid days...🤣Yeh sab bolne ki lines hai bus. Shikayat karna has never helped, you got to deal with it your way. Guys get tired of it way too soon & let's face it it's their mom😊 You have to learn to deal with it, hur baar Munna nahi aayega aur aana bhi nahi chahiye coz it's your home too😉


Charu is right, tumse jitna ho sake utna karo. Koyi medal nahi milne wala hai, only poor health😆 If you have an opportunity to work outside of home, pursue it. As much as I hate waking up & going to work, I know I am sane because of it...🤣It opens up your horizon, there is an air about you & petty squabbles ke liye time bhi nahi hai...😃 Not everyone can work because of their individual circumstances but if you can you should do it. My stay home mom drilled this in us since childhood & I can confidently say, she was so right!
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