HE lied, SHE lied, they BOTH lied

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Posted: 14 years ago
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hallelujah 🤗

SHE lied
on two occasions; one when payal & buaji questioned her about the vrat, she kept her silence and carefully bluffed saying everything went well where as her vrat was broken by mr. raizada himself. secondly, when payal questioned her about the sunday office stroll, she anxiously replied saying nothing and blurted out her desire to go back to luknov

da kushi we all know hides nothing from his jiji but on da above mentioned occasions, she did. but why? is it to prevent her sister getting paranoid or saving da entity, who btw is responsible for her distress and trauma? she never lies to her family, but why did she change her truthful nature for his sake? what does he mean to her?


HE lied
when blah asked whether he was ok and if somebody said anything after his blow out at da store room, he barked back sayin nobody dares to tell him anything which is another big fat lie since kushi had da guts to speak up and ignore him

da arnav we all know always hides his emotions and a highly reserved creature. but so far, amidst controversial/troublesome situations, he has either completely hid everything OR confessed his actions to at least his sister. but what made him lie to blah about his encounter with kushi? is it cuz blah is non existing in his life? OR he does not wish to acknowledge being ignored or defeated by kushi?


so da big question is why do people lie?
"It's tied in with self-esteem," says University of Massachusetts psychologist Robert Feldman. "We find that as soon as people feel that their self-esteem is threatened, they immediately begin to lie at higher levels."

so what's ur take on this?? why did these two lie??!?!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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"We find that as soon as people feel that their self-esteem is threatened, they immediately begin to lie at higher levels."

IF Khushi told truth , Payal n Bua may get agitated once again...end up in cursing him...which she did not want happen...simply saving him(cause she likes him)...which s nt going 2 accept in near future...
Same fr hiding her vrat fiasco(not really 😳 )...strong attraction...she s losing herself sumwhere in his eyes... which she hasn't discovered yet r do nt want 2 accept...dats y she s running away frm him...

IF ASR tells truth...all will know dat sumbody had guts 2 talk against him...a big blow 2 his self esteem...The quote applies 2 ASR very well...V all know he s strongly attracted (needs mention?!)...so it s a mix of both...

wait, ASR has already hurted Khushi's self esteem 2 the maximum level...so the mix goes well for her too...

Moral: Wen u strongly disagree sumthing deep down u r accepting it...

Well I have a strong belief dat even aftr both accepting love they r not going 2 b dawn 2 dusk, romantic talk couple...They r gng 2 b Junglee cats...Can't blame them...Junglee cats luv in dat way only...showing their care by screaming loudly!

@ blue- This s my wish...even nt fulfilled OK with me! Anything fr Arnie!

did i make any sense?! hope u r nt irritated with my rant! sry fr such ridiculous post!!
Edited by cindrella255 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ NaDzGirl : hey you are very good at psycholgy.. 👏

good point you noted .. actually they are not only lying to others but also to themselves..!!! especially ASR cos he has already fallen in love with khushi but is simply behaving rudely with her for no reason..

and about khushi, she has to stop running first to realize that she has feelings for him...

so both of them are lying 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Beautiful topic Nadz! 🤗
You're so right! People tend to lie when their self-esteem is threatened.
For Arnav, he simply can't accept the fact that a small town girl like khushi, who is no match to him, dared to speak up against him and the decisions made by him. He just can't digest the fact that she dare say to his face that she doesn't want to listen to whatever he has to say. His ego has been hurt. Big time! He wouldn't wanna let his di know that something like that has happened to him. It would be a shame as he keeps telling to everyone that no one has dared to answer him back, till today.
Khushi, a person that has never hidden anything from her jiji has been compelled to lie to her today. She's in a world of confusion right now. I feel, she may be in a state of denial. Denying the facts, denying that she might have feelings for this laad governer. She doesn't know what to do so she probably feels that it's better to keep it all under a blanket and try to run away from it.
But too bad darling, you aren't going anywhere because those feelings aren't leaving you anywhere!
Two liars lying under two different circumstances. Wonder where life's gonna take them. 😍
Love's coming after you guys! ❤️
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Posted: 14 years ago
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di 👍🏼
they lived on several other occasions as in:
everytime they say "NOTHING" when someone asks them if all is fine..
sigh* there is always a big "NOT OK" behind every "OK"
so he lied, she lied, he fell for her, she fell for him (future track😉)
and "WE" fall for "THEM"!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: cindrella255

haiya Nadzz! seems Arhi r refusing 2 get out ur minds n let u work in peace for sumtime!

well bout ur post rite nw m confused😕 😕 can't think anything bout their behaviour! will edit later!


dats ok doll i can totally emphasize ur state rite now 😉
share ur thoughts later adios for now 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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awww what a post ya...👏

yep u right dear...they both r lying to all & to each-other also...but u knw I like that ya...whn they r lying...they looks sooo sweet...coz they don't knw hw to lie...as I think...😆😆😆


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: siri25

@ NaDzGirl : hey you are very good at psycholgy.. 👏

good point you noted .. actually they are not only lying to others but also to themselves..!!! especially ASR cos he has already fallen in love with khushi but is simply behaving rudely with her for no reason..

and about khushi, she has to stop running first to realize that she has feelings for him...

so both of them are lying 😆


call me nadz & hi siri 🤗

@bold
yup agree with u!! both are trying to escape from their feelings without giving it a thought to understand y. both of them are running away from da reality for their own obvious reasons. one does not like to accept da defeat whereas da other one does not like to acknowledge any kindness
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Posted: 14 years ago
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lmao..you're right dear..since its a shady love-story,i think they're meant to lie,since their feelings wont come out in the open soon..😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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in addition to what Noorie has said Nadzz, I think it is a refusal to acknowledge that they matter to one another deeply, that their presence is of greater significance than they r willing to give..if they state the truth, then they would have to acknowledge the fact that they are greatly attracted to the other...have to accept that they have an important spot in their life ...and right now both r pig headed about it n hence the lie..

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