sumitra ka G ko lecture

i jus loved the epi where sumitra makes G realize tht she is just jagya's lust no love her real love is anandi..the way she says tht ..jagya ko to anandi ne maut ke mu se kheech kar laya hai...jagya to tumhare liye uttaran (bheekh )hai...anandi aur jagya bachpan se saath hai..i really feel tht sumitra has done a v gud job by showng G the mirror...G iss bhram mein hain ki J loves her but the reality is tht J loves only anandi no one else frm d childhood he is with anandi...(to G)- tmhe to J ke saath sirf 5 -7 saal hue hain par anandi bachpan sre uske saath hain ...tum sirf jagya ki chaahat ho...anandi ne J ke liye sar pe bullet khayi thi woh jagya se itna pyaar karti hai ki uske liye usne apni jaan ki parvah tak nahi ki...

and the way G was crying ...her flow of tears was endless...i reallly like sumitra fr supporting her anandi not jagya ...this is calld a real woman one who can sympathise with another woman's feelings not one ho is blinded in son's love ...i wanted G TO CRY SOME MORE ... G itni selfish hai ki usne kabhi kisi aur ke baare mein nahi socha ..always says try to understand me ...(...understand kare meri juuti)...and her dilaogue ...''JIS RISHTE KI NEV KISI KE AASU PAR BANYI GAYI HO WOH RISHTA KABHI SAFAL NAHI HOTA''..maa ki haaii kabhi barbad nahi jaati...

G PLS LEAVE havelli ...u knw very well tht u cann't adjust with them so y all this nautunki ...G MEIN to elders se baat karne ki tameez bhi nahi hai

anandi isn't v educated yet she is v well manerred par G itni well mannered hone ke baad bhi battameezi se baat kartio hai ...gusse mein dining table se uth ke chali jaati hain ...ghar ki izzat uchalti hai...bhaad mein jaye aisi education aur aisi GAURI

IS MY POST SO BAD

Hey I don't think that your post is bad but just probably a bit strong and i guess most of these issues are already discussed in various posts well i would like to add one point however which I guess Sumithra said i accept is very true...After staying seprate for five years Anandhi's and Jagya love stayed intact and so called love between Gauri and Jagya's love happend just because they spent time together probably they are just comfortable together and the extreme steps that J and G took to marry overnight was just need to get back trust on name of marriage and have the comfortlevel once again.

I totally agree the only Jagya is fault that Gauri was manipulated but even then she has no right to even dream that the family about hwich she never worried till financial issues came and till she married should support her.

Moreover whatever may Jagya claim that he never loved Anadhi and would never go back to her even if Gauri had refused it doesn't make any sense when Gauri accuses and fights with Anandhi unreasnoble. thats totally sefl centred and sensless and proves she is insensitve to others and thinks of only herself her physical, monetary and emotinal needs.

I agree self help is best help and we should always think place our intrests before othe but not ONLY about our wishes regardless of others pain and expect them accept the pain...

somtimes it looks like Gauri wants Anandhi to say "Gauri!!! you are more beautiful, modern and educated than me so tell me what to do should i be your maid or just move out of this house which is my home for sixteen years"

She seems totally insenitive to Anandhi's plight which angers me and i guess everybody in this forum!!!!