bani 1st luv for jai????? - Page 2

Originally posted by: marvelous.malks

I suppose that for both Bani and Jai it was only and only infatuation. Puskhar considered Bani a very sweet friend, and Bani thought this friendship was love. Her feelings for Pushkar was shown like only for a day or two. 😊
About Pia and Jai i never considered it to be love. It was just a infatuation for Jai also. Like, Pia was the only person who like talked to him like that, and she was pretty and everything so he was pulled to her. And sorry, i forgot about Roshni. I don't know what their relationship is about, but once again i am sure that it wasn't TRUE love, real love. From the kind of character Roshni is shown to be, anything is possible - wheater it was love, or attraction..who knows?

Thats what i think, correct me if its not right.

Cheerz
Mallika-
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hey!!....mallika...........no way dear u r so not wrong........😛

i must say luv the way u ans.....the question.......very well put..........AWSOME!!!!👏

Originally posted by: loranlee4u

I TOTALLY agree wit u LISA. now that u mention it i also think that Jai only had a strong "like" sort of feeling for Pia and will soon find out that its BANI he loves... i cant wait fer all this... I REALLY CANT 😳 😆 😉

hehe......same here.........i m getting so desperate........n hyped at the same time thinking bout it...........hehe..........lolz.........LMAO😆

I think that Bani had a very strong crush / infatuation on Pushkar....but she never really "loved" him...Pushkar is her best friend, someone who was always there for her, someone who supported her blindly when she was down and out, someone who teased her, made her laugh, pulled her leg....you know a best buddy! And Pushkar was also the first person she met, of her own age group, when she came to Mumbai...and considering he is good-looking, charming and a guy with a golden heart, it was but obvious, that Bani would be attracted to him...after all she is also a very young girl! But as soon as Pia came into the picture, Bani backed off instantly, one because Pushkar became Pia's choice and secondly she realized that Pushkar only sees her as a friend and nothing else! Also, Bani never saw the negative side in Pushkar, only his goodness! But the moment he back-stabbed Jai and ran off with Pia, all the respect that Bani had in her heart for Pushkar also went away....she is in good terms with Pushakr only for the sake of her sister and not because she still holds a Candle for Pushkar! Bani is the sort of person, who can never love a person whom she doesn't respect and I am pretty sure, after what Pushkar has done to Jai and to her (by betraying her friendship) she does not respect Pushkar anymore! Hence, there is no question of love, if she ever did love him!

But with Jai, the whole scenario changes, Bani has always had immense respect and admiration for Jai and still does, despite the immature and irrational behaviour he is putting up. Bani is completely in awe of Jai, almost to the point of worship!

Bani has seen only Jai's negative, vicious and villanious side till now after her marriage with him, yet she could not stop herself from losing her heart...that means, she has come to accept Jai with all his negativity and yet love him! If you can love a person when he is at his worst, that truly means you are in Love1 😳

As far as Jai is concerned, Roshni was obviously not on Jai's list of priorities and the reason why he is still stuck up on Pia is not because he is in love with her, rather because of the hurt and pain she has left him with! If Pia had broken off normally with Jai or just plain rejected his proposal, then Jai would have taken that rejection in a much positive sense and wouldn't have made others life and his own such a living hell...hence, I don't think that Jai really loved Pia, because when you truly love someone, you automatically wish the best for that person and want to see her / him happy...but this is not the case with Jai, he cannot see Pia happy at all!

Jai's realtion with Bani is the strongest he has shared with any of the women in his life, the very foundation of their torrential relationship is based on an immense, blind trust and faith in one another (agreed that Jai is temporarily blinded, but overall, he has really trusted Bani, more than even Pushkar)...but we would have to wait and watch till he falls in love with her to comment on his feelings for Bani!

Love,

MT

wow!!!!..MT......i just luved the way u viewed the topic.....great analyzation 👏 👏 ....funny i never thought of it tht way 😳 😳 .....n thtz k cuz we got u to help us understand the wonderful meaning behind the relationship 😳 ......really i got to give it to u.........i luv ur ways of think 👏 👏 👏 ....u rock 😳 😳

n ur rite....the relation b/w jai n bani isn't only of luv...but also trust n faith in each other......it is indeed the most strongest relationship 😊 😳 ....n i guess u r rite bout waiting n watching till jai falls in luv w/ bani to comment on his feeling for bani......(now if only i cud b patient enough....hehe😳 😆 )

thxxxx......later!!!

luv, lisa 😉 😊 😛