Stress , Worries & Bahus !!!! :)

Rajni loves both Disha & Suhana both as sisters . Now , There is problem with Inder's Job . This is very common . Inder will b very worried for Future as he has a wife & child to support . If & When he looses his job , He is going to b in lot of stress even after he finds another job . Stress is there as New job , New environment & U have to prove to ur new boss that U r worthy of ur job . It will also happen in future that inder brings stress from work home , gets angry with Rajni in small matters , rajni takes out her anger on someone else Meethi or Suhana . but this is a usual chain . Now that Rajni is worried , Inder is worried for their future ... They may not want to dampen the spirits of the family members the truth abt inder's job to family just yet . They might want to talk with each other first , before Family .
As from Precap , Inder must have let her know that he has lost his job . She must b shocked & suhana to come in . & Speak of This & That . While poor Rajni here is unable to wrap her head around what just happen !!!!! So she is not going to b able to concentrate on Suhana !!!! Now Rajni is shocked , Wanted to cry or something . she is going to leave the room . It's not Rude . She wants time to collect her self , organize her thoughts before Inder comes home. He is going to need support from her . She can't fall apart in front of Inder as he is already down . If rajni is going to fall apart , she is going to fall apart alone . Nothing new here . Rajni is going to do everything to lift Inder's spirit .


Disha is suffering from her fair share of problems . New Changed Ilesh is scarring her . Every big things starts with small things . Today he is drinking once in a blue moon , Next he is drinking 2- 3 days a week , next everyday ... So her worry for ilesh is valid . Another problem is , She is trying to conceive for a long time . Now I m not a mother but I can try to understand what's happening inside Disha's head . Disha each months hopes that this is that month . It's gonna happen . Nothing happens . She thinks something is wrong with her . That's Y this is happening !!!!! It's her fault or something . She wants to b a mother more than anything !!!! She loves Meethi too but This will b her own Flesh & Blood . It 's different feeling as I don't know .
Like today , Suhana said Disha needs to entertain her [ I m sure Jokingly ] but It hurt Disha . She must have took that as an insult . Disha was upset already , somewhat lost to her problems . She needs time to understand , her situation , decide on what her actions r going to b . Heart Broken is the word as she has to go through of not getting the wanted result every month. Try to imagine , It kills U slowly . Eats U alive .

Suhana wants to make for the lost time with Ishan . She wants to do everything it takes to make Ishan happy . I get that but Sometimes it's not just abt ur husband . When U make ur Husbands family happy , U instantly become their Favorite too . Many times In-Laws goes to ur hubby & tells him to take good care of their bahu as she is such a sweetheart !!!!! Try it sometime , It's worth the trouble . It's never abt Suhana a bad person . It's abt learn so much abt ur family . People U live with . Like today , Suhana said Disha needs to entertain her [ I m sure Jokingly ] but It hurt Disha . She must have took that as an insult . Disha was upset already , somewhat lost to her problems . She needs time to understand , her situation , decide on what her actions r going to b .
I m not against Suhana , but as They r all going through problems , Last thing on their [ R & D ] on their mind is to explain everything to Suhana . or tell her what happen !!!!! I m sure , When Suhana learns the R & D's problems ... She is going to stand by them like they did with her . But until then V have to keep our faith in Writers , R & D . as they r not out to make / Picture Suhana wrong !!!! They r just dealing with their problems like any other person on the planet .

But I have only 2 problems with Suhana's character . Other wise , I like her .

1 ] Y she always needs someone to explain things to her ?

2 ] Y she doesn't use her own mind ?

V r all allowed to have our POVs but plz do it in civilized manner . some of us thinks that Suhana needs to b teach a lesson or She is a bad person .No one of r saying those things !!!! So plz calm down . No need to get ready to defend Suhana or start a war on behalf of her . This r my POVs so agree or dis-agree , U choose . I don't mind .

I feel for Rajni and Disha , both have genuine problems which they can't share with anybody as at the moment they themselves don't know what to do and how to react, Suhana is happy , bless her heart , she should be, she is enjoying her life that's good she deserves it, but Rajni and Disha ate going through rough patch so they can't entertain or attend her , there is nothing wrong about it, if people would remember, Suhana came back from Sid and gave out to Rano because her own mind was disturbed , she didn't mean to hurt Rano but because she was under so much pressure and tension she gave out, just giving an example not justifying anybody, I am sure once Suhana would know what's bothering them she would help them. But it is strange that a person like Suhana who use to sense other people,s sadness! May be when we are happy and top of the world we can't see misery of others, that's why not many rich people can feel the pain of poor people( not saying that Suhana is one of them , for goodness sake no way just giving an example)
There is another thing which is interesting, Alok,s family is enjoying life and very happy , MashaAllah !! Ishaan, Suhana, Rano , Alok, Ishika, perfect family picture, but in the same house Dada, Dadi, Badi Maa, inder, Rajni, Ilaish and Disha are going through very rough time emotionally, at the moment nobody else has picked it up that there is something is not right, I guess we would see that.
I agree with Netri , we are not Anti Suhana at all , nor we are blaming her for anything as she haven't done anything wrong , she is just failing to sense the tension, because after a ling time she is tension free! Please do disagree but humanely!!

Netri beautiful post... wonderful... all in all... very well said...👏👏 I like your perspective...😊

Loving everyone's posts here 👏...and I'm glad this track is giving us quite some interesting things to talk about.

Strangely enough, the elders conveniently disappear and then reappear !!! I don't understand this funda!!!! What ever suits CV, we have to just take it and bring apnay matlab ke baat from it to discuss, as I feel that the writer sometimes even writes things themselves but fail to see what we take things out from it !!!!😆

That's what I mean di. It's all very well pointing at Suhana but she's not the only living there. Where are the people who are meant to have so much understanding and so much skills to deal with such matters? In any family whether it's reel or real, it is the elders who are the guiding forces but in SGP again, they are no where to be seen when it matters most!

Talking about chores though, what I would also like to know what does RB/Rano/BM and Dadiji do all day? If cooking is done by Rajni and Disha then surely it doesn't take that many of them to the rest of the chores and surely they could prepare some of the meals too!

In OBS they showed the elder ladies more in the kitchen, cooking or chopping way, even Dadi was shown helping BM/RB cook, so I don't know why they've only shown R&D making meals in SGP?