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Posted: 19 years ago
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Although i dont think tha Pia turned out to be a bad human being but no one can deny that she is a spoilt brat,😉 which is cute most of the times and for a life style of millionaires! But unfortunately she is not one and she aint married to a one.

So here comes the sad part that she has to do stuff which "common" people do. Anywayz i saw many people being surprised by the fact that she doesnt do all of these chores. Believe me there r a lot of people like her. Have u ever watched "Newly weds Nick and Jessica" Jessica simpson is one of them whose chores were done by her husband.😆 😆 😆

To the Bani part ya. I totally tink Bani spoilt Pia. Because of MS Bani's sacrifising nature she wasnt able to teach Pia any of the silly Middle Class Values. Bani sacrifised all her way through to Spoil Pia and make her a brat. If and only If she wud have given a tight slap to her little sis then Pia wud have known how to do these chores.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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that's true...but there are also some things that a person has to realise by themselves...

For example, me and my sister have been brought with exactly the same values...but i do everything that my parents tell me (honest!) whereas my sister is spoilt and always gets her own way...no matter what it is, or how expensive it is, she gets it!! But, sometimes when i'm busy, and my mum's busy, my sister's the first one to do the housework...she's not asked to do it, but she does it herself cause she realises that it's her resonsibility...

that's how Pia should be...she needs to realise now she's married, and she can't expect someone like Bani to bend over backwards every time to fulfill her wishes!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: nibbles

that's true...but there are also some things that a person has to realise by themselves...

For example, me and my sister have been brought with exactly the same values...but i do everything that my parents tell me (honest!) whereas my sister is spoilt and always gets her own way...no matter what it is, or how expensive it is, she gets it!! But, sometimes when i'm busy, and my mum's busy, my sister's the first one to do the housework...she's not asked to do it, but she does it herself cause she realises that it's her resonsibility...

that's how Pia should be...she needs to realise now she's married, and she can't expect someone like Bani to bend over backwards every time to fulfill her wishes!

i AGREE WITH YOU...ME AND MY SISTER ARE THE SAME

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Posted: 19 years ago
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wow!!!...nice thinking suku 😉 .....but itz not bani's fault either.....i mean she is the big sis......n thtz y she took resposibility for her sis.n always wants to c them happy.....ssacrificing her ways n her happyness for them 😊

n so tru i agree w/ ya nibbles.....sumtimes a person should realize things by themselves....pia is grown enough to understand certain things.....but no she alwayz want everything her way....she is too depended on others to do the hard labor for her.....n if she ever needs nething.....she doesn't even think twice to go ask bani for help....(poor bani can't c her sis unhappy n thus can't say no to her sis either 😭 😊)
Edited by KHJL - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Nibbles, you are such a cutu-pie 😃 That is you in your Avi, right?....I am still searching for a decent pic of mine to put up...

I agree with both Suku and Nibs and PinkPanther and KHJL....agreed that Bani has been responsible in spoiling Pia, since she says herself that she is Pia's Mother and not Sister and as a Parent, it is your Primary responsibility to give the right guidance and show the correct path to your child, and there Bani might have failed!

But ultimately, we are all responsible for our lives.....and if Pia's marriage breaks up in future because of her immaturity, it would have to do everything with herself and nothing with Bani! We all have to grow up in life sometime or the other...and that onus lies on us and not on our Parents / Guardians!

Almost every child gets spoilt by his / her parents, but not all of them turned out to be "spoilt brats"...now that is a choice we as an individual have to make!

Nibs, you look like a true life Bani from your pic itself!😃 Good girl...and hey, you look really young....like 13 or so!😕

Love,

MT
Edited by mistletoe - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: nibbles

that's true...but there are also some things that a person has to realise by themselves...

For example, me and my sister have been brought with exactly the same values...but i do everything that my parents tell me (honest!) whereas my sister is spoilt and always gets her own way...no matter what it is, or how expensive it is, she gets it!! But, sometimes when i'm busy, and my mum's busy, my sister's the first one to do the housework...she's not asked to do it, but she does it herself cause she realises that it's her resonsibility...

that's how Pia should be...she needs to realise now she's married, and she can't expect someone like Bani to bend over backwards every time to fulfill her wishes!



. My sister and are like that too. 😃

And where cooking goes for Pia, I wonder when in MT. Abu, Bani wasn't there, who cooked? Her Dad?

It's Pia's responsibility now, to learn. It's never too late.
When my aunt got married she didn't know how to cook, either. But she took the time to stay in the kitchen with her mother-in-law and learn.
And if she isn't interested in cooking, she could help by doing the dishes, setting the table, or just cleaning up the house. That wouldn't give anybody in the house a chance to complain.



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Posted: 19 years ago
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Yes i wrote this like so many times!! lolzz so here it goes once again!!

Bani definitely pampered pia too much and that's why pia is so dependant on bani!! But now that she is married, she has responsibilities of her own.

Bani will not always be there to show pia what's right and wrong. I personally like pia's character and yes people made it loooooooook horrible!! lolzz!! i was tired of writing "do not offend" hahaha!!

But pia herself is a great character and if it wasn't for pia, then bani and jai wouldn't be together!! (ehh i always wanted to see bani and ranveer lolzz).. well what happens, happens for the best!!

If pia does leave her married life, then it will not be bani's fault! because now she is a married woman and not a child anymore that someone will pampered her. Like bani said, that pia is very nice from her heart and you just have to make her understand! so yes, i hope everything turns out good between pia-jai-bani-pushy!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: mistletoe

Nibbles, you are such a cutu-pie 😃 That is you in your Avi, right?....I am still searching for a decent pic of mine to put up...

I agree with both Suku and Nibs and PinkPanther and KHJL....agreed that Bani has been responsible in spoiling Pia, since she says herself that she is Pia's Mother and not Sister and as a Parent, it is your Primary responsibility to give the right guidance and show the correct path to your child, and there Bani might have failed!

But ultimately, we are all responsible for our lives.....and if Pia's marriage breaks up in future because of her immaturity, it would have to do everything with herself and nothing with Bani! We all have to grow up in life sometime or the other...and that onus lies on us and not on our Parents / Guardians!

Almost every child gets spoilt by his / her parents, but not all of them turned out to be "spoilt brats"...now that is a choice we as an individual have to make!

Nibs, you look like a true life Bani from your pic itself!😃 Good girl...and hey, you look really young....like 13 or so!😕

Love,

MT

so tru MT.......i agree....every child gets spoiled by his/ her parents......n if ne thing does happen to pia's marriage.......it wud b all her fault.........not bani's😳

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: girly_arshxoxo

Well come to think of it Bani didn't actually aim to spoil Pia she just wanted to fulfill her parents dreams and they left so many responsiblities on Bani so she had to cope with all of them though point taken a way of 'not accusing bani' It's actually as nibbles said that some people have to realize things like this theirselves I mean Pia can't always depend on Bani although she wants to live her own life then I don't why she's actually depending on her sis 😕 😡 Actually I thought that Rano should've been the spoilt one as she's the youngest but here Pia the middle sis is 😕 Rano more mature than Pia at least she knows the difference between what's right and what's wrong 😃 And about that Bani should've given Pia a hard tight slap well she did 😆 Remember when KS began Bani slapped Pia about 5 times so Pia could get some sense but like they say some people just don't get it 😆 😆 and Piaz one of them 😡

lolz hun............but i agree w/ ya 100 n 1%......hehe😆😆.........so tru..........pia will never understand.......

oh! yea btw gud 1.....wow!!!!......i forgot bout the part ......when bani actually slaped pia..........wow!!!!.......can't believe tht didn't help put ne sense in pia's head........😆..GOSH wat will we do w/ this gurl😆

Edited by KHJL - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: girly_arshxoxo

yh exactly i hate PIA!🤢😡

same here.......😳😛

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