Be frank and tell the reason...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know even while typing the post that i will see lots of views but very few response, becoz of the nature of the topic. But seriously why are there so less number of the people iam so habituated to see making posts here now a days????
Before procceding i will really like to request, plz refrain from bashing anybody personally...discuss all u like but without being rude abt it...
I got so many PMs asking why now a days i too have started being so infrequent to the forum... so many people have left the forum...
I too have noticed that, i don't know abt the others, but i have two reasons for that_________
The first one is harmless enough to disclose...i have my finals from the 20th,
But it is the second reaon, which is in one hand is so stupid, so illiogical and so utterly against my nature that iam not just apprehensive of saying it out loud, but am scared too that people will start fighting becoz of that...
What the heck, i stopped after GC got the tattoo...
Why ?? not becoz he loves his wife and he wanted to show it to those who were deliberately badmouthing him or infringing in his private life, but becoz, there are some fans like me who just love him as he is...who are not concerned that he is married , as we can conveniently forget abt this one fact and dont give him any probs too...he didn't stop to think abt us.Since the day i have joined IF everyone knows what i feel abt him, but now i feel as if what does it make me, thinking such things abt someone else's husband?
This thought didnt come on so strongly before he got that tattoo, so as i said iam being stupid.U can say, he is jst an actor doing a role on the screen, but then for me the reel and real have a very fine thin line, which at times doesn't matter. I have been thinking abt this for quite some time now and then thought, why not write it down, there might be someone out there who will understand what i mean.
Joyti if this goes out of hand plz close the topic...
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Craziest_MG thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I understand your feelings dear... It happens with most of us...but we too have to accept the fact that maan is not in real...i know its hard to accept this...n GC is not at all like maan...even m try to convince myself...dont be disheartened.

all the best for your exams...
N plz dont ever think of leaving this forum...n right now geet forum needs us.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Na, leaving the forum didn't enter my mind, i just didn't come into it...this is the one place where this craziness makes sense. Iam such a movie buff, but all those handsome hunks stay on the screen, but GC has someone jumped down from there and into my mind which in itself is so unlike me... sometimes i hate that day in the airport.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree and i understand dear
don't regret anything dear. somethings are not in our hand.
things are so simple but sometimes we make it complicated..😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: khushi_4ever

I know even while typing the post that i will see lots of views but very few response, becoz of the nature of the topic. But seriously why are there so less number of the people iam so habituated to see making posts here now a days????

Before procceding i will really like to request, plz refrain from bashing anybody personally...discuss all u like but without being rude abt it...
I got so many PMs asking why now a days i too have started being so infrequent to the forum... so many people have left the forum...
I too have noticed that, i don't know abt the others, but i have two reasons for that_________
The first one is harmless enough to disclose...i have my finals from the 20th,
But it is the second reaon, which is in one hand is so stupid, so illiogical and so utterly against my nature that iam not just apprehensive of saying it out loud, but am scared too that people will start fighting becoz of that...
What the heck, i stopped after GC got the tattoo...
Why ?? not becoz he loves his wife and he wanted to show it to those who were deliberately badmouthing him or infringing in his private life, but becoz, there are some fans like me who just love him as he is...who are not concerned that he is married , as we can conveniently forget abt this one factand dont give him any probs too...he didn't stop to think abt us.Since the day i have joined IF everyone knows what i feel abt him, but now i feel as if what does it make me, thinking such things abt someone else's husband?
This thought didnt come on so strongly before he got that tattoo, so as i said iam being stupid.U can say, he is jst an actor doing a role on the screen, but then for me the reel and real have a very fine thin line, which at times doesn't matter. I have been thinking abt this for quite some time now and then thought, why not write it down, there might be someone out there who will understand what i mean.
Joyti if this goes out of hand plz close the topic...



Well, Khushi !

First of all, you said BE FRANK, so I am being FRANK now ! I hope it does go well...

You raised the topic which I avoided as much as I could, but I read your post and I just could not control !

You know, you stopped after this whole tattoo issue, I left or almost left it after his marriage coz at that time I read many nasty things about him that I just could not see it anymore, neither I could keep quiet so best option was...Leaving.

Trust me, even I got the PMs about why I am not making many posts like I used to do before and what is wrong with me ? And, I say...Nothing is wrong with me but the place here !

And the lines I bolded in Blues is EXACT my feelings, I never care about his personal life as I just love him like anything, so it really does not affect me when he goes for tattoo or marries, or praising his wife...coz he is giving me what I want, truly and honestly !

And, recently, I noticed drastic change in people, the same people who called him Professional when he was Sick, Down with Malaria, Got Injured shoulder, ate Mirchis and all that...at that time he was being praised by such people like they loved him like anything...and then he got married and then...he was Unprofessional and top of all, the same people asked him to leave the show coz he was being unprofessional ! 😲

After that I decided to move out, coz this was my limit, I can not snap back coz GF and mods want peace and I could not control myself, so better option was TO LEAVE !

And, my personal another reason was also there, I can't say this to you, but all in all, I chose " I, Me and Myself " over GHSP...and stepped back !

And, then this CM thing happened and I came to know about this ranking, I am not saying I am back...I am just trying ! But...All in all I can say one thing without any doubt is that, THIS WAS NOT THE SAME PLACE WHERE I REGISTERED, before few months ! 😭 And, it never will be the SAME !

I am sorry for being this much FRANK, but what to do, this is how I feel !


Maddy



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Posted: 14 years ago
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ya me too feels like that but i hve convinced myself through that GC is the real life hero of someone else but as a person or human being he is so good n i also love n honor him for that reason .. As concerned Maan's character he is my dream man so when i like to plunge in my dream land or want to feel happy from inner side i think n imagine him as real in my dreams but also have a strong sense that it can't be possible that some one could be like Maan in that real world if it could be possible than it should be one and only GC because we love n imagine Maan 's personality which could be possible due to GC .. so don't be dishearted n like me when ever u want to become happy just go along ur dream world n say n feel every thing there .one thing should be very clear regarding GC's personal life that we should not discussed it or at least very little some how we should feel happy n satisfaction in which GC feels happy n always keep praying for his happy n successful married life ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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the second reason is obvious to many female fans here but dear that is not a reason to stay out of the forum
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: khushi_4ever

<font color="#cc0000" size="4">Na, leaving the forum didn't enter my mind, i just didn't come into it...this is the one place where this craziness makes sense. Iam such a movie buff, but all those handsome hunks stay on the screen, but GC has someone jumped down from there and into my mind which in itself is so unlike me... sometimes i hate that day in the airport.</font>


Same here...GC has entered our hearts and mind too...just cant help it...n plz start new topics the way you use to do earlier...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: geetlover1

ya me too feels like that but i hve convinced myself through that GC is the real life hero of someone else but as a person or human being he is so good n i also love n honor him for that reason .. As concerned Maan's character he is my dream man so when i like to plunge in my dream land or want to feel happy from inner side i think n imagine him as real in my dreams but also have a strong sense that it can't be possible that some one could be like Maan in that real world if it could be possible than it should be one and only GC because we love n imagine Maan 's personality which could be possible due to GC .. so don't be dishearted n like me when ever u want to become happy just go along ur dream world n say n feel every thing there .one thing should be very clear regarding GC's personal life that we should not discussed it or at least very little some how we should feel happy n satisfaction in which GC feels happy n always keep praying for his happy n successful married life ...



yeah i agree with you completely. i know maan is not in real but i don't know why he exists for me in real. this question never came in my mind that GC and maan are two different persons.
and about GC I never saw such person in my life. he is too good human being.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@kushi..i don't know whether i can give reply or not...but as a friend one thing i want to tell u dear...

what you think about GC/maan..its just a fantasy...which happen with most of the teenage girls...

you will get a better person in your life...better than maan...then why to waste ur love on some fictional characters...pile up ur love and give to that person who actually deserves it and who actually loves u with his true heart...

for this reason..plz don't stop coming to this forum...i miss ur lovely posts...


be happy dear...😊


and all the very best for ur exams👍🏼

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