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hazel ann tenia

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Posted: 14 years ago

i love this show but this leap suck. my reasons are. pavitra rishta is about manav who have next to nothing and because of that he does everything in his power for his wife. a down to earth guy but now he acting like dhamesh. money is everything. i never miss this show since it started but this leap i dont like it at all. glad for varsha and satish. was shock with vishali though still married to dhamesh i was like OMG. but happy for her though but dont like how they potraying manav and if this is what we have to look forward to then am not watching any more. just imagine i watching this last night and was cursing nah boy cv you guys shit up manav character

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xyzee

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree about being shocked about Vaishali and Dharmesh but not about Manav. Deep down they have shown that Manav's values have not changed at all and I would never ever compare him to the creep Dharmesh. His dream and ambition was to be successful, no harm in pursuing it - with all that he still has maintained his humility, courtesy and respect for relationships and went to visit his MIL with a gift on her B'Day. They even showed him being very patient with Archana and also feeling very guilty because he came home late when she was on Upvaas. Archana in my opinion is the non-understanding one and where is her strong faith in Manav and her encouraging nature? People need to understand that circumstances can change people some - not a 100% but to some extent change is inevitable. I can never disrespect Manav for pursuing his dreams and working hard and being determined to succeed. Kudos to him for that. Archana gave away her son for whatever reason, I have not seen that episode so can't comment. But why does she not do something else or pursue a career/hobby/volunteering work to spend her time meaningfully? That way she wouldn't feel so bored and lonely and neither would she complain so much.

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ptecvish

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Posted: 14 years ago

I think that Archana's problem is not how to pass time.

She is expecting some acknowledgement of her presence in Manav's life. I do not think she is totally wrong there. Has she lost the right to even protest? or communicate her feelings.

I do not think that she ever said thet she did not want Manav to succeed. Even when they were poor, Manav used to be away most of the time. It is only when a husband fails to keep up with the simplest of a wife's wishes, she starts questioning her place in his life.

Manav's priorities have clearly changed, as far as I can see. So why blame Archana all the time for everything?

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SunoNa123

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Posted: 14 years ago

Agree with ur post, MAnav seems totally changed, both money and love is equally important in life, right now he is just running behind earning more money but y?? i mean if that alone cant keep ur family happy..And archana is not wrong totally, she said from past 3 years this is what is happening, any wife wud react this wife, she has never put a break to manavs success, she has been supportive to him always, now she feels lonely and misses him and she is just reacting like how normally ppl do react when they are not acknowledged of their presence in somebodies life..

y blame her for everything??

The whole PR characters seems changed, neither manav and archana are same nor others, so many loop holes, dont know how ekta is gonna justify all this tracks

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xyzee

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: ptecvish
I think that Archana's problem is not how to pass time.
She is expecting some acknowledgement of her presence in Manav's life. I do not think she is totally wrong there. Has she lost the right to even protest? or communicate her feelings.

I do not think that she ever said thet she did not want Manav to succeed. Even when they were poor, Manav used to be away most of the time. It is only when a husband fails to keep up with the simplest of a wife's wishes, she starts questioning her place in his life.

Manav's priorities have clearly changed, as far as I can see. So why blame Archana all the time for everything?

We all expect our spouses to spend sometime with us - but surely she knew the kind of role Manav was taking?? Why encourage him in the start then? Yeah, she needs to spend her time so should she not try and find avenues to do that? She has certainly not lost her right to protest but she seemed unreasonable the last episode at least to me. ALL our husbands work hard and in many case the couple works hard - believe me my hubby is a surgeon and during his residency his hours were crazy. Would it have helped if I kept grumbling all the time? In many cases husbands travel a lot on work - that used to happen with my dad too but never did I hear my mom complain, in fact quite the opposite. She used to say "This is the age to work hard and pursue your dreams, so I will never advise you otherwise".

As for Manav's priorities having changed I beg to differ. We need to keep in mind where he comes from. Remember he has been very deeply hurt in the past and money or the LACK of it was the cause of that. How much humiliation he had to bear because of his lack of money - not only that he lost his unborn baby because of that. So, sorry I won't blame him if he makes money as one of his priorities - at least he is not like some greedy creeps who forget relationships, humility and respect once they reach a positon of power - on the contrary Manav is still a very sensitive, affectionate, honest and modest individual who values relationships. And to be successful in life, one has to work hard. I bet he is still the kind of individual who would go out of the way to help people in need. That has not changed. And if we can recognize that his wife should be able to as well.😊 Just IMHO.

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ptecvish

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Posted: 14 years ago

I still feel that Archana needs to express her feelings. i do not think she nagged him at all. She reminded him of the broken promise.

And I stll feel that manav's priorities seem to have changed. Im not saying it in the wrong sense ! Everyone understands the need to work hard, that is not being contested. But a gesture towards his wife/ family is also important. If it is one-off thing, then it is ok. But if it becomes a habit it may lead to some fissures in relationships which is not so ok.

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xyzee

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: ptecvish
I still feel that Archana needs to express her feelings. i do not think she nagged him at all. She reminded him of the broken promise.
And I stll feel that manav's priorities seem to have changed. Im not saying it in the wrong sense ! Everyone understands the need to work hard, that is not being contested. But a gesture towards his wife/ family is also important. If it is one-off thing, then it is ok. But if it becomes a habit it may lead to some fissures in relationships which is not so ok.

She sure does need to express her feelings but what put me off was her sarcasm. And if Manav's priorities have changed there was a reason for it - I guess I would too if I were hurt sooo badly and lack of resources/money was one of the reasons for it. People change, priorities change some, the only constant in the world is change. Some people don't realize that and expect that married life 10 years down the road will be the same as what it was for newly weds. If my expectations were that then I would be the most miserable person on earth. For me the quality time I spend matters, not the amount or number of hours I spend with my husband. Yes, he was very very wrong to keep Archana starving on her Vrath day and he acknowledges that. But to expect that he would be the same as what he was 5-6 years ago in the exact way of reacting is not totally right. We all have expectations and disappointments but the way she did it especially at her mom's place was surprising. And he has clearly explained why he is working the hours he has to. Four years is nothing in professional life - it often takes that much time to prove yourself and build anything for yourself. I wonder why she does not help him in his job - that would make everyone's lives' easier:-)) And yes, if tomorrow Manav does have an affair with Aashna, I will take back all my praise/empathy for him, that's for sure.😃

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rouble_lover

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Posted: 14 years ago

Lol.. you mean thoughts not taughts..lol 😆 lol

My "thoughts" on the leap..lol. not taughts.. lol.

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Swati

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Posted: 14 years ago

Manav is definitely not acting like Dharmesh

Manav's priorities have not changed but yes his way of living is definitely changed 😊

He is the same humble, down to earth and a genuine human being who loves Archu and Family 😊

The fact is he is not a mechanic to work in a restricted time 😃 Many people stay away from their families to earn money 😊 This doesnt make them inhuman or bad husband

Manav needed to change for better and he did 😊

But yes he should find a way to balance his personal and professional life 😊

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xyzee

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Swati_
Manav is definitely not acting like Dharmesh
Manav's priorities have not changed but yes his way of living is definitely changed 😊

He is the same humble, down to earth and a genuine human being who loves Archu and Family 😊

The fact is he is not a mechanic to work in a restricted time 😃 Many people stay away from their families to earn money 😊 This doesnt make them inhuman or bad husband

Manav needed to change for better and he did 😊

But yes he should find a way to balance his personal and professional life 😊

Saying this for the nth time - wish there were a love button:-)) Agree a 100% on all your points!

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