Originally posted by: sunaina02
I am not judging anyone by gender. I am just saying that be proud to be a woman or a girl . Never think you are less than a man.
If a mother thinks that she is less than her husband , then she will never be able to instill the pride in her girl-child .That is all.If you have thought that I hate men , then actually you are mistaken . I love men in all forms and kinds 😆
Oh, I never thought you hated men. Clearly from your signatures. 😳
Let us just say that we have different attitudes when it comes to our femininity. Yes, I love our creation, our differences from men, our curves, our softness and our ability to astound beyond our underestimation by men and women alike! The essence of being a woman; that which distinguishes us from men, their presence, like a gravitational force that can pulls you into orbit whereas women tend to have more of a feel, an aura or atmosphere that surrounds. The sly smile, that giggle, the bounce in our step, those flaps of our eyelids that can almost hypnotize, mesmerize.
I am not saying women are greater. I am saying that our greatness lies in our ability to be majestic yet endearing as we are enchanting, as we are haunting.
However it is not the root of my honour or pride. If I feel pride when compared to a man or others, then it stems from the basis of my heart. Although, I should mention I do not like the term pride, nor harbour it, I would prefer the phrase gratitude to God for the goodness He has bestowed upon me.
If I have a daughter I won't raise her to feel equal or proud based upon her gender and those qualities flowing from that but rather teach her to seek her honour, her estimation of herself from her character and from the nature of her heart.
However at the end of the day, we could say same difference for both our daughters would end up being confident. We both seek betterment, and we can not fault either of us there.
With much love, Sabah.