love just happens. it doesn't see the place, time, situation or anything else. it even doesn't matter your lover's incapability to handle the situation or weakness. there are many ways to express love. like silent love, express by word love, violent love etc. bani and jai share the silent love relation. the time when they god married, the situation in which they got married was the worse from both the side. bani married a man whom she never loved but respect a lot and same with jai who married a woman whom he never loved but respect a lot. former sacrificed her love for her sister while later ditched in love by former's sister and lover. so both went through a immense pain though the nature of pain was competely diff. and see, destiny bound them in a very holly relationship. but here jai and bani who are mature, having a understanding nature, respect each other and most importantely trust each other. there is nothing common between them yet they are together.😊 Now we can say its coz of masi. my ans.in No. masi enter very late. ya, coz of masi ther are coming more closer but what abide them is silent liking and love for each other.😊
if there wasn't such a factor, then why jai refused to give divorce to bani? coz he wanted to take revenge? no. if he wanted to he already did it. he always threatened bani to destroyed pia and pushkar but he never did. coz he knows bani is innocent. is jai gaining a happiness by hurting bani? no. on the contrary he is hurting himself. remember once he said "kash tum pia ki bahen na hoti" what was that mean? same with bani. why she still in walia house after bearing humiliation from jai? coz she knows his situation, the reason behind his pain. she also said "main apke dukh ko samaj ne lagi thi" that was that mean? she even about to forget the bad words jai had said to her. if she remember then she would not have performed her wifely duty or took care of him when they were alone in their room. we can't say its her nature. if so, then she will definetely leave jai alone.. she did coz she really care for him and love him. when you love a person, you start avoiding his mistake. jai also feel guilty for his bad word. he didn't say sorry yet but his expression say so. he already develope a love for bani but past experiance stop him to commit. he is afraid of loosing bani. therefor he keep distances from bani. but he can't succed. he saw godess laxmiji's reflection in bani and took blessing.
after seeing pia-pushkar in party, jai's completely emotional broke down, bani's support and comfert to him and his saying thanks to her next day by remembering all that, this shows nothing but a silent love between them. i notice tht after he threw his supress negetive feelings, jai on his way to become a original jai who never shout on bani. there was a drastic change in him while he was conversing to bani. he was very polite and soft. bani too feel this change. even in party with the entry of roshani, jai was confused and shocked but he was not avoding bani. when bani came to him and told him to go home, he was calm and hearing her as a husband. he wasn't angry tht why she came between him and roshani. all these shows a one way of expressing love for each other and that is silent love.
i think god is taking "agnipariksha" of both jai and bani. and when they will pass this exam, there will be a love like this between bani & jai. hereconsider "other" as jai & bani 😊
"if smile is a book, other gives a whole library,
"if hug is sim, other gives a talk time,
"if love is bike, other gives petrol,
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